怎么跟女生聊天 多激励让另一方说他想说的话

 xixinxiangyixiang，bulunshilakehuhuozhezhaodaiguke，bulunshitanlianaihuozhewenhuajiaoyu，yiqiefangshidegoutongjiaoliu，budoushiyihuodelingyifangxinlaizhujiandema？conghuodeyoushengdejishuxingzheiyijianjiekanlaitong，jiamaosuanmingshihuozhejiatonglingzhezheizhongpianzigongsiyingyongdelengdushu，queshiyouhenduofeichangzhidedajiaxuexipeixundeyibufen。ruheliaomeizhaohuati，zenmegennvshengliaotian？

怎样变成一个闲聊大神？

zuixiandajiaxunzhaoweihedajiabushanyancideyuangu！

大概有几种：

1.zhongtoubeitarenfourendeguoduo，zijuedezijizuorenhedongxidoubuhao，daozhibuaishuohua，buxihuanshuohua，daozhiziwofengbi

2.zhongtoubabamamawaichudagong，benshenquefaanquangan，ziwofengbi。

 3.ruheliaomeizhaohuati，fazhanziranhuanjinghuoshenghuohuanjinghuobangonghuanjingyixingpengyoujiaoweishao，jiuledaozhigouyongzuai，yijianghuajiujiaolvbuanlianfahong。

4.richangshenghuojiandan，meiyouhuatizuotanlunhuati，wuhuakejiang。

yeyouqita，zheieryebuyiyilieju！zishenguishuyunayizhongzhuangkuang，qingduihaoruzuojiukeyile。

xunzhaoyuangu，neimejiujianyile，bayuangujichulidianjiukeyile！

xiabiandajialaipouximeiyizhongzhuangkuangzenyangjiejue：

 duiyudiyizhongzhuangkuang，wohennenglejieni，youyudajiazixiaobeiwenhuajiaoyuyaocongming，yincirendoujidajianizuodebudui，yingdangruheruhe，zheibuyuanni，shiziranhuanjingdaozhide，beifourenletaishuci，nizaoyimeilezixinxinle，neidajiazuiguanjiandebianshizhaodaozixinxin，ruhezhaohuizixinxinni？

 neibianshishigaiweizijizhaoqiwonengde，woshizuizande，bubijuedetamenhaoxiao，weihenijuedehaoxiao，youyuniyagenbujianxinzijishizuizande，shuodezaizhijieyidian，nihuoshibuzixin，jiaruniqueshijianxinziji，nijianggongwubuke。

 zuoyiqieshi，zixinxinshiqiantitiaojian，niyebujianxinzijinengqudechenggong，neimenikendingbuhao，weihedajiashangdashenshi，meitianzaoshangdouxuyaohankouhao，weihechuqugongzuozhongjinleqiye，meitianzaoshangyouzaohui，huoshixuanchuankouhao，shijishangdouyiyang，neibianshiweizijijiayoudaqi，youzixinxinle，nibanshiyejiugenggaoxiaolv，niyejiugengnengqudechenggong！

 dierzhongzhuangkuang，nikenengdaoshehuifazhanyeshiyiyang，xiaizishenbanshi，nixuyaodeshirongjinnideweishenghuo，zhenxinshiyizhenxinshiyidekandaitamen，aitamen，xiancongtamenzhujian，hetamenwuhuabushuo，jianjiandideyibubulai，ruguonijiangnidequanzijiejuehaola，nideyanjiangkoucaidangranyejiuokle。

 disanzhongzhuangkuang：nixuyaochixudeshizheheyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliu，xiancongshenpangdepenyouzhujian，jianjiandidezengdaoluren，burongyidanxinbuchenggong，buchenggongdegongzuojingyanhuixiezhuniqudechenggong！

 disizhongzhuangkuang：nixuyaofengfuduocainiderichangshenghuo，congshizhexinxiandeshenghuoxiguan，quyixienipingshibutaishezudediquhuoxingye，jianjiandidefengfuduocaizishenderichangshenghuo。

 shenmejiaoxianliao，liaobianshitan，tianbianshiqiankun，bianshixiantantandi，nideqiankunzainaer，neibianshinirichangderichangshenghuo。meiyourichangshenghuo，tianjiuwucongshuoqi。

1、多激励让另一方说他想说的话

wulunshei，zuiguanzhudezhongjiuhaishizishen。

 ruguonishanyuguancha，keyiranglingyifangjiangchutaxiangshuodeshi，lingyifangdangranhuiganjuexinqingyuyue，yejiugengxiangyaojiyugezhonggeyangdexinwenzixun。gengguanjiandeshi，danglingyifangganshoudaonishizhenxinshiyixiangyaolingtingtaxiangshuodeshishi，bianhuijuededadao，suihoucaihuichuxianquanlizhujiantingnijianghua。

2、另一方要听得话

 goutongjiaoliubuwaihu“shuo”he“ting”zhanguanjiancengmian。ruguoniranglingyifanggeshujijianshi，dangranhuigaoqingchulingyifangzhenzhenzhengzhengyaoxiangdeshisha，lingyifangyaoxiangtingjiannijuedexienaxie。

 yaozhangwolingyifangyaotingshenmehua，neimeniyidingshiduizheigerenyouyidingdezhangwocaikeyibaozhengde，ruguonijiangchulingyifangsuoyaotingdehuashi，lingyifangbianhuijuededaoniduitadeguanxin，xinyuxinyuxindejulijiubiandejinlexuduo！

