处对象怎么处

 dajiagujidouyou lianai dejingliba，neimewomenzaizenyangchuduixiangfangmianyoujingyanma？ruguomeiyoudehuakeyikankanxiaobiandejianyi。xiaobianjiaonichuduixiangzenmechu，chuduixiangzenmeliaotian。

一、怎么处对象

1、要懂得花心思

 womengaizenmechuduixiang？yaozhuinvhaizi，dangranshouxianyaozhidaonvhaizideshoujihaoma，qici，jiushiyaoduitayouneigeyisila。 fageduanxin：shangcigenniliaotianhenyukuai，nengfouzaiciyaonichulailiaoliaotian？ zhuyishixiang：nvhaiziyaoshidayingle，yaozhaodedidianxufeidianxinsi，keyishibijiaoqingjingdejiuba，zanshibiequfanguan。zenmechuduixiang？fangfazhendehenzhongyao。

2、别忘了会短信

 yuewanhuihuijiazhihou，keqianwanbiewangjilefageduanxin：henizaiyiqiliaotianhenkuaile，qidainengzaicijiandaoni，zhuniwanan！ rangtazhidaonishigetiexinderen。diertian，nihaikeyifagehaoxiaodeduanxinjita。chuduixiangzenmeliaotianyeshiyigeyoufangfade。

3、多赞赏她

 nvhaizidoubijiaoaixurongyixie，pingshiyakeyifaxiezheiyangdeduanxin：jintianjiannidabanhentebie，feichangkeai。jiandaonijintianshifenpiaoliangdedaban，woyanzhuzidouyaodiaoxialaile。 bielinsenimeilidexingrong，yaoduomeiyouduomeidengdeng

4、不浮躁

 chuduixiangzenmechu？qianwanbunengfuzao。jiaowangdeguochengzhongbuyaotaijizao yaoyouzhangyouchi，buyaozhengtianchanzherenjia，sheizheiyangduini，niyehuini。woyougehaopengyouduiwoshuo，zhuinvhaizideguanjianshibagezi——“hulenghure、yuqinguzong”（zheishiwotongxueduoshaonianxinxuedejiejing）。 nizhengtianchanzherenjiaziranbujuedenihao，nishidangdelenggeyiliangtian，nvhaizijiuhuixiangqinizaidehaochule。 haiyoujiushibuyaonachu“feinibuqu”dezhiqilai，taidiaojialebuhao，youshihoukeyishuadianhuazhao。>> wanhuiniyongduifangfalema?6buzoujiaonizhenduixingwanhui

5、会创作机会

 yaoshidangdechuangzaojihui qianmianshuole，buyaoshishiqinglikebiancheng“nizaizhuibieren”，erniyouxuyaodedaojiejinnvhaizidejihui，zheishijiuyaokannidechuangzaolile。 nikeyisoujiqingbao，xiangbanfabashouzhudaitubianchengyichangxiehou；yekeyizhuangzuomanbujingxindezhaochuzuizuichongzudeliyouyaoqingduifangheniyiqizuoshenmeshi。 zongzhizheigeshizuiyoujishuhanliangdedifang，shizaibuxingkeyizhaoqianbeiqingjiao。

6、有礼貌

 zenmechuduixiang？yaoyoulimao。qiejiqieji：suibiansongrenjialiwushibulimaode youxierenzhuinvhaizixinqie，xihuanjingchangmaidongxisongrenjia，shubuzhizhuinvhaizizuijihuizheige。 suhuashuo“wugongbushoulu”，nizheiyangsongrenjiadongxijiushizaishijiayali，renjiahuijuedeqiannide，suoyihuixiangbanfahaijini，ruguomeibanfahaijinijiuhuixiangbanfabuhenijiaowang，miandezongshiqiannirenqing。 ruguonixiangxianshizijidechengyi，daobufangqingnvhaiziyiqixiaofei，birushuozhaohaodecantingchifan，huozhezhaoguidedifangyiqiwanshenmede，nvhaizizirannengkanchunihualehenduoqian，danqianzhongjiushilianggerenyiqihualeerbushibianchengdongxidaihuijia。

7、不要太呆板

 buyaotaizhengjing，danyebuyaotaisuibian gaizhengjingdedifangjiuzhengjing，gaidiaokandedeshihoujiudiaokan。 nvhaizidouxihuanyoudianwanshibugongdenanren，suoyibiexiandeduishenmedoutebiezaiyi，neiyangtaidaiban。zheixiedoushiyixieguanyuzenmechuduixiangdejiqiao。

8、成熟

yaoxiandechengshuyidian yushizhending、congrongbupodenanrenduimmyouzhimingdexiyinli。