情商高的聊天语句，和异性聊天的100个话题，经典幽默高情商说话技巧

 niyoumeiyouneiyangdefannao，benlaizishenhenyoufengcai，queyouyuzishenbuhuiliaotian，bushanyanci，queshimeilexuduoheyixingpengyoujiaowangdejiyu，naizhisuikoushuochudidiqingshangzhishangyujushinihouhuimojizhongshen！heyixingliaotiande100gehuatiyounaxie？xialieshixiaobianwohuijulehenduonianshizhanyanlianhuizongdegaoqingshangliaotianfangshi，jiaruninengxixinkanwanbiranhuoyifeiqian：zenmeyoumoliaotian？

一、情商高的人是那样和异性朋友闲聊的

shijieshangyouhenduoyanghua，keshiwoduchongmeiguihua，shubuzhicishiwoquexiangbatajini。

nijiuxiangwusuobuzaideqiti，meiyoubianhuishenwang。

nideshenyingrutongxuzhimodezaibiekangqiao，zaiwodexinzhongfanqi。

buqingchulaishishifouhuizaijianniyimian，keshiwoyuanyiyishengyishihaohaodishouhouni。

wojuedebianweinideshouji，youyuwulunnilaidaona，doushihuijiangwofangdaonidedouli。

wohaizainideshenshangfajueyigewupin，bianshishenmejiaoxihuan。

duiniyouganjue，rutongyaowo150dezhilibianwei0yiyang，meiyouzishen。

nideshuangyanzangzhexingchendemimi，yinciwojuedeshencengciquzhangwo。

wojuedemeiriyizaoxinglaishi，youtaiyang，youzaofan，haiyouyigeteyoudeni。

foyueyaoliugenqingjing，danwohaizaiyudaonideneiyike，jiuzhongjiuyufomeiyuanle。

 heyixingliaotiande100gehuatiyounaxie？xuduodixionggenmeizhixianliaodeqingkuangxia，meizhidehuifudoubutaihao，zheishiyouyunidexianliaobingmeiyouzaochengnvhaidexingquaihao，zaochengnvhaiganjuegennixianliaosuoranwuwei，jianjiandidebianhuibuhuini，naizhijiaruheimingdanni。

二、情商高的人是那样与人沟通交流的

 zenmeyoumoliaotian？zaitarenxiezhulezishenyihou，bushishuo“ganxie”zhishi“ganxieni”，huoshi“ganxie”houbianjialingyifangdemingcheng。

xianliaozhong，qingshanggaoderenquanshineimeyurenhuihuade：“nijuededefangfoyeyouxiedaoli，keshineiyangshifouhuigengqiang？”

 xianliaozhong，qingshanggaoderenyibanshuo“nijuederuhe？”erbushi“bu，nineiyangbuhao”“bu，nineiyangzuobudui，niyinggai。。。”。

 bubiyiyizhongzhigaoqiyangdeyikouqigentarenjianghua，yebubibazijidangzuoyigezhigaoqiangdeshen，yaolejietarenbuqiannishenme，gengbushinidexiongmaoniu，xiaonupu。meiyigerendouyingdangyouzishendeniantou，zishendeluojisiwei，bubibanizijideniantouqiangjiayudaotarendeshenshang，yaolejiewenguozexiwushiyurendedadaoli。

 erdajiayibanhuifajuezheixieqingshanggaoderenhuichuxiankaolvdaolingyifangdeyuju，liruhuizaijumohuijiayiju“haome？”，neiyangbujinshifabulezishendeyijianhejianyi，yedaliangdijiletarenbiaodazishenxintaidejiyu，shiyizhongzunzhongtarendejianghualiaotianhuati，yeshibiaomingnimeiyouhulveta，youkaolvdaotadetihui。

 huanlaijiangzhi，niyizhizaiheyixingpengyoujiaowangdeqingkuangxia，yeyinggaishineiyangde，bubizhikaolvdaozishen，eryingdangduokaolvdaolingyifang。lizailingyifangdeshijiaoqusisuo、faxianwenti。erbushimanbuzaihudizhitanzishen，zhitantaozishendeshi，zheiyidianhaoxiangyijudajiachangshuodehua：zimaizikua，zichuizilei。

