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 shishishang，buzenmehuixianliaoderen，fandejiaodabuzhengquebianshizaixianliaoquanguochengzhongchixuzhuanhuanhuatitaolun。yihuierjiangjintiandetianqi，yihuieryouzhuanzhichidenaxie，suihouyoutiaodaojinqikandeyingpianshang……zheizhonghuatitaolunshimeishenmenantide，keshineimexianliaoshijishangbushiduide。neiyangquxianliao，jishinishiqianpaixulexuduodehuatitaolun，haikeyizaiduanduandeshufenzhongyineiliaoguo。huatizhongjiezheshiqingshangdima？tongguoqingshanggaoderenliaotianjietu，weinifenxizenmeliaotian。

 fashengxianliaobuchangshun、liaobuxialai、yueliaoyuenankandezhuangkuang，yuangubuqujueyunimeiyoutiqianzhunbei，doubuqujueyunibushanyanci，erqujueyunikendingbuhuiguancha。

 youyunibushanyuguancha，yincinicuoguozaizheilishufenzhongneifajuelingyifangjiujinghuiduinazhonghuatitaolunyouxingqu，fajuechunayigehuatitaolunshitahenxiangyaoyunishencengcididuoliaode。shijishangyidanfajuenvhaiyouxingqudehuatitaolun，niyejiunengkaiqilingyifangxianliaodexingfenzhichu，suihoudajiaxialiaozhengyeyeliaobuwande。

huatizhongjiezheshiqingshangdima？neima，dajiazenmepanduanyigexianliaomubiaotaduinayigehuatitaolunyouxingquni？

 zainiyutadexianliaoquanguochengzhong，liuyiguanchamoushi、yixieguanjianzi，tabujingyizhongyixiangqi2cizhishang……lirunijuedejintiandetianqifeichanghao？tajiangduia，shangnianzheigeshihouwoquhainanchadianerresile。yihannimeiyouguanxindaotatamen，yinciyihuierniyoutanqi，zheibuyingpiantingpiaoliangde，tayoushuo，duia，wozhiqianzaihainanshenghepenyouqukanguozheiyiyingpian……

 yincizheiyinvhaizaiqianyishizhongzhongshihenxiangzhaojiyuhetarenliaoyiliaohainanshengde，henyoukenengshangnianlijingdehainanzhilv，zhenduitaeryanshiyigejiqieyaoxianggongxiangdeyigelijing。tashitadexianliaoyaoqiusuoshu，jieguonihushile，huatitaolunrengzaimangmugenfengzhongbianlaibianqu。

 zheileizhuangkuangxia，nizhixuduiyutashucixiangqideguanjianzi，jinxinghuatitaolun，wenta：niheshiqudehainanshenga？wohaimeitingnitanqiguo，kuaigenwoxiangjinshuoyixiayoushenmehaowande。jianxintahuihenkaixindiyunixialiaobuduan。

 yeyoubianshi，xuduopenyou，youshiyifanneiyangyigewenti，neibianshiyuwulunci。neiyangliangrenkanqilaishizaixianliao，danshijishangshishixiaogoutongjiaoliu，budanlangfeishijian，cuoguolianghaodejihuie！，haihuijixudiliehaogandu。youyutichuwentihehuiyingmeishenmeguanxi，huiranglingyifangganjuenimeirenqingtadenanti，buzhongshita。

 helidegoutongjiaoliu，yidingshichuangjianzaibiciduitongyigehuatitaolundehuifushang。yinciqiadangdegoutongfangshi，shilingyifangtiqiwen，womenjiuxianliaoqi，lingyifangliaohuoguodian，womenjiutanhuoguodian。

 huanjuhuashuo，danglingyifangxunwenni：“niaibuaichimalatang？”ninengshuoxiai，haikeyishuotaoyan。weilegenghaodibimianbatianliaosi，shuotaoyandeqingkuangxia，nenggouduowenyiju：“niweishenmehurantandaohuoguodianni？”huoshifanwendaolingyifang：“neimanixiaihuoguodianma？”

 haibixufangzhideshitaikuaizhuanyihuati，yebianshinidecezhongdianpaodaoqitawupinshang，lirunvhaixunwenni：“nixiaichimalatangma？”nihuiying：“weihechimalatang？chiduolebingbushihuizhangdoudouma？huashuonilianbudedoukeyilema？”denglingyifangpobudeyihuiyingninantihou，suihouniyouwenta：“nilianshangdoudouzenmehuishia？shichiyaowuhaodehuoshizhongyaocaihaodea？”

 neiyangqusuibianzhuanyihuati，zaochenglelingyifangpobudeyiyizhihuiyingnitayagenbuyuanliaodehuatitaolun，youmeifashuotahenxiangyaoshuodehua，zheijiushixianliaobuyukuaideyuangu。

 yeyouyizhongyuwuluncidezhuangkuangyaoliuyi，neibianshichediwulunlingyifangzaishuoxieshenme，zhishuozishenxiangshuode。lirulingyifangxunwenni：“nixiaichimalatangma？”nihuiying：“yi？zheishihouyoushijianliwola？”lingyifanghuihenmeiqudexiang：zaozhibulinile。

 zaihetarengoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，bubiyuwulunci，bubisuibianzhuanyihuati。youyudangyigerenjinxingyigehuatitaolundeqingkuangxia，tongchangbiaomingtarujinduizheiyihuatitaoluntebieganxingqu，yaoxiangyunitaolunzheiyihuatitaolun，jiaruniyuwuluncihuoshizhuanyihuati，lingyifangjiumeiyoubanfashuozishenyouxingqudehuatitaolun，yejiujianshaolexianghenixianliaodechongdong。

 tongguoqingshanggaoderenliaotianjietu，weinifenxizenmeliaotian。yiner，niruguogaoqingchubenwendeshenkehanyi，renyurenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliuyagenjiubuhuiyouzhaobuzhehuatitaolundezhuangkuangcunyou。jilao，guanjianbuqujueyubuduandizhaohuatiliaotian，zhishizaixunzhaohuatitaolunlingyifangyouxingqudehuatitaolunyihou，buduanshencengcizheiyihuatitaolun。