怎么跟妹子聊天找话题 究竟该怎么与女生聊天

 zenmegenmeiziliaotianzhaohuati？henvshengliaotianyoumohuatibunanzhao。zuoriwokanlegedixiongdeweixinliaotianjilu，gushibeijingshilianggerendayouxilejiede，nvhaiganjuetajishuxingbijiaohao，suihoujiujialev，weilegenghaodijianqingnankan，nanhaizijijidakaihuatitaolun，wojidahuoergunian：

nan：piaoliangxiaojiejieyouhuchouma？

“gangtiezhinan”xianliaoshishayang，jianxindixiongmenyekandaole。

 zenmegenmeiziliaotianzhaohuati？dangtingwenzheiyinvshengzhudongjiananhaizivdeqingkuangxia，worenweinanhaizishihenyouqidaide，congkaishiyouxitishenghaogandu，genjuyixilieshijicaozuorangnvhaiqinpei，jijijiav。jieguojiajinhouneiyijuhuayichu，lijibeifangruheiwu。

 youyixiedixionghaihuijixubianbowoyixiashuo，bushishuoxianliaoyaoranglingyifangyouqingxubodongma？wozheibushijitazaochengleqingxubodongme？

 jilao！qingxubodong：conglaibugaoxingdaogaoxing，zhidaoreqinggaozhang。bingbushiwuyuanwugudegaoxiaoduanzi，yaoburanzuizhonghuodede，jinjinbeibierensongnidehongsegantanhao！

 chediburangnizaiduquyoufatagaoxing，rangtaduinizaochengjijixintaidefanyingsudu；neimajibianniqianbiankaijuzuodeduomehao，zheiyixianliaoquanshibuchenggongde。

 zheiyejiushidajiajinriwenzhangneirongdeguanjianle。weiheyouyixiedixiongyunvhailiaoledabannianyiniandoumeifashengjiguanlian，eryouyixiedixiongzaijiashangnvhailiaoleduanduandeshijijujiushengjileguanlianni？jiujinggaizenmeyunvshengliaotianni？

 zuixianzaixianliaoyiqian，dajiabixulejieyigebiaozhun，neibianshiyunvhaiweichigongpingguanlian！genjuxianliaogaozhinvhai，dajiashijishangshigongpingde，shitongyizhongren，shizaiyigepindaolanmude。

一、聊天的话题

 jiadaoyigenvshengyihou，dajiazuixiannenggouqukankantadeweixinpengyouquan，congtadeweixinpengyouquanzhaohuatiliaotian，kantapingchangfadewupinqutuiduanzheiyinvhaipingchangdegerenaihao，suihougenjuzaiqizhongyigedianqujinxingxianliao。

 liruruguonvhaideweixinpengyouquanchangchangfatawudaohuozhexiaochongwudexiangpian，niyejiunenggoucongminzuwudaohuoxiaochongwuzheilianggedianqukaiqihuatitaolun，jinvhaichuansongyizhongniliangshiyouyitonggerenaihao，bicizhijianshibumouerhedejuede。

qudechenggongdekaiqihuatitaolunhou，dajiajiukeyizaishencengcideliaoyixiabicidebiedegerenaihaozheileide。

 danyaojilaodeshi，zaizheigexianliaodequanguochengzhong，shidudejiaochazishendejiazhiguannianzheileide，yaorangnvhaiganjuenishigesanguanzhengqiekeyihetaguannianxiangfuhederen，rangtaganjueniliangshileisiren。

 zheierhaihuijixuyouyigechuxianyiwaizhuangkuang，bianshinvhaideweixinpengyouquanmeiyouduiwaikaifangdezhuangkuangxia，ciketadevtouxiangtupian，nichenghuozhevhaojiushinidakaihuatitaolundedianle，queshibuhaonijiajinnvhaidefangshiyeshinenggoude。

 jinji！qianwanbieyishangqujiuchaxunhukoushidepancha！！haoxiang“nijiaoshenmemingzia？”“nilaizinalia？”“niganshenmedea？”“nizainaligongzuozhonga”……

 zheileichaxunhukoushidexianliaobudanburongyishinihuodezishenyaoxiangdehuida，bingqiehaihuijixurangnvhaidichunaizhilijijiaruheimingdanni！

 bubiyishangqujiupangenwendi！nvhaitebieshizaidichuneiyangdeliaotianhuati。neiyangdexianliaozainvhaiyanlibianshidiaosi，zadi，niyaoxiangyilaijiujirensuzaonidiaosidepinpaixingxiang？

 neihaowuyiwenyouyixiedixiongjiuxuyaojiangle，dannvhaishenpanghaowuyiwenyeyouxierenneimehetaliaoliaoba。youneiyouruheni？womenyaozuoyigekeaiderenma，yaozuoyigerangtaganjueniyutashenpangbierenshibuyiyangdecunyouderen，neiyangnvhaicaikeyijideni。

