嘴笨的人怎样学会说话 和喜爱如何的聊天话题

 bieyiweiyouyixienanhaizipingchangzhaidehen，juzaiyiqifangfodoubutaixiailiaoyouguan“nvhai”dehuatitaolun。pingchangzhaizaijiali，jiuaikanshudayidashoujiyouxi，fangfoyifudaxiaonanzihanbuyongtanfenghuaxueyuedezishi，danshijishanga，zainanhaizideneixin，yegennvhaiyiyang，qipanhuodeyifenganqing，rangganzaodexindihuodeqingliangdeshanquanshuiziyang。naozifanyingmanzuibenqingshangdi，suoyizuibenderenzenyangxuehuishuohua？

youyijuhuashuo：miaotiaoshunv，junzihaoqiu。

danzenmeqiu？zheishiyigeshifendaxuewen。

 naozifanyingmanzuibenqingshangdi，xuduodenanhaizidoushizaizheigewentishangkuibuchengjun。liru，wodi，tabianshiyigeyuzheiyishiqishifenpeiduidegongkenan，youzhai，youburongyizhuinvsheng。jiazhongjitamenxiangxijieshaolexuduodenanpengyou，doushizaitazheixie“nichifanlema？”“gongzuomangma？”deganliaozhongmeiyouxiawen。

 dajiashuo，huijianghua，shuzhideniaoerdoushiyouhenyoukenengbeinihongchulai，danbuhuiliaotian，lizainibianshangdenvshengdoushihuilinierqu，jianghuayouduoguanjian？xianeryijian。

 danwodiyouyigeyichu，tahaihuijixuqugenggai，quxuexi。danxuduonanhaizihuiwen，woyexianggenggaiya，ruhezuo？jinguanwobingbingbushiqingganzixunshi，danjiuyiyibannvhaideshijiaotaolunyixia，yiqitaolunyixia，zaixiangqinyuehuizhong，dajianvhaijiujingtaoyanruhedehuatitaolun，hexiairuhedeliaotianhuati。

一、相亲约会时的“尬”话题讨论

diyi，zhuyaobiaoxiandetaiguo“zhinanai”。

 zhuiqiumeilishirendetianxing，wulunnanhaihenvhaiquanshiyiyang。bianshanglijingyigexiuzhangmeituinvhai，wojianxinmeiyouyigerenbucemuershiqukankan。nanrenxihuanmeilidenvhai，ernvrenxihuanbazijichuanzhedabandehuazhizhaozhande。

 “mei”shizhuduonvhaiyishengdezhuiqiuwanmei，danqueyoushifennanqubaochi。youyupiaoliangjiuxianghuayiyang，feichangrongyidiaoluo。yinci，wulunzheiyinvhaipiaolianghuoshibupiaoliang，zainvhaineixin，tadouxiaineiyangdenuanxinqinghua，woxihuanni，bingbushiyouyuniderongyanbale。huanjuhuashuo，nibianweiruhe，wohaiaizheni。

 jiaruzaixiangqinyuehuizhongtu，niyejiuneimexinjizaihunvhaiderongmao，neima，jiucaizhonglenvhaidekunrao，piaoliangdenvhai，tahuixiang，“wozhihoubupiaoliangle，neimenishifoubuaiwole？”bumeilidenvhaitayehuixiang，“wobuhuimei，nihaowuyiwentaoyanwo。”yinci，piaolianghuoshibupiaoliangdenvhai，doukenengtizaohenijuedezaijian。

 dannanhaiziyouyouqizaihurongmaoni？gaizenmeban？xiangxijieshaoqiantitiaojianqiankanguoxiangpian，houmianyizhongliaoleleisiyihou，weiwandiyaoxiangpian，cike，nvhaitajiuburongyiduosikaole。