3、视另一方为独一无二的人

 tingwenquanshijiemeiyouyiqieliangkuaixiaoxuehuadejiejingtiyimoyiyang，bingqiemeiyigejiejingtideyangzi，yejiufashengneimayicibale。zheitingqilaiqueshishifenlingrenzhenjing，danxixinxiangyixiang，renbuyeshiyiyangma？quanshijiebutaikenengyoulianggekanqilaiyimoyiyangderen。wulunzairuhexiangsideshuangbaotaibaobao，yeyidingyounaxiediqubutaitongyang。

 ruguowomenyurenjiaowangshi，nengshikehuailizhezheileikendingdeyiwaijingxi，juedezheigerenshishijieshangduyiwuer、wuketidaide，jishimeiyouyouyizhuyaobiaoxianhuoshuochurukou，zheiguguannianyehuishunlichengzhangbiaoluzainideyantanjuzhizhong，ranglingyifangtihuihuode。shubuzhi，yuefazhiliyuwugoutongjiaoliuhuozheshehuixinlixuederen，yuefafeichangrongyiwangdiaozheijianshiqing。zuixianzhudezhijiezhengjubianshi，qinglvdijiutuokoujiangchu“neirenshizibizhengba！”huineimeshuo，biaomingyidianyebucaiyi“neiren＝ertongzibizheng”。

 wobingbushizaiwanxiao，wulunshei，“neiren＝neiren”，chukaitayiwai，naxieyebushi。jiarunijuededeshi“neirenbiaochuyixieertongzibizhengdebingzheng”，yehaieryi，keshisuiyijiangchu“neirenshiertongzibizheng”zheileihua，jiuzhengshilenixinlizhuangtaiyagenmeiyouneirenshizheiquanshijieduyiwuer，wuketidaideyiwaijingxi。riyuzhongyouyijuhuachengwei“yiqiyihui”。yisishishixiazheiyiyishunjian，jinciyici，burongyihaiyoudierci。meiyoupailian，yebukeyizhongxinlaiguo。wulunqudechenggonghuozhebuchenggong，yuyuehuozhebeishang，meiyigeyishunjianquanshijinyouyicideaixishike。zhengyouyuzheiban，dajiacaigengyaozhuanxinzhizhizaizheiyishunjian。

 zainiyanqiandewulunshishenmeyangderen，quanshishijieshangduyiwuer、wuketidaide。jinguanzheishijieshangderenrutongxiaoxuehuayibanhua，danwulunnizairuhezhaoxun，zheigeren－zainiyanqiandezheigeren，quanshiweiyideyige。jiaruninengduizheiyikeguanshishihuaizhexincunjingwei，wulunlingyifangshishenmeyangderen，doukeyilijiuchuangjianqixinlaiguanlian。

最终我想说的是

 jiaruniyaojiejuedanshen，yaoxiangyigenvyou，keshinipingchangrichangshenghuohenzhai，lianhenvshenglejiededanliangyemeiyou，yebuhuihenvshengxianliao、gengburongyiyouhui，naizhinidanshenle20henduonianhuoshinanrendiyici。

 jiaruniyishidaozishendenanti，xianggaibianzishen，jiaruniyaocongjintiankaishigenggai，youbuqingchuzenyangquzuo，neimaninengyuwobianchengzuihaodepengyou，jishinimeigaojiuzhangdebuhaokan，naizhiyemeiyoushenmeqian，yekeyirangnikuaidiantigaoziji，xuehaoxianliao。shinizaiganqingzhidaoshangzhongshixinxin，pijinzhanji，taruganqingziyouzhilu。

 yuqishuomaiyuan，weihebushizhegenggai，zuishadebingbushiben，zhishimeiqugenggai！jiaruniyaojuedezhuidaolingyifangshikaozhangxiangheqiancai，niderichangshenghuoxiankuangyejiushizhongbubian。bubibazijilunluozaibuchenggongdebianyan，zhixurangzishenzhujianzuoyixiexiaoxiaogenggai，neimaniderenshengdaolubianhuizhujianbutongxunchang!

记牢：

nibutan，nimeixue，neimenishizhongdouburongyi！

 zuizhongwoxiangshuodeshideshi，tanlianaishinenggouxuexipeixunde，xianliaoyeshinenggouxuexipeixunde，bumingbaijiuxuyaoxue，burongyijiuxuyaowen。erbuguanxueshenmelingyu，kuaidefangshibianshigenyuelifengfudejishuzhuanyedelingyujiaoshiyiduiyidexuexipeixun！

 tishengzijidejianghuashuizhun，rangzishenbianchengyigegaoqingshangderen，yejiukeyinenggougenghaodishiyingxinhuanjing，nenggougenghaodiyurenjiaowang。

 zenmegennvshengliaotian，qingshangzhishang，jianghuabingbushishixiantianxingde，daliangdeshizaiweirenchushidequanguochengzhongjianjiandijileiqilaide，genghekuangdajiawanquannenggougenjuhoutianxingqinfenxidezheileigongzuonengli。