交往中常常会尴聊怎么办 怎样和妹子聊天找话题

 xianliaonenggoushuochengyifentongwanghenvshengpengmiandegerenjianli，gerenjianlixiebutaihao，neimajiubutaikenenghuichuxianzhaopinmianshidejiyu。xuduonanhaizizaihenvshengjiaowangzhongchangchanghuiganliao。zenyanghemeiziliaotianzhaohuati？hemeiziliaotiandehuatihaikanjiqiao。

这在其中有两层面的缘故。

1nvhaiduidajiameishenmexingqu，yinciwulundajiashuoxieshenmedoubingbudajiehuacha，zaochengganliao。

 2womenzijiliaotiandejiqiaodeyuangu。chukaixiaiduinvhaichixutiwen，taizaotaiduoguanzhuyiwai，yeyoubianshisiweimoshideyuangu。

 zenyanghemeiziliaotianzhaohuati？dajiajiadingyigeqingjing，nvhaigenhaoguimixianliaoshuo“zuorikanhaoyijianyifuhaopiaoliange，houhuimojimeiyoumai”，haoguimihuihuifudao“woshi，wozuotianyequguangjiele，kanhaoleyigebao，yangshichaojihaokan，yihanbushibixudesediao....”。xiamianliangnvhainenggoubalabalaliaohaojiuhaojiu。yiyangde，jiarunvhaishixiangnanshengshuo“zuorikanhaoyijianyifuhaopiaoliang，houhuimojimeiyoumai”，nanhaizijuedaduoshudehuifushi“yaoduoshaoqian？pianguima？wobangnimaia？”，zheileijiejuekunnandesiweimoshixianliao，nvhaishinanyihuifude。

 nanxingsiweipianzhongshijieguo，zhenduixingjiaoweiqueli，xiaijiejuekunnan。ernvxingsiweizeshiguanxinyiwang，heshixia，zheileiluojisiweibianhuidaliangdeqingtubiaoshu。yaoxiangfangzhiganliao，dajiajiudejuyouyibufennvxingsiwei，caikeyigengqiangdegoutongjiaoliu。

女性思维的工作能力：它包含2个层面：

diyicengmian，xushudairugandewenbenxinxineirongyunvxinggoutongjiaoliu；

 diercengmian，yaomingbaixintaizhuanhuan，buranhudongjiaoliuhuiyuelaiyuejiandanfawei。jiarunimeijuyouganxingsiwei，neimenihenvrendexianliaojushirutongyigezhiyaoshuoguoyubanderen，qiangzhigen—gezhiyaoshuowaiguoyuderengoutongjiaoliu，zheinandaoshuobingbushiduiniudanqinme？erganxingsiweidegongxiaobianshishinimeishenmejiaoliuzhangaidihenvxingjiaowang。

 hemeiziliaotiandehuatihaikanjiqiao，shijishangdajiadoushiyouguoganxingsiweideqingkuangxia，neibianshiershidedajiazhibixuchengdanwujuwushuwanshua，genbenwuxukaolvdaochichihehezhudenanti，hendangrandejiunengbansuizheqingxu，qushuozishenxiangshuode，huoshizuohaozijixiangyaozuodeshier。neishirendedanaodesisuofangfashi“xiangdao、zhuiyi”，shuochulaidewupinquanshinenggourangtarentinglejiunengxiangxiangdaojiemiande，ranglingyifangnengyidianyebufeilididairuxintaijiangjieneirong，suihoulikezuochuyijianfankuineirong，bingqiezhengchangliaotianyehuirangnvhaiganjueqingqingsongsongyouyisi，gengxiwangyunixianliao！