该如何正确闲聊 和女生怎么主动聊天

 nannvguanxizhong，xuduorenyinweibuqingchuzenyangheyixingpengyouxianliaozaochengzishenyizhidanshen。yaolejie，xianliaoshikaiqiyiduanqinggandesuochi，zaiheyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliushi，yaojinkenengxuehaochuozhonglingyifangxingquaihaodian。youyuneiyangzuobujinnenggoutigaozijiderenqizhi，hainenggouhuoyueqifen，buxubicizhijianshenxiannankandangzhong。ciwai，hainenggoubawohuatitaolunzhudaoquan，liaozishenshanyudewupin。yinci，zaiheyixingpengyouchupengshidajiagairuhezhengquexianliaoni？henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian？

1、学好区划关联环节

heyixingpengyouzhongjiandeguanliandagainenggouquhuaweixialiesangehuanjie：

 01、shengshuhuanjie：zheiyihuanjiedajiahaibutaishu，yincizaixianliaodeqingkuangxiayaocaozonghaohuatitaolundexiandu，yaoburanfeichangrongyijilingyifangliuyouyigebutaihaodeyinxiang，juedenihenqingtiao。

 zheigeshihou，dajiayibanbixuzuodebianshi“pobingzhilv”，baituoliangrenzhongjiandecaiyi，caiyiheshengshu，rangxianghuzhijianbuhuizaiyoujiedihefangbei。

 henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，changshiliaoyixiejiaoweipianxiangshenghuodenanti，jiazhongbicizhijiandezhangwoshuiping，liru：gongzuozhong、jiatingfenwei、penyou......

02、penyouhuanjie：jindaozheiyihuanjiebiaomingbicizhijianzaoyibuhuizaishengshu，duoleyidianxinlaigan。

 zheigeshihou，dajiabixuzuodebianshi“yiqingganren”，zaishehuixinlixueshangchengzuo“nanfengfaze”，zaiherenxiangchuhuoshibanshierdeqingkuangxia，yonghaodexintai、rouhedefangfaxiangbigaoaojiangchideshengsefangfagengshenderenxin。

 pingchangxianliaonenggouchangshiduoguanzhuyixialingyifang，bulunshigongzuozhonghuoshikeye，naizhishishenghuoshangdeyixiehenweixiaodesuoshidounenggou。

03、aimeiguanxihuanjie：yongyouqianlianggejieduandelianghaojichu，zheishidedajiazaoyijindaohuxiangxiyinzhudeqingkuang。

 zheigeshihou，dajiaguanlianyexuhenaimeiguanxi，dajiadoumeiyouchuopozuizhongyicengchuangzhi，yinciwubirangzheilei“aimeiguanxi”tiwen，shilingyifangduiniyulaiyuyouxingqu，youxiangpengmiandechongdong。

2、学好邀请

 dahuoerjilaoxianliaodemudishiqidaibicizhijiandeguanliannenggengjinyibu，rangqinggannengtishengyixia。yinci，zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，yidingyaoxuehaoyaoqinglingyifangchuqupengmian，bubimangmugenfengdewangshangxianliao，jirenyizhongyidiliandejuede。

neima，jindaoaimeiguanxihuanjiehou，dajiagairuhezhengqueyaoqinglingyifangni？

shijishang，zheigeshihouwomenkeyishiduyanzhelingyifangjianghua，zhibudinglingyifangyigaoxingjiutongyileyaoqing。

 shehuixinlixueshangyouyigexiaoyongjiao“gerenmingpianxiaoyong”，jiushizhizaiyulingyifangdiyicirenjijiaowang，huoshizhujianxiangchudeqingkuangxia，yaoxianxiangtamensanboyixietamennenggoujienade，erqieshilejiehexiaidejianjiehuoshiguannian。

 yinci，zaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhong，shizhebazijidejianjieheniantouhuanweilingyifangxiaidefangfabiaoxianchulai，ranglingyifangzhongxindegaoxing，naizhihaiganjuenishiyigeyouxiuderen，neiyangshunlichengzhangjiuxiangyaoyunichulai。

3、闲聊的两个內容

 pengmianhoubicizhijianyeyouhaogandu，naizhidouzaoyiquedingguanxiledehua，liaotiandehuatiwubiyaogaoduzhongshiqilai，yinweitayibannengjuecezheiyiduanqinggannengzouduoyuan，liaotiandehuatidagaifenchengerzhong：

 01、zhengerbajingneirong：xianliaoshiyouyishuoyi，youershuoer，jirendejuedehengangzhengbua、feichangzhidexinlai，danyouyoudianerdaiban，shijianzhanglehuilingrenganjuemeiyoushenmigan，xianggemucai，duijianglaimeiyouqidai。

 02、buxiangyangneirong：liangrenchuzailianaiguanxihou，jiaruyizhiliaoyixiebuxiangyangdehuatitaolun，zuichuhuirangqinggantiwen，naizhihaihuijixuranglingyifangganjuenishiyouyigeyougediaoderen。keshishijianzhanglehuilingrenganjuenihenqingfu，naizhishikandaiqinggansuiyi。

yinci，zheiliangkuaineirongyaomingbaisuibianzhuanhuan，bubiyizhichuzaiyizhongxianliaodeqingkuangli，yaoburanfeichangrongyilingrenchanshengwujie。

总结：

dahuoeryaolejie，zheiyiquanshijiezhibuguojiuerzhongren：nvrenhenanren。

“youxiaogoutongqujueyuwugoutongjiaoliuzheduihuatitaolundechongzubawo，bingfeicuocideroumei。”

 ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian，yinci，jiaruniqidaizaijianglaiderenshenglushang，nenggouxunzhaoyigezhendexihuannideairen，jiubixuyanchuanshenjiaoyongxinheyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliu，neiyangyexucaikeyigaobiedanshen，huodezishendeganqing。zhongjiu，xianliaonenggoudapojiangju，lingrennenggouduijianglaiyousuoqidaihexiangxiang。