男人把你睡了后的心理 发生关系后女性应如何处理

 “rendezhishangguanjian，danqingshangzhishanggengguanjian”。shenpangzongshihuiyouyixieshenjingdatiaodenvxing，zheizhongnvxingbuguanfashengshenmeshishier，doushihuirangzheiyijianshierbianchengyiwang。shundaiyeshiyouyixiefangdebutaikaidenvxing，zheizhongnvxingyidanfashengleyidianxiaoshier，jiuyaozishenzaizheiyijianshierlibiantaobuchulai。tongguonanrenbanishuilehoudexinli，kankanwanshihounanrenainidejudong。

youdeshierguoqu，jiuxuyaohaohaodidequchuli，zhihouderichangshenghuohaixuyaozaiciwangqian。

qingshanggaodenvrendoumingbaichulishier，danxinzaiqizhong，zongshirangzishenshoudesunhaiyuezhong。

youyicilaotongxuejuhui，fashengleyijianrangdajiadouganjuenankandeshier：

 womenbanyouyigetongxuemenzaihaozhangshijianyiqianjiuaiyigenvsheng，zhihoudajiadajiadoubiye，keshilingyifanghaimeiyoushenmeyongqijizheiyinvshenggaobai，yinciliangrenjiushizheiyangcuoguo。

 henduonianyihou，xueshengmenyiqijuhuihuodong，zheiyinanshenghenvtongxuedouzaichangle，tamenliangrenjinguanmeiyoufazhanqushibianchengqinglvdeguanlian，danyizhiquanshizuihaodepengyou。

 juhuihuodongdeqingkuangxiaheguoyidianjiu，xiangdaolezhiqianxiaoyuanneilinianshuderizi，mianbuleyouyixienanguo，yincijiushizheiyang，tamenliangrenfashengleguanxi。

 jiriyihou，dajiadouzhidaozheiyijianshier，benlairenweizheiyijianshierhenyoukenengnanyijiejuele，danrangdahuoerchuhuyiliaodeshi，zheiyinvhaihuoshixiangzhiqianyiyangxinggekailang，fangfoyiqieyuelaiyuegengqiangleyiyang。

zheiquanshijiehuichanshengxuduodeshier，shiniganjuenanyizhixin，danzonghuiyouyixienvxingkeyibatajiejuehao。

tongguonanrenbanishuilehoudexinli，yuyixingfashengxingguanxihou，nvxingyingdangruhechuli？

01.变成情侣‍

徐志摩说：

“qingganrenhedongxidoufashengle，jiuchazuihouyibu”。

 youdepenyouzaiyiqi，shenmeshiqingdouganle，danzuizhonghuoshimeiyoubianchengqinglv，neiyangdehua，huirangliangrenyulaiyunankan，dangzishenjianlingyifangdeqingkuangxia，yebuzhidaozenyangjiaowang。

 rujindeshehuifazhanyulaiyuduiwaikaifangle，yinciyouxierendouhaimeiwanhunjiuhelingyifangfashengleguanxi，youxierenhetarenhaibingbushitanlianaideguanlian，jiuhetarenshanglechuang。

 youxierenshibazheizhongshierbudangyihuishi，shubuzhiyouxierenyiranhuizaiyizishendemianbu，yincifashenglezheizhongshieryihou，yebuzhidaogaizenyanghetarenjiaowang，youqishiyigenvren。

 shijishangzuihaoshidefangfabianshizaifashenglezheiyijianshieryihou，helingyifangbianchengqinglv，neiyangdehua，zhihoujiukeyizhengdaguangmingdefashengxingguanxi，jiukeyizhengdaguangmingdezaiyiqi。

 ziran，qiantitiaojianshichuangjianzainanshengyelingrenmanyidezhuangkuangxia，nanshengyexiangyaodezhuangkuangxia，jiarunanshengbuyuanyidehua，jiusuanshinvrenxihuanzheigenanren，danyebubidaozhui，neiyangfeichangrongyirangzishenjiangjia。

