女孩相亲应该注意什么？相亲技巧及注意事项

 zhonghuawenhuayoushangxiawuqiannianbodajingshendewenhuaneihan，shiyigedangzhiwukuidewenhuayishuzhonghuaminzu。neima，zaichengchuanlejiqianniandehunyinshenghuowenhuayishuzhong，xiangqinyuehuizhanyoulefeichangguanjiandeyingxiangli。budangushihou，nvhaixiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyin,jiusuanshigaoxinkeji、xinxineirong、shejiaomeitibijiaofadadejinri，xiangqinyuehuiyiyangbianchenghenduonianqingrenhelaorendezhiai，bianchenghenduoshihunnianlingnanhaihenvhaizhaoduixiangdeguanjianfangshi。neimanvhaixiangqinyinggaizhuyishenme，xiabianwolianxishijigongzuojingyanweidahuoergongxiangyixiegongzuojingyan。

男生和女生相亲约会的整体规则：

anshi、yizhehuiweihaidiyiyinxiang，taidujuedingchenggongyushibai；

yongyuyan、yantanjuzhilaishiduchengxianzishenzuichusedecengmian；

zaiyidingshuipingshang“zhuang”，keshibubiranglingyifangyanfan；

zaitanqiyixiehuatitaolunshi，yingdangqianxun，liruxingzi、jiawulaodongdeng，neiyangshuohuiranglingyifangzuochuzuidizhizhunbei。

 julishuoming１：jiarunishuonizongshixihaoerbuhuizuofan（shijishangninengzuoyixiejianyidefanshi），neimatachiyile，huoshilijibianhuanhuatitaolun，neimayuzhaozhetazaizheixiefangmiankenengbutaijienani；jiarutaxiaozheduinishuo：“meishier，wonengzuo，wonengzhanhuozhufan，yaoshiniyuanyixuedehua，wohenyuanyijiaoni！”neiyangdelingyifang，shiqueshiduinixindongle，erqieyouniantouyuniguorizi。

女孩相亲应该注意什么？

第一步：相亲约会前的提前准备

 wulunshixiangqinduixiangshishousheixiangxijieshao，nizuishaoduilingyifangyouqimadezhangwo：gezi、nianji、jiazhong、hunyinshenghuolijing、gongzuozhong、jiatingzhuzhideng。

 zheizhongfeichangjiandandecailiao，jiaruniyongxinpouxi，nenggouzaiyidingshuipingshangmianyougenjudi“caixiang”tadeyixiexiguanyangchenghexingqing。congkeguanshang，nineixindayuebianhuiyouyidingdedingyi，xiangqinyuehuideshihouhuizhuyaokanlingyifangdenajigefangmian；conglixingshangjiang，zhixulingyifangyongyouyierzhongnikanhaodezhiliang，ninenghenxiwangxiangqinyuehuineiyitian。

 jiarubiaozhunrongxu，ninengduocongcebianzhangwolingyifangderichangshenghuo，zheiyangyilai，jiarunizhangwodaota／tahenchuse，nihenzhongyi，nizhiyouyongyoumudexingdetiqianzhunbei，caikeyiranglingyifangyiyangyelingrenmanyini！

第二步：第一印象

anshi、yizhe、liyizhishi……bianshidiyiyinxiangzuilijidefanying

 anshi：wulunshibushixiangqinyuehui，douhenzhongyao，buyongguoduochanshi。tiyizaixiangqinyuehuishinanxingtizao１０—１５fenzhongdao，dianhaoyinpinchaye；nvxingtizao３—wufenzhongdaogengweishihe。

 yizhe：bingzheniduilingyifangdeshiqianzhangwo，zaiyidingshuipingshangchuanderanglingyifangxiai。nanhaizi，zhengtiguiding：jianyuedaqi，jiaruqiwenchangsuoshihe，nenggoushizhechuandexuanbuyidian。nanhaiziyibanbujianyidaishipin。

 nvhai，zhengtiguiding：kanbenrenaihao，nenggoujichuhuazhuangyikeyibuhuazhuang，yimaoxiewayaohuanjingzhengjie，nenggoudaiyiliangjianshipin。jinjibubinongzhuangyanmo，huijirenyizhongyaomeierbuzhenzhengdejuede。

 liyizhishi：diyicijianmian，shizhongshizuibaoguide。yingguojielansitexuexiaozuolediaoyan：diyicijianmianshidediyijuhuahediyigezishi，zhanyoulelingyifangduinidiyiyinxiangbilide７８％，youcikejianqibiyaoxing。yaoxiangjilingyifangyouliangdediyiyinxiang，liyizhishibukehuoque。nanhaizi：jijizhanqiweinvxingnuoyizi，weixiaodaqi，weichishidudejianju（７０—１００haomi），bukejunvxingtaijin，yifangnankan。

 nvhai：titaichenwen，mianhanxiaorong，chupengmianshi，yingdangweichiyidingdeweiwan，jianghuajinkenengcaozongshengyin，zhibixurangdajiaerrentingdaojiukeyi，nanxingjinidaochahuoshengfanshi，duojiang“ganxie”，zuozizuoziyidingyaozhuangzhong。

