微信第一句话怎么搭讪 防止尴聊的八个聊天技巧

 yigerendejiaojinengli，goutongxiediaonenglijingchanghuiweihaidaodajiarichangshenghuo，gongzuoshangdegegefangmian。shijishang，herenxiantandegongzuonengliyeshiyixiangshifenguanjiandezhuanyejineng。dangqidehuatitaolun，tanggegongxiangdezhutifenggeshi：ruhetishengjiaojinengli？zenyangzhaoxunliaotianhuati？fangzhiganliaodebageliaotiandejiqiao。weixindiyijuhuazenmedashan？dashanjiqiaoyoumodiyijuhuayinggaizheiyang。

1掌握另一方的侧重点与兴趣爱好点

 xianliaodeqingkuangxia，yaoliuyisuozhulingyifangguanzhudeneirong，buyiyangxingbie，buyiyangnianji，buyiyanggangweideren，duibuyiyangdehuatitaolunzaochengdexingquaihaoshuipingyehuibuyiyang。

 weixindiyijuhuazenmedashan？yaogaoqingchunaxiecaisuanshilingyifangyouxingqudehuatitaolun，jiubixudajiazhangwolingyifangdejibenqingkuang，xihuanshenme，xihaonaxie，guanxinnaxie。yijubuyiyangderen，tiaoxuanbuyiyangdeliaotiandehuati。

例如，

跟宝妈妈聊小孩，

和男生聊工作，

genlaonianrenliaoshenxinjiankang，

 ersanshisuiyijingjiehunyiyudenvshizhenduimeironghufu，jifuhuli，yuerjiaoyuzheizhongdehuatitaolunyibanbianhuijiaoweiyouxingqu，xianliaodeqingkuangxiajiukeyiyoudaodazhanchangshiduowangzheizhongcengmianqudai。

2丰富多彩知识层面，掌握热点新闻

 yixiequanxindewangluoredian，xinwenbaodao，xinwenzixunzheixieneirong，yibanguanxinderentongchanghuibijiaoduo，feichangrongyiyinqidajiadexingquaihaohetantao。

 yiner，pingchangyoushijiandeqingkuangxianenggouduozhangwoyixiejinqichanshengderedianxinwen，hulianwangshangshixingdegaoxiaoduanzizheixie，shinizaixianliaodeqingkuangxiayouzhuduodehuatitaolunnenggoutiaoxuan。

3找寻彼此的相同点

yitongdegerenaihao，yitongdepenyougengfeichangrongyirangxianghuzhijianyinqigongming，yinchulaidaliangdehuatitaolun。

 womenzaixianliaogoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，yaoshanyuzhaoxunbicizhongjiandexiangtongdian，bubiyizhijiqiefouren。pubiandeliru，fugudejiushi，yitongdelijingzheixie。

4学会提问，提高另一方的好胜心。

duowenyixiechangkaishidenanti，jinliangbimianwenyixiemibishidenanti，feichangrongyibahuatitaolunjitingzhile。

wenyixielingyifangyouxingqudehuatitaolun，huoshilingyifangshanyu，keyitigaotamenhaoshengxindehuatitaolun。

5qingting，zhangwolingyifang，fangzhiganliao

xianliaohudongjiaoliu，yidingyaoxiangaoqingchulingyifangdeaihaohejihui，zhongyaohuoshiyaoqingting。

genjutingdequanguocheng，guanxihuatitaolun，congdangjindezhutifengge，kuozhandaobiededehuatitaolun，bubatianliaosi。

6普遍的聊天的话题

 liru，xiuxianyule，lvyou，yingpian，dianshiji，xinwenbaodao，wangluoredian，shoujiyouxi，gongzuozhong，youxiyule，gerenaihao，gerenchengzhangjinglizheixie。

huoshiconglingyifangdejibenqingkuangzhujian，liru，guxiang，yuanxiao，jishuzhuanye，lijing，xihaozheixie。

7少批评，多激励，多赞扬

 bubiwangzizunda，yiweidiyiyizhongpipingdezhigaoqiangdezishi，feichangrongyizaochenglingyifangdedichu，duoliaoyixiekaifangshidehuatitaolun，xianliaoshiyaoxuehaoshidudichuipenglingyifang，duobahuatitaolunwanglingyifangguanzhudediqushanglaizhengqueyindao。

8防止过多争执

 xianliaodequanguochengzhongyeyaoliuyibubitaiguodijiaozhener，rongxumeiyigerendoushiyouzishendekanfa，buyiyangdejianyi，guanjianshiyaoshanyufajuebiciyitongdediqu，xianghuzunzhong。

汇总

 renjijiaowangnenglishiyixiangshifenguanjiandechuangxinnengli，heyouderenxianliaoxinkuangshenyi，lingrenjuedehenshufu，erheyouxierenxianliao，haimeiyouzhangkouyiliangjuhenyoukenengjiuliaobuxialaile。

 xianliaodeqingkuangxia，yaoxiancongzhangwolingyifangdexingquaihaodianheguanzhudehuatitaolunzhujian，hebuyiyangderenliaobuyiyangdehuatitaolun。

pingchangduoguanxinyixieredianxinwenheshixingdehuatitaolun，xianliaodeqingkuangxiaduocongbicidexiangtongdianzhujian。

xuehuitiwen，tigaolingyifangdehaoshengxin，qingting，zhangwolingyifang，fangzhiganliao。

 dashanjiqiaoyoumodiyijuhuayinggaizheiyang，xianliaodequanguochengzhongjinliangbimianpiping，fangzhiguoduodizhengzhi，duojili，duozanyanglingyifang。zuizhong，qidaiwenzhongkeyiduitigaonidexianliaojiaojinengliyouyidingdexiezhu。