如何聊才可以走入她内心 和女生怎么主动聊天

 suhuashuo：jiufengzhijiqianbeishao，gennvshengliaotianyeshiyiyang，jiarulianggerenyidiangongtongyuyanyemeiyou，neiruheliaodoushihuiga。qianjitianjiuhuiyouweipengyoufalaosao，shuozishenhexiaidenvhaichedimeiyougongtongyuyan，nvhailiaozishenyouxingqude，tachabushanghua，zhidaotajiangzishennengliaodehuatitaolunshi，nvhaifanyingyoushifenlengmo，juedezaineiyangliaoxialai，jinshengdeyidianyouyiyehuibeimomeiyoule。henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian？

 shijishangzheimingpengyoudejingyu，yeshijuedaduoshunanshimenzaizhuinvhaizideshihouhuizaoyudenanti，zheiyebukeyiguaizantaigangtiezhinan，zhongjiunannvshoushoubuqin，nvhaiyouxingqudewupin，zanbuyidingdong，dajiaxiaide，zhenduinvhaieryanyekenengshizhishimangqu。

 danshijirancunzaidewenti，dangranjiuhuiyoujiejuefangan，dangqijiueryantaoshuotao，gennvhaimeiyougongtongyuyanshi，yaoruheliaocaikeyizourutaneixin。

第一招：聆听另一方的聊天内容并得出积极主动意见反馈

 henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，changchangshuo，xianliaobianshiliaoxintai，yicigengyouyiyidexianliao，kendingshinengzaochenglingyifangqingxubodongde，wulunshihaoshihuai，zuishaonengranglingyifangjilaocicixianliao。

 suoyishuo，dangpengdaozishenbushanyudehuatitaolunshi，bubijuedeshouzuwucuo，zongzhiniyejiebushanghuale，neihaibibushangdechulingyifangjijizhudongdeyijianfankui。

【实例】

 nan：xiabanlama？jinrikehaigaoxing？nv：ai，bieshuole，jinrishuichile，jiusuiyihualegeziranzhuangqushangban，jieguolaozongrangwoyaoquzhaodaiyigehenzhongyaodeguke，wojuedeshangzhuang，youfajuezhexia、yaguangyanyingzheizhongdoumeidai，zhiyoudingzhegeluozhuangqujianguke，bieshuoduogangale。nan：neishierweibanzaba？zhihouduoshehaoduogenaolingma，queshibuhaowodoujiyujiaoqichuang，zhiliaoniaideneimeshenlanchuangdelanchong。nv：nicailan，wojintianjinjinchuxianyiwai。

 xuefeilema？bumingbaidewupinzanyebiequwen，zongzhiniyemeishenmexingqu，bawozhulingyifanghuatitaolundeguanjian，shunconglingyifang，shidujifaxintai，jiubuhuirangxianliaoshenxiangaliao，dandahuoeryemeibiyaobazijisuzaochengyigedougen，renhedongxidouyizhenvhai。

 yaoxiangzengjinganqing，zanhuoshiyaozhaodaoniyunvhaidegongtongyuyan，yejinyougongtongyuyancaikeyizhenzhenzhengzhenglajindajiazhongjiandejianju。

第二招：紧紧围绕个人爱好找寻话题讨论共鸣

meiyigerendoushiyouzishendegerenaihao，jiusuanshiyigechenmoguayanderen，hebierentidaozishendexihao，doushihuikankanertan。

 suoyishuo，jiaruqueshibuqingchuhenvshengliaoshenme，bibushangxianguanchatadeweixinpengyouquan，kanyixiataduinaxiedehuatitaolunyouxingqu，shunshuituizhouliaoyiliao，huoxujiunengcongzheidangzhongxunzhaodajiadexiangtongdian。

