怎样构建一个轻松的闲聊环境 找男生聊天开头说什么

 jiaruyigenanhaierwendahuoerruhezhuinvsheng，henyoukenengyidinghuiyouxierenduitashuoyiwanzhongzhuinvshengdezhaoshu。keshiyidanyouxierenwen“nvhaiziyaozenmezhuinanshengni”，dajiabianhuihenijuede：“nvhaiqianwanbiejiji”“jijinanhaizijiuburongyizhenxile”。zhaonanshengliaotiankaitoushuoshenme？henanshengliaotianyoumokaichangbaigaizheiyang。

 tingqilaihenyouxiedaoli，keshizhenduiyaoxiangquzhuiqiuwanmeixinainanhaizidenvshengeryan，tamenzhenshishiyigejidademiulun——nixiaizheiyinanhaizi，keshiniyoubukeyijiji，neimanixuyaozenmebanni？

shijishangnvshenghuoshibixujiji，zhibuguoshizheierdejiji，bingbingbushishahuhupaoquhetashuodao“woaini“neimejianyi。

zhaonanshengliaotiankaitoushuoshenme？nibunenglijiqugaobai，keshininengxiyinzhuta，zuizhongshitalaixiangnigaobai。

 zheishiyigerangwaibixiananneidequanguocheng。tingqilaifangfohuichuxianyixiejianxin，keshizhixushizhangwodaozaiqizhongdefangfa，shijishangbingbuhuitainan。

zuilijidefangfa，jiushixianliao。

 liuyi，tashiyichangyoumudixianliao，shijianhenyoukenengyouyixiezhang——1~3geyueshizuiyouxiaodeqinei，zheiyishijianfanweichongzudajiabicizhijianzhangwolingyifang，erqiejuecexubuxuyaozaiyiqi。

xianliaomudiyousange：zhangwolingyifang、zhanxianzishen、xiyinzhulingyifangliuyi。

我明白大家很有可能关注的是“我想怎样开局？“”他他们我想怎么回答？“”他为什么不回我了，是感觉我乏味吗？“

chulizhishangzheizhongnanti，youyigefeichangjiandandefangfa：diaojienizijidexinlizhuangtai。

 zaixianliaodequanbuquanguochengzhong，qingjilaozishendejingzhundingweibingbingbushiyige“yixingpengyou“，zhishi”penyou“。xiangbiganqing，youyikanqilaigengqingqingsongsong，yebuhuizhuzhongneimeduo“zeren”he“yiwu”。

huiyiyixianiyupengyoushiruheliaotiande？

 nisuishisuidinenggouhetagongxiangnideganshou、niderichangshenghuo，jiarutameiyoudiyishijianhuini，niyemanbuzaihu，ninengzaicigaogaoxingxingdequzuozhenshidezijideshier，dengtahuiyingdanniyouyoushijiandeqingkuangxia，dajianenggouzaicizheiyihuatitaolun，huoshidakaiyigexindehuatitaolun——zongeryanzhi，youyidebiaozhunbianshiqingqingsongsonghezide。

nikendingbuhuishuo“niganggangquganshenmele，weishenmebuhuiwo？”

 yebuhuizaitamangdeyaosiledeqingkuangxiapinlemingfaxinxijitamen，yuanyinshi“wohuranganjuehenyumen，ninengbunengpeizhewoshuoshuohua？”

 gengburongyiyizhizai“denghou”——jiaruniyaohenidepengyouxianliao，ninenglikekaiqixianliaoduihuakuang，gongxiangnideyouqudeshi，erbushimeishimiaozhongkanyicishoujishang，dengdaitajijirangnifaxinxi。

 zheierwoyaoshuo：shijishangsheixianjinxingxianliaoyidianyebuguanjian，yaoxiangshuoxieshenme，jiuyaoshuohaole。youshitandaoyibanninyouzhejideshi，jiuluoluodafanggaozhilingyifang“henbaoqian，linshixingshoudaoyigemeirirenwu，bixuyingjijiejue，dajiawanyidianzaishuo”。

jijijinxinghuihua，jijiwanbihuihua，zheidoubushishenmelebuqideshier，fandaohuikanqilainigengweixiaosahezixinxin。

eryongpenyoudezhenshishenfenjinruxianliao，zuiyouyisideyidianqujueyu：

 jiaruniyongpenyoudexintaiyulingyifangxianliao，lingyifangyekenengzaoshounideweihai，chixujiaqiangzheileiguannian，jiangzishenjiedingcheng“nidepengyou”。

 yijukulide“jingzhongwo”jichulilun，dajiayizhibatarenduizishendexintaiwanruyimianjingzinengzhaochulaizishendepinpaixingxiang，bingcongererchanshengziwoyishideyinxiang。

zheijiushishehuixinlixueshangdejingxiangxiaoying。

 henanshengliaotianyoumokaichangbaigaizheiyang，huanjuhuashuo，nizhuyaobiaoxiandeyuedangran，lingyifangbianhuizaizaiqianyishizhongzhongchixudejiaqiangzishenshinidepengyouzheiyiyinxiang。