学好这3招90%的女孩都能聊下来 如何跟妹子聊天

 dabufennvshenghenanshengxianliaodoushihuiyouyigezhimingxingdenanti，bianshibuqingchushuoxieshenme。zaochengbingbushiganliao，bianshiciqiong，zuizhongyagenliaobuxialai。lianliaodouliaobuxialai，gengbieshuoliaochuqingganle。jiarunixianliaogangliaohao，yibanyueyeshiyuebuchulaide，jibenshangjiumeiyoubanfaquzhuishangzheiyinvhaile。ruhegenmeiziliaotian，hemoshengnvhailiaotiankaichangbaiyinggaishizaiyidianshuo。

yinci，wojinrijiujiaodahuoeryigeshifenzhongyaodegongzuonengli，xuehaozhei3zhao，henvhailiaotian90%denvhaidounengliaoxialai。

1、给予话题讨论

xianliaobixuyouhuatitaolun，ernvxingburongyijiyuhuatitaolun，zheijiuwubiyaonanshenglaizuo“jiyuhuatitaolun”zheijianshiqing。

henduorenbianhuitoutongle：erwoqueshizhaobuzhehuatitaolun，gaizenmeban？

 zhaobuzhehuatitaolun，shiyouyunideluojisiweiyouwu，qianqueqiadangdehuatitaolunluojisiwei。ruguoniyouzheqiadangdehuatitaolunluojisiwei，jiukeyibatiandiwanwuhuazuozishendehuatitaolun，bingqieshishifenyouqudewenti。

 ruhegenmeiziliaotian，jugeshilieryan，ninenglailiaozishenjinriganleshenmeshiqing，keshiyaoliuyi，nixuyaoyongfengfuduocaideyuyanbiaodalaixushu。birunijintianguangleyifudian，zuizhongmeijueceyongshenme。niyejiukeyishuo：“jinriguangleyifukuzi，zuizhongmeizhaodaoxiaide，huijiazhiganjuetuitaileile。”

 zheilibianjiujiyulehuatitaolun，rangnvhainenggouganshouniderichangshenghuo，nenggouhenqingqingsongsongdejienidehua，yuniliaoxialai。zaiqizhongyouneimehaoduogekehuifudedian，biru“guangjiegouwu”、“yifukuzi”、“tuilei”。

ziran，jiaruninyouqingchudehuatitaolunluojisiwei，hainenggouduohua3miaoshijianbatamenjinyibushengjiyixia。

 shengjihoudejuedeshineiyangde：“jinrixinxuelaichaoguangleyitianyifukuzi，jieguomeipengdaoxindongde，rujinjuedetuibingbushizishendele。laikanxiayicibixuyikaoyiweichuanyifenggehaodenvhaizuozhugong。”

 batamenyuelaiyueyouquweixing，bingqieanshizhelexiangyuenvhaiyiqiquguangjie。neimanvhaijiuhenyoukenenghuiyaoxiangzhengshizishenchuanyifenggehao，gennishuo“neimenihaowuyiwenbixubenxiaogongjudemuguangbangnizhugong，keshiwoweiheyaobangniya？”

 cikehuatitaolunjiuqudechenggongdedakaile，yegennvhaiyongyouhudongjiaoliule。niyejiunenggoujiejiqutianjiayaoqingdejiemian：“bangwozhugongdexiaogongju，nenggouhuodebingqilinx1jiqi‘xiaobaobaotaibangle’zanyangx1。”

 yejiushianshizhe，jiarutabangniqutiaoyifukuzi，ninengqingtachibingjiling，haihuijixukuata“xiaobaobaotaibangle”。neiyangdeyaoqingfangfa，jishagangtiezhinanxuduotiaojie，yixiazijiucongnidejingzhengzhezhongchuleibacuile。

2、开心的气氛

 guangjiyuhuatitaolunhaibuhao，youyunvhaiyebuyuanmeirijinjinmeishenmemudideliao。nvshengxihuannanhaizi，xiaihuixianliaodenanhaizi，xiaihaiyoujihuifazhanqushiweinanyoudenanhaizi。

weihe？youyunvshengxihuanchuduixiang，xiaiganqing。

nihenyoukenenghuiwen：nvshengxihuanchuduixiang，weishazhuibushangta？

neishiyouyunvhainingquewulan，tazaixianglianaiyebuhuiheyigemeiyouyouhuolidenanhaizizaiyiqi。

 neimanaxiedenanhaiziyouyouhuoli，naxiedenanhaizihaiyoujihuifazhanqushiweinanyou？bianshimingbaifenweiyingzaodenanhaizi。yejiushishuo，nijiyulehuatitaolun，ranghuihuanengliaoxialai，keshishijianjiulenvhaiyehuiwuqu。

 nvhaizairichangshenghuozhongyeyouxuduoshier，haihuijixuyougezhonggeyangrenzhaota，huichuxiandianshilianxuju、yulejiemu、haoguimixiyinzhutadeguanxin。jiarunidexianliaoqifenjiaoweiwuqu，neimanvhaiyebuhuizhangqidezainipangbianzhiliu。