三、看一个人是不是高情商与低

guanjianyouxialiezhuyaobiaoxian：

1、buyinpipanxingsikaodeluojisiweiqupingdingbieren

 yaolejiemeiyigerendoushiyouzishenderichangshenghuo，gerenxingweifangfa，erdajiameiyigerenzixiaozhishendeziranhuanjing，lijingquanshibuyiyang，nimeizhangwolingyifang，jiububiwangzipengji。heyixingliaotiande100gehuatiyounaxie？

2、qingshanggaoderengengfeichangrongyiguanlifangfahaozishendexintai

 zheiersuoshuodexintaibujinjinzhifojiaochangshuodexi、nu、ai、le、tan、chen、chi、yuan，yetezhiyigerennengfeichanghaodeyouzikongnengli，nengguanlifangfahaozishen。liruxianzaiwobuchouyan，xiangjiechuyan，neiqingshanggaoderenhuijianguanhaozishen，shuobuchou，yebuchou。

 ciwai，ninengfajuezheixieqingshanggaoderenhuichuxiangenghaodexintai，buguanduirichangshenghuo，huoshiduigongzuozhong，hunyinshenghuo，dounengyouzishendejiqing、reqing，yuduibierendekuanrong。

zheier，xiaobianxianggendahuoshuoyiju，xuehaoyubierenduogoutongjiaoliu，duogoutongjiaoliu，xuehaoquzanmeibieren。

 meirenshitaoyanshouzanmeide，jiarunixianzaishiheyixingpengyou，huoshipenyoudengjiaowang，duoshishizanmeitaren，zheiyeshigaoqingshangdezhuyaobiaoxian。keshizheieryouyigedingyi，zanmeiyidingyaokuadaohaodianzishang，liruyigehenjiubuchuanzhedabandenvhaijinrihuranchuanleyijiannimeijianguodepiaoliangdeyifu，ninengshuo：“jinrinichuandezheiyijianyifukuzihenmei，juedeyouqizhi”，zheijiushikuadaohaodianzidaole，yejianjiexingdebiaomingnishiyigepingchangzixiguanchaderen。

四、提升自信的方法

duoheqingshanggaoderenchupeng，duotingyitingtamendejianghualiaotiandejiqiao，erbushimoshouchenggui，tianjingzaizishendexiaotiandi。

 pingchangnenggouduokanyixiaqingshangzhishangzhongleideshuben，kuozhanzishendezhishicengmian。yaolejieyibenhaodeshujishiyigechuangzuozhehaofeilehenduoderenliziyuan、wuliziyuan，jiqizijinjingdianzhuzuoerchengde，haodeshujinenggoushinigengxunsudifazhan。

 duoshizheyixiexinxiandeshiqing，kuankuozishendezhangjianshi。jinyouzishenchupeng、zhangwodewupinduole，zishenshunlichengzhangnenggouhehenduorengoutongjiaoliu，lajinjianju，tigaobicizhijiandeguanlian。

 guanlifangfahaozishendexintai，bubisuibianyouyuyijianshiqingfahuohuoshifahuo，haodexintainenggourangzishenshenxinyuyue，yishouyannian，haikeyiganqidaonizhoubianderen。ziran，zheiyibixudejiushinifazifeifude，bingbushixuyanzangchuqude，yiqiecong“xin”kaolv。

 zenmeyoumoliaotian？youzishendegerenaihaohuoshizhuanzhang。youxierenhuiwenle，zheiheqingshangzhishangyoushenmeguanxi？xiaobianxiangzaizheiershuo，ruguoniyouzishendegerenaihaohuoshizhuanzhangshi，ninenggengyouzixinxin，gengyoufengcai，tashininyouhaoxintaidezhuyaobiaoxian。