女孩没有安全感要妥当解决 如何跟女生聊天

 nvhaiyizhimeiyouanquangan，yincitamenhuiyonggeshigeyangdefangfamoliannanhaizidezhenxinshiyi，fenbianshibushifeichangzhidexiangchu。yibanpengdaonvhaidemolianshi，biaomingnvhaiqueshiyouzaikaolvdaoyunidejianglai，shixintengnide，yinciyidingyaotuodangjiejue。zenyanggenyixingliaotian？ruhegennvshengliaotianshiyimenjishuhuo。

一、和女生创建互相吸引住

 shuobailehuxiangxiyinzhubianshirangnvhaijuededaonishidongtade，gongshenghaogandudequanguocheng，zheierdeliaotiandejiqiaonenggoucaiyongshencenghuatitaolungongmingdianhequedianhelixing。

1、shencenghuatitaolungongmingdian

 shencenghuatitaolunyejiushikeyizaixianliaozhongquhenvshenglajinjianjudehuatitaolun，zheieryibanbianshiaiqingguan、qingganshi、renshengguan、jiazhiguannianjiqichengzhangjieduanzhongdetiansuankula，guanjianbianshizhengqueyindaonvhaijiangchuzishendexiaogushi，zheieryaoxianghenvshengyinqigongming，bixudajiakaizhanzhengqueyindao，liru“woshi”“worenwei..nilei?”“diyiciyujiannineiyangde….yinxiangzhongdenvhaidou……”

zaixianliaoquanguochengzhongchuandizishendeyishiheguannian，duinvhaikaizhanyidingdelingdaoganbu。

2、缺点合理性

 zenyanggenyixingliaotian？henvhailiaotiandequanguochengzhonghuimanmanzhangwolingyifang，huifajuelingyifangdeyixieyoushiyulieshi，cikedajiajiukeyibanvhaideyixiequexianyuelaiyuehelixing，rangnvhaigaoqingchunishidongtade，liru：

bushinixingzicha，zhishizheixierenyagenbumingbainidaodiyaoxiangnaxie

bushinijiaozong，zhishitamenmeinaixin

二、接纳女孩的磨练

 liruhenvshengyouhuishi，lingyifangchidaole，zheihenyoukenengbianshiyigemolian。jiarunizhiyinvshengzenmelaiwanle，neibanfeichangrongyijiuhushilenvhaidexintai，erqiebabuzhengqueguizuijinvhai，zongshirangnvhaiganjuenibuhuiliaotian。

 ruhegennvshengliaotianshiyimenjishuhuo，qiadangdezuofashitucaonvhaishifouzhituzhehuazhuanglejiulaiwanle，huanjienvshenglaiwanlezheiyijiaoweinankandefenwei，suihouzaiquzanyangnvhaihaokan，zanyangnvhaideyucitongshizhuanyihuati。