二、聊天话题

zuijibenshangdeliaotianhuati：chenshuju+benshentihui

 liruniyizhizaijinvshengfaxinxineirongdeqingkuangxia，shuo“gangyupengyoujuhuihuijia，haoleiya”，“gangcongjianshenhuisuohuijia，quanshenshangxiaqingqingsongsong，juedelifubujirouyoujinleyibu”，“ganglaidaogeshaokaotan，zheiyiweiyetaitiexinleba”……zheixie。

 yongneiyangganlenaxiejiabenshendetihuilaimiaoshunideyigeqingkuang，rangnvhaizaizhangwonideyucitongshihainenggenjunidehua，qujienidehuatitaolun。

zheiyoujiufangzhileyoushidajiafayiwangyijuhua，dannvhaibuqingchuzenmejie，bianhuilijitiaoxuanbuhuihuozhe“ng，e”defasheng。

zhongjiuxianliaohudongjiaoliu，jiushideyaoweichibicizhijiandounengjiedeshanghuadexianliaoma。

 bingqiedabufendixiongzaixianliaodeqingkuangxiawangwangburongyishengjiguanlian，bianshiyouyuqianquexingzhangli。yinciwomenzaiyunvshengliaotiandeqingkuangxianenggoushidudeqianruxienengyoudairugandejuzi，tishengxingzhangli。

shidudedairugannenggourangnvhaizaochengxiangdao。jugeshili：

 “wozhihouyidingyaozaijialiyanggexiaochongwu，meirixiabanlehuijiayushenaidenvhaiyiqiliuxiaochongwu，wogongzuodeqingkuangxiaxiaochongwupeita，wofangjialedeqingkuangxiayuxiaochongwuyiqipeita。”

 “wodoumanxiangyaoquhelanrichangshenghuode，qianzheshenaidenvshengdeshou，zouzailanmandelinjianxiaodaoshang，yiqisansanbu，yiqixiangyouxiawuchashijian，yiqizhaoxiangxuannao。”

jiandaolemeiyou？shifounaozilihuichuxianneiyangdejiemianzaocheng？

三、闲聊的頻率

 yaojilao，nvshengfalaidexinxineirongjinyouyixing，neimenihuixinxineirongyejiuhuiyixingjiuhaole；nvhairangnifadeduoshaogezi，niyejiuhuiyutaleisizijiukeyile。

 yidingbubifashengnipipipapajiangleyidui，nvhaijiujinjinjianyidehuiyingyilianggezi，neiyangbudanniquanguolianghuibupingheng，bingqienvhaihenyoukenengzongshicongnifayiwangdeneiyiduanhuazhongshaichuzishenyouxingqudenantilaihuiying，jinerhuihushidiaonidebiedenanti，neiyanghenyoukenenghaihuijixuzaochengnidebudaoniyaoxiangdexinxineirong。

 jugeshili，niyaolejietazainaer，nijuede：“woqulezaixxx，nizhunaerya？”yihouniyoujieleyiju：“juedenixiangpiandoupaidehaoyouqizhia，muguanghenyoupohuaili，shiganshenmedea？”

 cike，nvhaikendingshihuiraoguonidiyicinantilijihuiyingnidiergenantide，jibianhoubiantayoumudedaoyeyougenantimeiyouhuiyingni，danniruguomeiyouzaidutidaodehua，tayebianhuilijizuoweimeiyoujiandaoyiyangdeyuniliaoxiayigehuatitaolunle。

 haiyouyixiecikexintiaopanbianshuozaiyunvshengliaotiandeqingkuangxiabuqingchuzenmejiehuazenmehuifu，zheierjidixiongmenjianyideshuoerdianha。

1、liaonvhaibenshen，yongzanyangdefangfabiaoshuduitadexingquaihaoshengjiguanlian

举个事例：

nv：“wozheigegongzuozhongbiededouhaihao，bianshitaimangle。”

 nan：“mangdiankeyia，rujinfeichangshaoyounvhaihuijianchibuxiezishendeaihaole，dahuoerdoushihuijiaoweixihuanwandianle，rangnijiayifenheihei。”

2、liaozishen，yongziyiweishidefangfazhengqueyindaonvhaixiangmutouzihuonaodongdakaizanyang

举个事例：

nv：“yo，neimehaodehaodema。”

nan：“duia，duinineimehao，heshibangwozuoyidunfandangshouyia。”

yaoliuyideshizheiyixiangmutouzibingbingbushishuochengyaonvhairangnitaoqianmaiwupinzheileide！dixiongmenbiegaocuole。

nv：“nigongzuozhongbumangma？yeyoushijiangenwoxianliao。”

nan：“pengdaoneimetaorenxihuanpiaoliangdenvhai，yizhixiangxianlaiwushiyixia。”

3、youfanhuajian，dadanaonao，nishuixingzhou。

 zainvshengxihuannideqiantitiaojianxia，lijimorenshezhibicizhijiandeguanlianshiqinglvguanlian，suihoulingzhenvshenghenikaizhandadanaonao。

 henvshengliaotianyoumohuatibunanzhao，zhuyile，jiarucikenvhaifanyingbudahao，neimejiuqianwanbiequtuidongle，chehuilai，liaonvhaihuoshiliaozishendounenggou，dengtahuifuhaolazaishiyixiajiuxing。zhongjiuxiuxiudeshizhangciyiwangdangranjiushunlichengzhanglema。