第三步：沟通技巧

 zaixiangqinyuehuiquanguochengzhong，９０％zhishangshinanxingzhanyouhuatitaolunhexin，neimatiyinanxingshiqianjingxinzhunbeihaoduogeyoumoduanzi，yongyudiaozhengfenwei。zaipengchujiaoweisimidehuatitaolunshi，yidingyaoliuyiyudiaodehuanjiehezhangwofencun。

julishuoming２：nishinvhai，nitexiangwennanxingdejiatingtiaojian。danbuqingchuruhewen？worangnichuxinzhao。

立即方法：

 nv：ｘｘ，woshuohuayoudianerliji，niyaobiejieyio！qishiwoshiyongxinandunxialai，keshiwulunshibabamamahuoshiwozijidouqidaiyouyigexingfudejia，babamamaganjuenanxingyingdangyaoyoufangwucaixing，qishiwobingbingbushineimazhuzhonghuaxuewuzhi，wogengzhuzhongdeshineigerendesixiangjingjie，meiyoufangwuzhenduiwolaishuoshijishangbudajin，keshizhongyaobianshiguobushangbabamamadejianxin！yinci……（biezaicijiangle，zhuangzuoyinchaba）

 jiangjie：ruguoshiyoufangwudenanhaizi，tahuixiaozheduinishuohuida。ruguoshimeifangwudenanhaizi，huidajiuxiqiguguaile，nanhaizishuzuiduodehuiyingyibanshi：yaowanhunfangwukendingshibixude，zijihaichadianerqian，jiazhongyehuizhizhuyixie，２０２０nianbianhuiquanjiedaikuanyitao。

 zhenduizheileihuiying，nvhainizijijiuxuyaozhangwole，tamen，yibanyiweizhetajitadebabamamarujinqueshimeiyougongzuonenglimaifang，nihetazaiyiqi，jiarujiehunle，gongzhufangdaikuanshiwubideshier。ziran，jiarubierenqueshishichengzhanggu，sanliangnianjiukeyibafangwunaxia。

wanzhuanfangfa（cebianfangfa）：

 nv：ｘｘ，wobiaomeitinghaokan，qunianjielehun，wobiaojiefuduitatingbucuo。dangshiwanhundeqingkuangxia，nanxingshuodisanjiduqumaifang，keshiyizhimeijiqian，xinshuidoubugao，zaochengwojiejierujinhuaileyun，huoshizudefangwu，changchangbanxinjia，henquefaanquangan。wonvxuyizhiquanwojiejiebaxiaohaidaguo，youyutashuodaoneiyangdejiazhongyaowoqinjiejiechikubudajin，guanjianshirangxiayidaimeiyouyigehaodejiatingfenwei。

 jiangjie：huadaozheiyifenshang，zhixubingbushierlengzidenanhaizi，yingdangtingdechuniyaobiaodashenmefangfa。zaiciyinchaba，kantazenyanghuiyingzheigewenti。jiarutazhenxiangheniguorizi，huijiangyifanchulizheigewentidefangshi，jiarutayixiaoerguo，biaomingtayunihenyoukenengjinjinxiangsuibianwanwaneryi。

举例说明３：你是男孩子，相亲约会完毕，想问一问她对你的觉得。

 fangfayi：jiaruzaixiangqinyuehuiquanguochengzhong，nifajuetaxingqingguishuyuleguanxing，neimaninengyongbanwanxiaobanyongxindehua，lijiwen：“ｘｘ，nijuedewozenyang？”

 jiangjie：zhenduizhishangdenanti，yibandenvhaidoushihuihuiying“haibucuo”，suihoujiumeixiamianle。zheileizhuangkuangxia，nijiuxuyaochengredatie，bafenweihuoyuexingqilai。keyiyongfengqufangshi，nenggouzaiciyuetaquguangjie，qugongyuan，huoshinilejietayounaxiexihao，shunshuituizhou。jiarutatongyile，ｏｋ，youjihui，jiarutajicongconghuijuehuanjuhuashuobuyuanqu，neimabubijiuchanbuqing，zuoyigeshenshi，songtahuiliquba。yexuniyoujihui。

 fangfaer：jiarupengdaohanxuxingnvren，nilijiwentaneiyangdenanti，huiyouyixiemaomei。ninengzaixiangqinyuehuiwanbishi，chuanchudiyicixuanbuyouhui：

