和女生怎么主动聊天 要风趣但不轻浮

 xianliao，buguoshikongyushiliaoliaotian，shidajiaganqingjiaoliugengweichangjiandeyizhongfangshi。danshihuixianliao，youqishihuihenvrenliaotian，jiubixubawoyixiefangfa。henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian？wojuedeyidingyaoliuyiyixiajigefangmian：

一要赏析但不奉承

 meiyigerendoushiyouyoushi，nixuyaoshanyufajuenvxingzaiqichang、jianshi、xiangmao、yizhe、xingqingdengcengmiandeliangdian，bingqiaruqifendikaizhanchengzan。youqishiduiyixieguanjiandiandeliuyihezanyang，huishitajuedeyukuai。danbubiyiweitaohaonvxing，jianshaozishendeshenjia。haiyaoshiduzhanxianzishen。ziranchuipengxianbai，zongshichengshibuzubaishiyouyu。

 nvxingdouxiaibeishangxi，beizanyang，danchengzanwubizhangwofencungan，tailijidezanyang，guoduochuixu，yiweifengchengfandaohuirangnvxingjuedexinlibushufu，duiniliuyouyouqianghuadiaodeyinxiang，naizhizaochengyanfan，jieguodebuchangshi。xianliaohaiyaoliuyibawojiezouxing，bubizishizhizhongchuyuchuyubeidongdebuwei。

二要风趣但不轻浮

 henvshengzenmezhudongliaotian，youmofengqudeyuyanbiaodahexiaobiaoqingkeyihuoyueqifen，kuaisukaiqinankandechangjing。ruguonishiligongnan，chuangxinsiweinenglijiaoqiang，qianqueganxingsiwei。nitongchanghuiyongchaxunhukoushidekaichangci，suihoujindaozhaopinmianshiyiyangdejiaotan，jianyikuzaofaweideyiwenyidafangshi，henkenenghuirangnvxingbuyue，rangxianliaojiangchibuxia。gengbukeyipengchutarendegerenyinsihedaodedixian，jiarushuocuoleyingdanglijiwanjiu，zuiyouxiaodefangshihuoshitucaozishen。

 youmodehuati，youshihoudexiaowanpihetiaodou，huirangnvxingzantanbuyi，tishengnideyouhuoli，jifatadexintai。danwanxiaoyidingyaoliuyifencungan，ganwanbukeyinabierendequedianlaitucao，yifangsunhailetadezizun。jiaruniyuyanzhongjian，buqufenqinghezhongduitakaizhantaiguoliaobo，judongguoduqingtiao，yehuirangnvxingdichu，wurenweishisaorao，bujinjiaotanmeifakaizhan，yexutahaihuijixucihouduanjueleyunidelaiwang。

三要沟通交流但不从师

 jiaotanbianshiweilegenghaodixianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliu，yaozuodaohudongjiaoliudemudi，jiuyingdangzhangwolingyifangdegerenaihao，duizhengzhiliao。jinjinweiraotayouxingqu，bingqienijiaoweilejiedehuatitaolunchulailiaotian。jiarutazhongaiwenxuelei，ninengliaoyiliaotaxiaidewenxuezhuzuohewenxuejia。jiarutaxiaiyingshizhizuo，hebuliaoyixieyulebagua。mudishijifanvxingdexintai。nulizuodaozheiyidian，pingchangjiuyingdangyoujiaoweipubiandexingquaihao，lirunianshuchuangzuo、gequmeishuhuihua、lvyousheying、tesemeishideng。ziran，nengbawoyiliangmenfangfagengqiang，huirangnvxingduinilingyanxiangkan。

 nizhishicengmianguang，jiufeichangrongyixunzhaoyitongyouxingqudehuatitaolun。danqiewuwangzizunda，yangzhuangdichenhuogaotankuolunquanshibihuide。xiangduijiaoshiduixueyuanjiangkeyiyang，yigerenlingyalichikankanertan，yidianyebuzaiyitadetihui。liangrenshilaiyiqixianliaode，bingbushilaitingnixiangxijieshaogongzuojingyan，yebushilaicanyuquanweizhuanjiadajiangtang。zhixuzhangwohaofencungan，xunzhaoxianliaodetupokou，dajiachedinenggoucongmeiyouhuashuo，daowuhuabutan。bicidoushihuiyoujinchaoyoujiujinchaozuidejuede。

四要真心实意但不较真儿

 weirenchushiyisibugoushiwukefeiyide，danbubichangshinidehexinlinianhekongzhiqingxulingyifang。ninengshuomingzishendejianjieheyanjie，dannibunengjiangnideguandianqiangrensuonan。nvxingyouzishendesiweimoshi，duitadebuyiyangjianjie，ninenglizailingyifangdeshijiaoqushensishulv，nenggoutantao，haikeyibaocunyijianyujianyi，meiyoubixuzhengfengxiangdui，lianhongerchidikaizhanzhengzhi，feidetarenzanchengzhichinidejianyi。

 xianliaoshiweilegenghaodicujinganqing，shiganqingdegongxiang。youxierenyushengjulaibianhuixianliao，eryouxierenjiujiaoweidaisha，zheiherendegexinglijingxiangguan。shijishangzheizhongyebuguanjian，zuizhongyaodeshizhenxinshiyi。henvrenliaotianshiyingdangyouzhenxinshiyidexintai，nvxingzaiyidebushinideguandianzhishinidexintai。zhenchengdairen，jinshiweikai。

 yexuninengshuo，jiarupengdaoyigezhiquxiangtoudenvxing，nizaishuoshenmetadouxiaiting，tajiangnaxienidouzantong，wujuwushuxianliaojiukeyile，yagenbuyongfangfa。xiangfan，pengdaoyigesanguanbuhederen，nijiushishijinshichuhunshenjieshu，bafangfacaiyongwanmei，yiranhuibugaoerbie。zheijuhuayidianyemeiyoucuo，danzheierzhongzhuangkuangdoufeichangshao。yinciwojuedehenvrenliaotianhuoshiyaoliuyibawofangfa，neiyangcaikeyishibeigongban。

 ruhehexihuandenvhailiaotian，zongeryanzhi，henvrenliaotianyaobawoyidingdefangfa，goujianqingsongzizaidixianliaoqifen，tiaoxuanlianggerennenggouhudongjiaoliudehuatitaolun，jibukeyiganliao，yebukeyibianweiziyanziyudeyiyantang，huolianhongerchidebianlun。zhenzhenzhengzhengzuodaogoutongjiaoliudemudi。