怎样打开会话 想念一个人怎么发微信

 nianmosuiweishizaigezhonggeyangshejiaomeitichangsuo——xingyeluntan、qiyenianhui、daxiewanyan、jingyingtuanduijuhuizheixie——zhongguangjiaorenmaiguanxidehaoqingkuangxia。danzaihebushushihuochedishengshuderenfayanshi，zenyangdakaihuihuaduixuduoreneryanshigenandian。xiangnianyigerenzenmefaweixin，xiangnianduifanggaizenmefaxinxi？

 xunsupobingzhilvdefangshiziranshiyixiantanzhujian，danniyinggaibuyuanranghuihuazhiliuzai“yanhuidecaizhenhaochi”huo“jintiantianqitingbucuo”zheileiwuguanjinyaoyewufazaicishencengcixialaidehuatitaolunshangba。

1.提前准备一些“有深度的话题讨论”

 zuixiannixuyaolejie，huihuashifouyouhanyihuatitaolunhenzhongyao。zaiwangminlaikan，qiwenshidiyigebixufangzhidehuatitaolun：“yaoxiangbikaiyiqingyiyangbikaiqiwenhuatitaolun，zheirutonggeqianbohuihuadewudidongchaojiheidong。”

 wangmintiyi，tiqianzhunbeihaoduogejianyidan“youshendu”dehuatitaolun，rangqingqingsongsongdangouweidehuihuakeyishunlijinxing。taqianglietuijiandajiaduyiduxingweijingjixuehuodazhongxinlixuecengmiandeshu，youyuzheizhongshudezhutifenggeshizhishanghemeiyigerenmiqiexiangguan，meigerendouduiruheyurenjiaowang、zishenhetarendexingweizhuyaobiaoxianzenyangyouyidingdefenbian。

 xiangnianyigerenzenmefaweixin，duokanyixiatedyanjiangyeshigefeichanghaodexiangfa。congchuruzhichangguanchadaokejiqianyan，geshigeyangdehuatitaolunchongzushinihebierenkaiqifangbianzhimenle。

2.问些他人有兴趣且有话可说的难题

 xuduowangminjuededakaiyiduanyouyisihuihuazuihaoshidefangfazhiyibianshixianxunzhaolingyifangduishenmehuatitaolunyouxingqu，suihouyitiwentidefangfazhuyaobiaoxianchuniduizheizhonghuatitaolundemingxianxingquaihao。

 wangmintiyi：“changshizhaoyigetamenshifenyouxingqudehuatitaolun，congyigeyiqiezhengchangde’qianlounanti’zhujian。suihoubansuizhehuatitaolunshencengcizhujianwenyixietanjiuxingxuexidenanti，jibianhuatitaolunzishenbingmeiyouneimayansurenzhen。”

 juhaoduogeshiliba。lirulingyifangxiaixihashuochang，ninengchangshixunwentaxihashuochangdeshixingduizhongzuwentiyouzhenglianweihaihuoshibuliangyingxiang；jiarulingyifangxiaimingxingbagua，ninengwenyiwentashibushijuede“dapaimingxingwenhuayishu”rangpingchangrenduizishenderichangshenghuogengweibumanyi；jiarulingyifangxiaimouxiejianshenyundong，chayichacixiangjianshenyundongdelishishijian，hetatantaoyifan。

 danshiqiangdiao，hebierenliao“shenruhuatitaolun”dequeyoudianerguaiyi（tahuoxujinjinxiangwengelu），jiuroupengyouyebingbuyizhikeyibahuatitaolunshencengcixialai（nizennengjixiwangyuyinianyineidoukanbujianyibenshuderenlaiyunitantaomeiguodangdaiwenxueni？），zaiyingduizheixierenshi，huatitaolunzhanqianguhouyekeyi，bahuolijiaojizheixieyunigengyougongtonghuatiderenba。

3.寻找让另一方出类拔萃的物品

wangminjuede，buguannizaishuoshenme，“fangzhishibushizheiyicaogaodekaichangci：’nizenmeyang？’”

 changshiwenyiwen：“shishashinineimelihai？”ninaizhibuyongbahuatitaolunxiandingzaigongzuozhongxingye，wenyiwenlingyifangrichangshenghuodegerenaihao，huoxuhuichuxiandaliangyouqudefajuehegongtongyuyan。ziran，bingbingbushimeiyigerendouxiangyaohebierentaoxintaofei，danzaihuadengchushang、jiuhanerredeqingkuangxia，dabufenrendexinlizhuangtaihuigengduiwaikaifang。

 zijijiujiejiaoguoyigexiaiqiaogudewangluozhuanjia、xiaimudiaogongyizuodeyishoujingzhijiajudeguanggaoxingyerenyuan、aihaoribenpaijudeguotuanquanquanweizhuanjia。

 “xunzhaoyigenidehuobanshanyuqieniyaozhangwodaliangdehuatitaolun，huoshixunzhaoyigenishanyudannidehuobanxiangzhangwodaliangdehuatitaolun。”