 yinci，yaomingbaizaixianliaozhong，biaoshuduinvhaidexiaihuoshitaoyan，ziran，bunenggouguoduzhijie。jiaruniguoduzhijiedebiaoshuxiai，nvhaihuijuededaogongzuoyali，yehuijuedenidexiaitaibianyi，fandaobutaihao。jiaruguoduzhijiedebiaoshutaoyan，nvhaiyehuiganjuezishenzaoshouleyanlidaji，jinerbuyuanyuniliaole。

yincinixuyaoquneiyangliao——“nishinanfangdiqunvsheng？wohennanfangdiqunvsheng！”

nvhaihenyoukenenghuihenchayi：“weihe？”

niyejiukeyishuo：“youyunanfangdiqunvshengtaitaorenxihuanle，zongjinbuzhuxianghetaxianliao。”

 zailiru，nvhaiganleyigekeaibiaoqing，niyejiunenggouqubiaoshuduitadexiai：“niruguozaiwoyanqianzuochuneimekeaibiaoqing，woyeqiangwenniyixia。”qiangwen，bianshibataanzaiqiangshangwenta，keshidajiaganleyigejiading“jiarunizaiwoyanqianzuochuneimetaorenxihuandexiaobiaoqing”，bingqiehoubianjianglejinjinqiangwen“yixia”。jiubazheigexingquaihaobiaoshujianruolexuduo，neiyangjiaoweifeichangrongyibeijiena。

 weiheyidingyaobiaoshuduinvhaidexiaihuoshitaoyanni？shiyouyuneiyangcaihuidaidongnvhaidexintai，chuduixiangshiyizhongxintaidegoutongjiaoliu，erbushiluojixingtantao。dangnvhaiduinizaochenglexintaideqifu，yihuigaoxingyihuimishi，yihuiyougaoxing，zheijiushinvshengkanyanqingdianshijudeganshou——xintaichuizhiguoshanche。

 dajiazaichuizhiguoshanchedeqingkuangxia，huilijingshifencijixingdexintaiganshou，yihuierdanyou，yihuiershifangyali，rutongaiqingyiyang。aiqingjiushiduiyigerendezaiyi，daoyizhiyouyutaergaoxinghuoshimishideshuiping。

 meiyicijiaolvbuanhuodeshifangchulai，mishihuodedadao，bianhuirangnvshengjuedefeichangdademanzugan。xiangbiniyiweidikuata，gengweirangtaxiai。

3、明白传送热情

 jinrinikaojiyuhuatitaolunrangnvhaikeyiqingqingsongsongdeyuniliaoxialai，nigoujianlekaixindeqifen，rangnvhaixiangyaoyuniyizhiliao。keshiguoqulejiri，nvhaishibushihaixiangyaoyuniliaoni？

jiujingshenmehuirangnvxingjibianwangjileliaotianneirong，yehuichangchangxiangqileni？

huidabianshinizheigeren，huanjuhuashuozheigerendegexing、gexinghua。

 jiarunikeyichangchangzaixianliaozhongchengxianzishendegezhonggeyangfengcaixingqing，nvhaibianhuimishangnizheigerenzishen。jiurutongnikanlexiyoujiyuanzhu，huoxunimeihaijidemeiyigegushiqingjiedeguanjiandian，keshininenghaijidewukong，haijidezhubajiezheizhongyougexingderenwujiaose。yiyangde，nixuyaozaikaixindexianliaoqifenzhong，zhanshichuxingqingtexing。

 jugeshili，dangyigenanrenyoureqingquzuoshiqingdeqingkuangxia，nvxinghuiganjuezheigenanrenshiyounengliangde，shikeyichuangzaocaifude。zheigenanrenbingbushigezhainanzhainv，bingbushigefeiwu，tayouzhixingli，yourichangshenghuodejiqing。

 yinci，reqingbianshiyizhongnanrenmeilitexing，ruguonihenvshenggongxiangnizuiaizuodeyijianshi——lirugechang，huihua，tizuqiu，naizhidayouxi。

 zhongyaobuqujueyunixihuandeshinaxie，erqujueyunishibushixiaizheiyixinxiangmu，nishibushihuashijianhuoliqukexueyanjiu，bazheiyijianshierbaozhengshifenchuse。niyizhizaimiaoshudeqingkuangxia，yehuidangrandiliuluzheileixiaiheqianxin。zheijiushiyigenanrenzuiyoufengcaideshike。

 hemoshengnvhailiaotiankaichangbaiyinggaishizaiyidianshuo，biru：“woteaihuabing，meiyicijiandaolantianbaiyuncaodixiadehuaxuechangdi，juedequanburenzaoyidaobeijibingchuan，tiandizhijianjinyouzishen，wujuwushuditihuiqitizairentibiaocengliudongxing，shenpangdehuacaoshumuxunsudeshanchu。neileijisuxiajiangdeshizhongdeganjueheyundonggan，yaoworenbuzhugaohanchusheng···”neiyangdexushu，jiuchuansonglereqing，chuansonglenideshiyongjiazhi。