【实例】

 nan：wokanniweixinpengyouquandexiangpiandoupaidefeichanghao，shiduipaisheyouxingquma？nv：duiya，woyaoqugegedifangdujialvyoudeqingkuangxia，jiuaipaiyixieyouzaoxingyishugandexiangpian。nan：laikanniyinggailaiguoxuduodiqu。nv：leisiba。nan：yinweiwoxiaisichudujialvyou，danwogennibuyiyang，wohenxihuanyongwenbenjilu，feichangshaopaizhao。nv：shibushi？nidoulaiguoshenmedifang？nan：neimenggu、xizangzizhiqu、xinjiangsheng、huangtugaoyuandiqu……

 xuduoqingkuangxia，jiqiezhaogongtongyuyanhuizaixianliaodeqingkuangxiakanqilaitaiyouzhenduixing，xuanzhunxingquaihaodianzaizaixianliaozhongjianjiandifajueyitongyouxingqudehuatitaolun，fandaohuikanqilaigengyouxinyoulingxi。

neijiarunixiaidenvhai，pengyouquansantianyoucikejian，bingqieyemeishayoushiyongjiazhidedongtaixing，yaozenmeliaomeizi？

 shijishangyefeichangjiandan，ruguoshizheileixinxineirongkongquedezhuangkuang，tiyitiezhimenxianhenvshengtanyitanzishendegerenaihao，jiaruzhenghaohenvshengyinqigongming，dangrannengchixuhuatitaolun。

 yaoshimeiyougongtongdian，dajiahaikeyizaixiangxijieshaolezishendegerenaihaohou，lijiwennvhai，hetahuhuanxinxineirong。neiyangyiyangnenggouzaixianliaoquanguochengzhongxunzhaoshuangfangdouyouxingqudehuatitaolun。

第三招：在没有搭界的话题讨论中挑选共通点

 jiaruliangrengongzuoneirongbuyiyang，shenghuoxiguanbuyiyang，gerenaihaoyebuyiyang，zongeryanzhibianshichedimeiyougongtongdian，neishifouzhongjiunimenyaoliangle？

 ziranbingbushi，tanduixiangyoubushilianliankanxiaoyouxi，sheiyaoqiulianggerenwubileisicaikeyizaiyiqile？zhixuhuxiangxiai，zonghuiyouyixiehuatitaolunshinenggouyitongtantaode。

 julishuoming，jinguanlianggerengongzuoneirongbuyiyang，danyouguangongzuozhongdehuatitaolunhuoshinengyouhenduo。liruwomenkeyigongxiangzishendegongzuozhongrichang，huoshijilingyifangziwojieshaodegongzuozhong。

 yaolejie，renduibulejiedexingyedoushihuiyouqiuzhiyu，ruguonigongxiangzheizhongtameiyoujinjunguodegongzuozhongshi，nvhaidagailvhuizaochengxingquaihao，yihouhuoxuhaixuyaojijirangnigongxiangtadegongzuozhongrichang。

 ciwai，qiyedeyixiexiaobagua，huoshishishangbandaoshangpengdaodenanti，gongzuozhonghoudeyulehuodongzheixie，quanshiyixiepubianyiyijiaoqiangdehuatitaolun。

 genjuzheizhonghuatitaolun，dajiayiyangnenggouzhangwonvhaiderichangshenghuorichang，jianjiandishuxiqilaihou，zaizhaoxunheshidejiaowangfangfa，niyutadexuduogongtongdiandangranyejiufashengle。

 zhishangxiangxijieshaolesanzhongfangfa，quanshizaibujinyoudehuatitaolunzhongzhaoxunhenyoukenengdeliaotianneirong，neiyangzuodeyichuqujueyuhuatitaolunanquanxingdutigao，bingqiezhenduixingyebuhuitaiqiang。

第四招：造就共同话题和话题讨论

 zheileifangfajiubixugeweipengyoujijizhaoxunhuatitaolundianle，henyoukenengyoupengyouyaoshuo，wodouhetabulejie，zennengxunzhaoyigeshuangfangdouyouxingqudeshierni？shijishang，zheiershuodegongtonghuati，yebuyidingshixianjieduanbiciyouxingqude，haikeyishiliangrendoushiyouyiyuanzuoquecongmeishizhedeshier。

【实例】

结果：

 ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian，zaiqingganzhong，nanhaiziyaozuoshenmejijilingzhederen，jinguanshidajiajijizhuiqiunvsheng，danyebukeyijinjindanfangdefuhequyue，youshizhengqueyindaonvhaizuoyixieshier，fandaohuirangzheiyiduanguanliangengweilaogu。