02.和另一方不会再来往‍

“相遇比不上怀恋。”

youxierenxiangyule，haibibushanghuailian，youyukandaolehuikanqilaishifennankan。

 youdenvrenyutarenshanglechuangyihoujiutiaoxuanleduobi，diertianjiubalingyifangdeshoujiweixinhebiededejiaoyouruanjiandoujiaruheimingdanle，congjinyihouxiaotuizairenhaimangmangzhizhong，bianchenglelingyifangdeyiwang。

 youdenvxingyaoshimeiyouxianghaohelingyifangzaiyiqi，keshiyouyincuoyangchadehelingyifangshuizaileyiqi，zheizhongnvxingweilegenghaodifangzhizhihounankan，yeweilegenghaodifangzhilingyifanghuisaoraozishen，yincibianhuibalingyifangjiaruheimingdan，yehuihelingyifangduanjuelaiwang，buhuizailaiwang。

 shijishangyoushijiarunihelingyifangshizuihaodepengyou，keshidajialianggeyouganlebuyinggaizuodeshier，shijishangzhihoudehua，yaobudajia2gejiubianchenglianren，yaobudajia2gejiubianchengluren。

heyigeshangwanpaoderen，keyibianchengxingyingbulidepenyou，burongyibianchengqinglv，tashidabufenrenzuobudaode。

ziran，yixierenhaikeyibaozheng，keshizheixierendoushiyouyigeqiangjingdexin。

 yincizuihaoshidetiaoxuanbianshibubilaiwang，youyujiarunizhihouhaixuyaogaoduixiangdehua，niyuzheigerendengguochuangyouzhishihaopengyou，zheizhenduinidemubiaoeryanyebuheli，jiaruzhoubianderenbazheijianshiqingduinishuodejianglaidezhangfu，huoshishinanyouduizishenyehuidaozhiweihai。

yinciqingshanggaodenvrendoushihuiyijuehouhuan，buhuizaihelingyifangyouyiqiedelaiwang。

03.装作啥都没有产生‍

有好闺蜜对我说：

“qiyelibianyouliangrenshuizaiyiqile，danshidiertianyihouhaizhuangzuoshenmeshiqingyemeiyouchansheng，zheiliangrenquanshiyouqishideren。”

 haoguimigenwoshuo，zheiyinvxingduidailingyifangdeyanjingliquanshiqingyi，keshiliangrenquemeiyouhuihua，henyoukenengzhihouhuibianchenglianren。

youdenvxingjiuyongzheileifangfabuhuihuaizishendehunyinshenghuo，keshiyebuhuihelingyifangzaiyiqi，bianshizaiwaimianzhaoyigelianren。

 youdeqingkuangxiajiaruniyizhizaiwaibianzhaoyigelianrendehua，henyoukenengnihendanxinzhoubianderenlejie，yehendanxinnidemubiaolejie，keshiniyizhizainizhaodezheiyilianrenyanqianqueyidiandoubuganga。

yinciyoudenvxingjiuxingzheiyikouhelingyifangfashengleguanxiyihou，bianhuihelingyifangbianchengbujiuzaideqinglvguanlian。

 ziranneiyangdehuashihuizaoshoutarendechizede，yehuizaoshouzishenliangzhishangdechize，danyoudenvxingjiuxingzheiyikou，yibeizibuqingchuyouduoshaogelianren。

有些人说：

“duizishenhaoyidian，bubitailaoshibajiao。”

 duizishenhao，bubichuangjianzaisunhaitarendejibenshang，duizishenhaobubichuangjianzaimeiyouzizunziaidejibenyishang，zuoweiyigeren，gaiyoudesanguanhaideyao。

 jiaruzishenpanbianlezishendehunyinshenghuo，huoshishipanbianlezishendetanlianaimubiao，yaobuniyejiuyunidemubiaoliyi，huoshishishuotichufenshou，yaobujiuhenirujindejiarenduanjuelaiwang，zuoweiyigejiaotaliangzhichuanderen，buguandaoheshidoushihuizishiqiguo。

erzairichangshenghuozhongbaoyouxincunjiaoxingderen，zuizhongdoushihuihuodeyinggaiyoudechufa，sunhailetaren，yesunhailezishen。

zhangxiaoxianshuo：“zongyouyitianninengfajue，yigenvrendeqingzhengzhishengshifenzhiqian，zheizhongyaobinidecaiqihepeijiazhenguideduo。”

zuoweiyigenvren，yidingyaobaohuhaoziji，zijiaizijideqingkuangxiacaikeyisheqiunanrenaizishen。

 youdenanshengnenggouhensuiyideyunifashengguanxi，nijuedezheigenanrenjiangnifangdaolexinzhong，keshiyingduinineiyangsuiyidenvxing，nanrenzaitarenyanqianyebuhuishuonidehaotingdehua，zongshijibierenshuonishizenyangshuixingyanghua。

 kankanwanshihounanrenainidejudong，jiarushierfashengle，jiuxuyaolixingdechuli，danjiarunidouhaimeiheyixingfashengxingguanxi，cikeyingduifashengxingguanxizheiyijianshier，yidingyaojinshen。