和女生怎么主动聊天 与与陌生人聊天太尴尬

 zaidajiaderichangrichangshenghuo，herenxiangchushiyijianfeichangbubiandanyoupobudeyizuodeshier。dajiadoudanxinyu“zenyangyutarenxianliao”zheiyihuatitaolunshang，youyudoulejiehuixianliaoderentongchanggenghuobao。tebieshizaiyulurendiyicijiechudeqingkuangxia，zheiyizhuangkuangjiugengjiaxianzhu。henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian？

 youyuzhenduinishenpangzheixiezaoyixiangduixinglejienidereneryan，lurenduinibingbulejie，taduiniderenzhinenglizhiyoucongbiaomian、yanxingjuzhidengcengmianlaifenbian。yudiyicixiangyuderendiyijuhua，bianhuijitarenliuyoutaduinideyinxiang，henjiandandeyijuhua，danqueweihaishenda。

1、了解另一方喜欢什么

 jianxinjuedabufenrenquanshixiangyaohetarentaolunzishenxiaideshiqingde，yinciruguonihebierengoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，zuixianjiuyingdangxiangbanfahuozhilingyifangdeaihao，suihouzaixianhouzuoweilizudian，zhujiandajiadexianliao。jibianshizheixiebushanyanci、meifabiaoshuzishenderen，yidanpengchuzishenxiaidehuatitaolun，haikeyidakaixinfei。

 henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，zaiyuhenduorengoutongjiaoliushi，dajiayingdangtiaoxuandajiayouxingqudeshiqingzuoweihuatitaolun，yijiqitamendejiaotanchongdong。youyuzheileihuatitaolunshidajiaxiangshuo、aishuo、nengshuode。meiyigerendouyouhuahaoshuo，nenggoubiaoshuzishendejianjiehejianyi。dangran，huatitaolunnenggoukaizhanxialai，ranghenduorendepingjiahejianghuadoushihuichanshenggongming，congeryinqigongming

 ciwai，zailunwenxuantishang，yijudajiasuochuqingjingdebuyiyang，jiqilingyifangzhenshishenfenyingxianglidezhuanbian，doubixuxuanyongbuyiyangdefangfa，yizuodaoxiaoyizuidahua。jiaruyizhibuduanyongtongyizhao，neimabianhuifashengfangshiyurenyuqingjingyingxianglibuduidengdezhuangkuang，feichangrongyichuluanzi

 yinci，pengdaozheileizhuangkuang，nenggoujijizhangkouwenyiwenlingyifangdegerenaihao，pingchangdexiuxianhuodongzheixie。yaojilao，congrendebenxingdeshijiaoshanglaijiang，sheidoushihuixiangyaotaolunzishenxiaideshiqing，zhuiqiuwanmeiyizhongzishenchengjiugan

2、呈现自身，减少另一方警惕心

 yiban，henduorenhenyoukenengbuqingchu“dichuxinlizhuangtai”decunyou，shijishang，jibianshizuixihuanrenjijiaowangderen，zheixiezaidajiayanzhonghenzhengzhideren。tamenxinliyeshiyoudichuxinlizhuangtai，danduibuyiyangquntidedichushuipingbuyiyang

 zaiyurenxiangchuzhong，jinyouxuehaodongxibierendedichuxinlizhuangtai，caikeyizaishidangdejihui，qiadangdijiejuelingyifangdedichuxinlizhuangtai，bianxiaoxianghuzhijiandexinlijuli，shuliandijiejuerenjijiaowang。buran，dajiayehuipengdaoshejiaonanti。

jiaruniduitarendezhuanzhanghuotamenyouzhedewupinfabuzishenmeihaideguandian，neimajiaotanbianhuishunlikaizhan。

 ziran，buyaoshuonijiandaode。zhongjiu，dajiameiyigerendouduoduoshaoshaodifangbeizhetaren。zhongguodongfangshizuihaoshibubiranglingyifangnazhewupin，eryaotarenhendangxin。

 buran，budanhuiranglingyifangpijuan，yefeichangrongyiweizijichanshengnankan。bieshuonayigeguobudong，xuehuitiwen，neiyangjiaotancaikeyiyizhaozishendejiezougankaizhan。

3、依据情景充分发挥

 qiadangdiyingyongnineishihousuozaideziranhuanjing，jiqifujinyouguandeshiqingzheixie，zuoweiyubierenxianliaoshidehuatitaolun，naizhibaohanneishihoudefengjing、qiwenzheixie，dounenggouzuoweidajiagoutongjiaoliudegongluqiaoliang。bingqieyinweizheileiguishuyujiuchanshengzaizishenshenpang，dahuoergongxiangziyuandeshiqing，lingyifangyehuigengweikeyijienalaiyuanyulurendegoutongjiaoliu。

 hainenggouyijulingyifangdeyizhedabanlaizanmeilingyifang，zairichangshenghuozhong，meiyigerendoubixutarendechengzanhehaowuyiwen。kuajiangshishishangshiyurenxiangchuzhongdeyizhongronghuaji。yijubiaoyangdehuanenggoushibukeyizuodeshierbianchenghenyoukeneng，zulanbutaikenengzuodeshier。zanmeibierenburongyidihuizishen，fandaohuitigaoziji。huiguotoulai，richangshenghuoshifouyoushenmechengzantaren，rangtarenkanbuqitamen？

 ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian，ziran，kuajianghaiyaodedang，bukeyiguoduo，guoduohuibianweixuqingjiayi，budanbukeyihuodetarendexinlai，haihuijixulingrenganjueshouzuwucuo、bukaopu。