4.别傲骄，要坚信另一方也是有深刻思想

xixinxiangyixiang，yiduanhuihuawufashencengcixialaishifouyouyunizishenjiuduixianliaozheijianshiqingxingquliaoliaowuji？

 “jiaruniyuqilingyifangshigewuquderen，huoshilingyifangyaoshuoxieyumeidehua，huoxuniyejiuburongyiwennengranglingyifangtidaoxingqudenanti，neiyangnizijijiubahuihuabianwuqule。”wangminshuo。

 yinci，heyumoshengrenliaotianqianwanbuyaoaojiao，yaojianxinlingyifangyeshiyoushenkesixiang，yeshifenyuanyiyunijinxingyiduangengyouyiyidehuihua。

5.别尝试逼迫另一方接纳你的见解

 jiarunimeiyiciyurenxianliaodouyiyizhongjiansuankebodezishijiangzishendejiazhiguannianqiangjiayutarendeshenshang，nihenyoukenengnanyijiejiaopengyou。

wangminqiangdiao，nixuyaoxuzhuyiduiyixieteshuquntiyouqiyouyiyidehuatitaolun，bubiwangyan。

 yiner，weichixinlizhuangtaiduiwaikaifangshifenguanjian，“zheidaibiaozhenikeyijijikaizhandaliangdehuihua，binghaiyoujihuixuexipeixunxinzhuanyezhishi，kuozhanzishenderenshengguan。”ziran，jiarulingyifangliaodewupinqueshitaiwuliaole，ninengtiaoxuanchechu，tianjiadaoyigeduinieryangengyouqudehuihuazhong。

6.向别人显露一点点个性化的物品

 “chengxianyidiannizijidewupin，tanyitannidetihuijiqiyicongchuzhongdaonaxie，”wangminshuo，“zheiyidinghuirangtarenyedakaixinfei。ziranzheibuyongshishajidademimi，zhixushiyijiangexinghuadeshierjiukeyile。”

 jichulilunbeixinlixuezhuanjiaquerenle：boshiyanjiushengyuboshiyanjiushengdexietongyanjiufaxian，dangdajiagongxianglegerenhuaderichangshenghuoguanjiandian（liru“yinweiwozuiaichizhishi”huoshi“wodebabazhaobudaogongzuo”）hou，tongchanggengfeichangrongyiduilingyifangzaochenghaogandu。

 ziran，yaorangzheiyifangfajianxiaoyeyou2gebiyaotiaojian：diyi，bicidouxuyaoyichengxiangdai，douxiangyaogongxiangzishenderichangshenghuoguanjiandian；dier，bubitaikuaidixianluguoduosimihuadeneirong。

7.谈一谈你实际在干什么

 yipianwenzhangtiyi，dangtarenwenninidezhiyeyounaxieshi，biejinjinshuozishenshiyimingwenxuejiahuoyishi。tianjiayixiegongzuozhongguanjiandian（liruniyizhizaizheiyizhouwanchenglexiezuoshenmegongzuo），ninengranghuihuayuelaiyuegengyouyisi。

 ruguonijiangdaoguanjiandianshi，nihenyoukenenghuihuodeerzhongfanying：yizhongshiduiyunisuojiangneirongdejinyibunanti，dierzhongshi“ezheizhenku”，suihoujiumeiyouxiamianle。jiarulingyifangrangnidefanyingshidiyizhong，daibiaozhelingyifangzaiduinidehuatitaolunzuochuhuifu，niyejiunenggouzaicizheiyihuihuale。jiarulingyifangrangnidierzhongfanying，changshijiangxiabiededeguanjiandian，zhizhilingyifangyouxingqujiezhi。

8.掌握另一方的小故事，而不是问另一方要回答

 youshejiaokongjuzhengdeneixiangxingrenyuandeyigetiyi：yaoxiangbaxiantanbianweigengyouyiyidehuihua，changshiwenyixiekaifangshidenanti，yaoyuelingyifangeryanxiaogushi，erbushiwenzheixiezhibixuyong“shi”、“bingbushi”、“xiai”、“taoyan”neiyangdejianyiduanyujiunenghuiyingdenanti。

 yinci，nixuyaofangzhiwenzheizhongnanti：nizenmeyang？nizheiyitianguodegaoxingma？nicongnalilai？niganshenme？niyizhizainayigedanwei？nidelibaitianguoderuhe？niyaohexiejiuma？nizaizheierzhuduozhangshijianle？

 xiangnianduifanggaizenmefaxinxi？shiyixiawenzheizhongnantiba：nidegushishisha？nijintianganlenaxie？niershijingliguodezuiguaiyideshiershisha？nishizenmediaodaoxianzaidezheiyidanweide？nidemingzi.youshenmehanyima？nilibaitiandouzenmewan？nizheizhoutiqianzhunbeiganxienaxie？nijuedezheiyiwuzilizuixingyunderendaodishishei？