怎样变成一个闲聊大神 怎么跟女生聊天

 xianliaoshidajiarichangrichangshenghuobibukeshaodeyibufen，yuyanbiaodadefazhanqushishirenmenqubieyuxiaodongwudeguanjianbiaoshi。lianghaodegoutongnengjiejuemaodun、zhanlvehezuo；xianliaonengtuidongdajiajiandegoutongjiaoliu、tishengxinyoulingxi；naizhiyoushehuixinlixueyanjiubiaomingshanyuxianliaoderenjubeigengqiangdeshehuifazhanshiyingli，tongchanggenghuobao。neimazenmecainengbianchengyigexianliaodashenni？ruheliaomeizhaohuati，zenmegennvshengliaotian？

用好“情感共鸣”，令人对你打开心扉

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 yiyangyijuhuabuyiyangderen，buyiyangdejingkuang，buyiyangdeyudiaoyuqishuochulaijuedequanshibuyiyangde。zaiwomenzaiyutarenkaizhangoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，yaoxiangkeyixiyinzhulingyifang，guanjianbuqujueyushuoxieshenme，zhishizenmejiang。zheibushifangshihuoshizhaoshu，zhishiwuxue。

忌讳查询户口式的会话

ruheliaomeizhaohuati，liru，xuduobumingbaigoutongdejiqiaoderen，xiguanxingyingyongneiyangdejianyi、lijidegoutongfangshi：

你多大了？

你来自哪里？

你叫什么？

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xiabiandajialaiyiduanqingjingmonijiaoxue，liru：

“shibushiniguowailiuguoxue？

tashiyijuyibandeyiwenju。

zhuanhuachenglingyizhongfangfabianshi：“niyidingyouguowailiuguoxue。”

zailiru：“nijuedezishendexingqingruhe？”

huanchengsiweimoshibianshi：“jiarubumingbaicuo，niderenyuanrenpinyidinghaihaoba~”

这就很显著了。

diyigeshili，ruguoshiyibanhuihua，lingyifangyidinghuihuiying：shide/meiyou。

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累积丰富多彩的专业知识

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pianzigongsibingbushi“kengrendequanweizhuanjia”，zhishi“huodebierenxinrendequanweizhuanjia”

 jiamaosuanmingshihuojiatonglingzhezheizhongpianzigongsi，quanshiruhekengrendeni？anzhaochangqingeryan，yingdangmeirenhuijianxincaidiyicijianmiandeyichangrenyuanchangshuodehua。keshi，weihejiuyouxierenhuisuibianjianxinzheixieruhexiangdouhenyichangdeshuocini？

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 zenmegennvshengliaotian，zongeryanzhi，pianzigongsidezhexuesixiangbianshi：xianhuodexinlai，zaizhujianzhapian。yuenengranglingyifangxinlai，jiunengpiandeyueda。zhixunengranglingyifangjianxinzijikexinlai，xiamiandezhaqifangfabuguanduomedehuangmou，yedounengsuibianpiandaolingyifang。yiner，xiangbizhapiandefangfa，gaochaodepianzigongsishijishanghuadalianghuolizaichuaimo“huodexinlaidejishuxing”