nan：zheigelibaitianyoushijianma？womenyiqikandianshiju，《ｘｘｘｘ》gongyingle。

 ziran，jiaruniyaoyongzheiyizhao，nitizaodeyaolejiezheiyilibaitiangongyingdeshishenmedianying，yeyoubianshizhangwotashibushixiaikandianshiju。ziran，chukaikandianshiju，yeyoubiedefangfa，liruquyoulechang、pashan、kanhuadeng。

 jiangjie：jiarutabingbufangankandianshiju，erdangzhongtongyile，haoxiaozi，xianzaijihuilaile。jiarutajiangneishihouzaikan，neibianshizaichiyi，zheileiqingkuangxia，jinjibubizheji，suiyueran，zailixiayiciyouhuiqinei，baochilianluo，jiyurengzainishoushang。jiarutajiangbuyuanquhuoshiconglaibukandianshiju，neidaduoshuyaoliang。nijuedenianqingrenconglaibukandianshijuma？zheileirenjiusuanshiyou，kenenghetarichangshenghuozaiyiqidoumeiyoukuaile。

第四步：相亲约会成本费用难题

 zuoweiershiyishijideshenshinansheng，wobenrenganjuezuihaoshihuoshinanxingyigerenfu。jiarunidebiaozhunsuanbushangtaihao，ninengtiaoxuanxiaofeidiyidiandediqu，jiarunvxingbiaozhunyunileiside，daduoshuburongyikanbushang，daliangdeshiganjueniqueshi，huiguorizi。ziran，doubuqingchuyouyixienvshengzishenjiashisuanbushanghao，renyeyibanertaiguozhuiqiuwanmeihuaxuewuzhi。daduoshuqingkuangxia，xiangqinyuehuidoushihuiyoudisanzhe，lirubabamama、qinpenghaoyouhuoshimeipo。neiyangzuihaoshi，ninengshiqianbaqianjibabamamahuomeipo，jiucanwanbihourangtamenqufukuan。ziran，wojianyinanhaizizishenqufukuan，neiyangnenggouxingxianghuadijinvhaiyizhongyinxiang：zhihouwohetazaiyiqi，zhifudeneirenburongyijiushiwo。（jiusuanshineishihounvhaizhifushijishangshiyongdenanhaizideqian，keshinvhaiyushengjulaijiuyouyizhongkoumenbenxing，buyuanyicongzishendaizilinaqianchulai。nvhaiwupen，bingwuguyi。zheiyidianshiwozhuduonvxinggaozhide。）

 ziran，jinqizaiwangshangfashengleyizhongxiangqinyuehuiａａzhifuqianfangfa，zheileifangfadaduoshuchanshengzaishuangfangdouyouzhebijiaohaodegongzuodejibenshang。zheileifangfa，bixushuangfangshiqianshangyi，buyinggaizaixiangqinyuehuiquanguochengzhongjuece。yaoshimeiyoushiqianshangyi，neimananhaierjiukaiqinideqianjiaba。

第五步：相亲约会完毕也许会决策你是不是被淘汰

 xiangqinyuehuijieshuyihou，biciduilingyifangdoushiyouyigezhengtishangdeyinxiang，ruguoshihentaoyan，neimejiufeichangjiandan，zhihouyexubulianxijiuｏｋ；ruguoshiguishuyuyouyubudingzhe，neiyangdezhuangkuang，zhixulingyifangzaichuseyidiandian，zaidechuyidiandianduizishenkeyixiyinzhudewupin，yexujiukeyichudongyifang。zaixiangqinyuehuiwanyihou，jiaruhuizhaoliaorendenanhaizi（qiantitiaojianshinvhaiduixiangqinyuehuidenvhaiyouhaogan），yidinghuijianchibuxiesongnvshenghuijiale，zuishaohuisongjinruchenei。ziran，diyicijianmian，nanhaizisongnvhaihuijialehuikanqilainishifenshenshi、huizhaoliaoren，jinvhaiguishugan。keshi，qingbuyaozaidiyicijianmianjiujinnvxingdejiamenkou，neiyanghuilingrenganjuenihensuibian。ziran，yibanzhuangkuangxia，miantianchenwendenvshengyebuhuishinijinmenchu。zuilixianghuadejieguobianshinanhaizisongnvhaidaoloudixia，musongtashanglouti。zheileizhuangkuang，jiarunanhaizizuodefeichanghao，neimayexuduiniyouyubudingdenvhai，huirangnidadajiafen，zuishao，liqudechenggongyoujinleyibu。

 wenxintixing：jiarunvhaihenjianchibuxunisonghuijiale，naizhibuxunisongtajinruchenei，neimananxingqingtingbuba！luohuayouyi，liushuiwuqing。tadexinchedimeiyounideshenshang。。