刚和女生认识聊天频率？有联系电话后

 jiashangwanxiaidenvhaidelianxidianhuahou，jiaoniganghenvshengrenshiliaotianpinlv,liaotianpinlvzenmezhangwonidouqingchuma，xuduoxiaohuobanmenyouhenduogulv，bulianxidehuapanvhaihuilengdiao，lianluotaipindehuayoupanvhaifan，neiyikaishizhuinvhaizishixianliaojingchanggaizenmezhangwoni？xiaotingwocongshizhanyanlianshijiaofenxi：

1、过多经常，得不偿失

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 wushiyongjiazhihuatitaolunliaoduolezongshidebuchangshi，nvhaicongnimeihuazhaohuadegerenxingweizhong，budannenggouganshoudaoninongnongdekewanggan，haihuijixujuedenimeirihunhunee，meiqumangzhegongzuozhong、doumeiyouzishenderichangshenghuo。nvshengxiangyaozhaodeshigaoshiyongjiazhidenansheng，erbushiyitiandaowanhunhuneezongshidingzhunvshengshuozaoshanghaodeloser。

2、没有针对性和目的性，终不可果

 zhuinvshengliaotianshiyidingyaoyoujiqiaohebuzhoude，jiarunimanwushidehenvhailiaotian，nvhaidefanyingzongshiyulaiyucha。nvhaizaigangrenshinideyishunjianhuichongchizheshenmigan，yejiushinijiyujiaodadeqingkuangxia，yaolinghuoyunyonghaozheiyijiyu。jiarunimeiyouzhenduixinghemudexinghenvhailiaotian，jieguobianshinvhaideshenmiganzhihou，duinicongcitibuqilaixingquaihao。rutongnigangmaideyibushouji，niduitachongchizheshenmigan、yubabuneng。yigeyueyihou，nidexingquaihaodudanle，sangeyueyihou，tajiujinjinyibushoujile，meiyouyiqieshenmiganketanle。

3、技巧步骤，一步步推近

 nvhaideguanlianhuanjiekaizhanquhuawei：luren、lejie、aimeiguanxi、tiaodou、qinglv。meiyicizaihenvshengzhujianxianliaoqian，xianzuoyicidangjinguanlianhuanjiedepingding，jinaidexiayijieduanbianshicicixianliaodezongtimubiao。nidemeiyilunxianliaoquanshiweilegenghaodihenvshengshengjiguanlian，jiarubukeyizuodaozheiyizongtimubiaoningyuanbuliao，xuerunishuixingzhounishuixingzhou。

 jiarudajiahuoshilurenguanlian，neimejiunenggouxianzhuangzuohelingyifanghenshu。xiangxiangyixia，niyushenghuozhizhongdepengyoushiruheliaotiande，yongzheiyiyudiaohenvshengliao，dajiadeguanliandangranjiuzuodaolelejiehuanjie。suihoubianshiaimeiguanxihuanjie，jiaoniganghenvshengrenshiliaotianpinlv,liaotianpinlvzenmezhangwonidouqingchuma，ninengcongnvshengdenichengzhujian，xiaobaobao、meizhi、qinaidedezheixie，jiarunvhaibudikang，guanlianshengjijishiqudechenggong。yizhaoguanlianhuanjie，yibubugenjuxianliaohenvshengtuijinguanlian，zhizhibianchengqinglv。