怎样聊天才可以不尬聊 怎么跟妹子聊天找话题

 zaizhuiqiunvshengzhong，genxiaidenvshengliaotian，shidajiabicizhijianzuilijidegoutongjiaoliufangfa。xianliaodeyoulie，jiulijijueceledajiadeguanliandetuidongsulv。erzaimuqiandehulianwangneimebijiaofadadezhuangkuangxia，dajiajuedaduoshuxianliaoquanshizaiwangluoshangkaizhan。erhulianwangshangxianliao，youyigebutaihaodiqu，bianshiwenben、shipinyuyindemiaoshu，suochuandichulaideganqingshibijiaoyouxiande。bingqieyiyangyijuhua，nilejiedaodehanyi，helingyifanglejiedaodehanyichedibuyiyang。yeyouxuduonanhaizi，xianliaogongzuonenglibuqiang，gennvhaizaiwangluoliaotian，jiuchangchanghuifashenggaliao。zheizhenduinvhaieryan，nihaowuyiwenshizainvhaineixinliuyoulebutaihaodeyinxiang。neimayaozenyangliaotian，caikeyibugaliao，rangnvhaijuedeshifenyouyisi。zenmegenmeiziliaotianzhaohuati？henvshengliaotianyoumohuatibunanzhao。

1、聊共同话题

 zaochengxianliaogaliaodeyuangu，henyoukenengshimeiyouxunzhaohaodehuatitaolun。nijuededehuoshilingyifangshuode，quanshibicizhijianbulejie，huoshitaoyandehuatitaolun，nilailiaodeqingkuangxia，dangranlingyifangdoubuyuancanjiajinlai。yaochulizheigewenti，qishibushihennan。bianshigenjuduilingyifangdeweixinpengyouquanheshejiaowangluopingtaixinxineirong，quhuoqugongtongyuyan。zheiyihuatitaolunnenggoushigerenaihao、gongzuo、tesemeishi、xiaochongwuzheixie。ruguonizhaodao，jiukeyiqudakaizheizhonghuatitaolun，neimalingyifangdangranhenxiangyaogennihudongjiaoliu。keshizailiaoshi，kaijubunengyongyiwenjudefangfaqukaiju，neiyangranglingyifanghuichuxiangongzuoyali，zheileifangfashifougenninianshujiaoshishinilaijiedawentileisi。womenshihendichude，bingqiezheiyeshizaichixuxianglingyifangsuoyaoshiyongjiazhi。ninengyongchenshujuqukaiju。lirudajiadoushiyougongtonghuatixiaochongwu，ninengshuokanzheniyangdexiaogou，huixuduocaiyibiaoyan，taitaorenxihuanle。

2、擅于聆听和表述见解

 zenmegenmeiziliaotianzhaohuati？zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，youshihounizhaobuzhehuiyingshenmedeshihou。ninengbiaoshuzishendejianjie，hegongxiangzishendelijing、xiaogushizheixie。zainigongxiangzhong，yehuiyinchulaiyixiexindehuatitaolun，suihouzairanhouzheizhonghuatitaolunquliaojiukeyile。neiyangjiukeyifangzhixianliaoganliaodekunjing，bingqiejijidezishentanluzishen，yeshiyizhongminganxiangduixingdezhuyaobiaoxian，zheinengrangnvhaidaliangdizhangwodaoni，jiukeyixunsudigenlingyifangchuangjianshushigan。ziranniyenenggouwuxugongxiangzishendelijing，ninengrangnvhaitanyitantadelijing。zheiyijiuxiangyaoniyouyidingdeliaotiandejiqiaole，zheiergongxiangyigexiaoqiaomen。niyaorangnvhaixiangjinijuededaliang，niyejiuyongtonglixinjishuxing，rangnvhaiganjuenihendongta，neiyangtabianhuikankanertandigennishuoxuduo。ziranniyizhizaizuoyigelingtingzheshi，jiububiqieduanlingyifangdehua，youshihouzuoyidianxiaohudonghebiaoshurentongjiukeyile。neiyangquxianliao，yejiuburongyifashengganliaodezhuangkuang。

3、摆脱焦虑不安

 xuduodixionggennvshengliaotian，bingbushitabushanyanci，shitaguodujiaolvbuan，zishenxinlizhuangtaimeiyoudiaojiehao。zenmehuifashengjiaolvbuandexintai？youyuxuduonanhaizizaizhuiqiunvshengshi，jiushezhileyigezishendezongtimubiao，neibianshiyaowoxiangranglingyifangbianchengwonvpengyou，bianshiyouyuyongyouzheiyizongtimubiao。tazaihoubiandexianliaozhongjiuyuelaiyuehentixindiaodan，xiangzainvhaiyanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandeshifenyouyi。youyutapashuoshuocuo，zishenjiubuzuhaola，nvhaijiutaoyanzishenhuoshiliquta。jinerjiuzaochengzishenzaixianliaozhong，jianghuaquanshiyaochiyizaisancaihuihuiyinglingyifang，naizhijiaolvbuandaobuqingchushuonaxiehao。yaobaituozheileijinzhang，baxinlidiaojiehao，zheiergongxianghaoduogexiaoqiaomen。yi、bubishedingmubiao，jiubanvhaidangyibanpengyouchu。er、bubiguoduoqinglinvhai，nenggoushidudihuinvhai，laibaochixinlipingheng。san、suzaozixinxin，nenggouzixinxinqianyi，jiangnizixinxindeyimianqianyidao，gennvshengliaotianshangbianlai。gaohaozheijigefangmian，jiunengfeichanghaodibaituoxianliaozhongdejinzhang，neiyangxianliaojiuburongyifashenggaliaole。

 henvshengliaotianyoumohuatibunanzhao，jiarunixianliaozongshichaxunhukou，tiwenti，neimananyiranglingyifangyouxingqu，wulunshigongzuozhong，richangshenghuo，huoshiganqing。youyisi，youmoderenyizhishourenreliehuanyingde。