第二，除开“用餐”和“工作”，从此无话可聊。

 xiandaishehui，xiuxianyulenenggouquankaoyibushoujichuli，dahuoergongzuoxiabanle，qiyehejiazhongliangdianyixian，xiuxitian，zhaizaijiali。neiyangdezhuangkuang，zaochenglezhainannvdeshejiaoquanzengjia，lejieyixingpengyoudejiyuyeyuelaiyueshaole。

 zaijiashang，nanhaihenvhaiyushengjulaidesiweimoshibuyiyang，yincizaochenggoutongjiaoliuzhonghuichuxianyixienandian。youyixienanhaizi，henanhaizixuduohuatitaolun，xuduonvshenghenvsheng，nenggouliaodaohenkuaile，dannvshenghenanshengyiqixiangqinyuehui，quemeiyouhuashuo。

yinci，zairujindexuduoxiangqinyuehuizhong，nanhaihenvhaidouzhiliuzai“nichifanlema？”“nishangbanlema？”

 manmandi，shuangfangdouganjuewuqu，ganjuelingyifanggoutongjiaoliubudao，zheibingbingbushisheidecuo，jinjinhaiwufakaiqilingyifangdeganqingdamenkou。

二、恰当开启的聊天话题

1、youlixianghezhengtiguihuadenvhai：

 meiyigenvhaidoushihuiyouzishendegerenaihao，youdenvhaijiaoweijijizhudong，tahenyoukenengyouzhelixiangheduijianglaiyouhenduodezhengtiguihua，zheizhongdenvhai，nenggouqianglietuijianliaoyixiezhiyeguihuacengmiandeshier。liru，niduijianglaideshexiangshisha？nirujinxiangyaozuodeshiershisha？yijuedenidongdeta，tahuibalabalahenijuedetanaozhongdexingfujiemian。

2、珍惜当下的女孩

 youdenvhai，tameiyouhendadezongtimubiao，henyoukenengjiaoweixiairichangshenghuozaishufudeshixia，neiyangdenvhai，tahenyoukenengjiaoweixiai“xiangyou”。nenggouliaoyixiegerenaihaodeshier，liru，xiaideouxiangmingxing，xiaikandedianshixinwenjiemu，xiaiqunalvyoudakaqiandao，xihuanchinaxiedetesemeishizheixie。

3、quefaanquangandenvhai。

 youdenvhaiyushengjulaiqianqueyixieguishugan，henyoukenenghuiyuershidewangri，huoshiyujiatingguanxixiangguan，neiyangdenvhai，tazuibixudebianshibeiguanaihuoshiyouxierenhetaqingtu。hebuqingjingdilingtingtajianghua，zaiyidingshuipingshangjiyutayixiekuanweiyujili。nenggouliaoyiliaoershideyixielijing，huoshizaichengzhangjieduanzhongpengdaoyixieshiqing，huoshijianglaidexiangxiangzheixie。

 shangbianjinguanjiangleyixieguilei，danshijishangxuduonvhaixihuandedongxidouleisi，yemeibiyaofendaotaixiangjin，zhuyaoshidajiazaixianliaoquanguochengzhong，juededaotaxihuanshenme，jiuyanzheliaoxialai，sanfalehuatitaolun，bianhuiyouchengqianshangwandehuatitaolunle。

 jiaruzaizhaobuzhetupokou，neihebucongyixierichangshenghuolingsuideshierliaodao，liru，nijintiankandaolenaxieyouqudeshi，fashengshenmeshiyouqudeshi，nijintiandeganshoushisha？henvshenggongxiangyixia，youyixienvhaikanzhenijijigongxiangzishenderichangshenghuo，tayehuijijigennigongxiangtaderichangshenghuo。

 suoyizuibenderenzenyangxuehuishuohua，renyurenxiangchu，huatitaolunshihenzhongyaode，xunzhaodeqiadangdeliaotianhuati，caihuituidongganqingdetigao。yuandajiadouxunzhaoyidiandianfangfa，zaorizhuidaoxinaidenvhai。