想回绝搞好2件事 如何机智的拒绝表白

 liyude《xiangjianhuan》liyouyijuci：jianbuduanlihailuan，lihailuan，shilichou，bieshiyifanziweizaixinzhong。kandaiqinggandeqingkuangxia，dabufenrenquanshiruci。zaiganqingdouhaimeiyimulerandeqingkuangxia，yizhijuqibuding，zaiganqinghuodeyihou，feichangrongyihusiluanxiang。erganqingdefayuandian，jiushigaobaizheijianshiqing。shashibiyamingyanguoyijuhua：“shengmingzhongrangrenyoushangdeyijianshi，jiushinipengdaoleyigeduinieryanhenzhongyaoderen，danquezuihoufajuedajiacajianerguo，yinernipobudeyifangkaishou”。ruhejizhidejujuebiaobaicaishigaoqingshanghuifubierendebiaobai？

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shijishanghuijueyigerenmeineimanan，ruguoniyongzhengqueleqiadangfangfa，jibiancajianerguo，haikeyizuoyibanpengyou。

如何机智的拒绝表白？回绝一个人，究竟有多么难？

 yiqiantingguoxuduoburongyijujuebierendeyuanyin，youxierenshuodanxinsunhaileliangrendeqinggan，youxierenshuozishenganjuekaibulekou，youxierenshuozishenshebude，youxierenshuozishenganjuehuoxuzhihouyoukeneng。

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 renyebusha，zhuiderenshizishenganjueyoujihuide，xintengnishiyouyuninengjiena，yincitamenganjuenengchudongni，jiarunicongyikaishijiuduanjuelaiwang，wuluntamenduoaizheni，doushihuixuehaoyunilakaijuli。

yiner，huijueyigeren，queshibuhuitainan，kenengshiyijuhuadeshi，nandeshinixuyaomingbaisheqi。

确实要想回绝，搞好2件事就可以了。

zhangailingshuo：“woxihuanni，guannishashi，qianguaiwanguai，yeguaibushangnitouding”。

 congaiqingdedingyieryan，shihetanlianaibuyiyangde，tanlianaishiliangrendeshi，ganqingzeshiyigerendeshi，aishangyigerendeqingkuangxia，meiyouzizhiguidingtarenyeaizheni。

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dannihuijueyigerendeqingkuangxia，zhibixuqueli2gexintai，zhihoupenyouyeyoudezuo。

diyidian：taoyanbianshitaoyan，shuoqingxi，xintaiyaojiandingbuyi，shuzuiduoshipenyou，duolebuchupeng。

dierdian：lipinmianshou，sidixiadefanbuyaochi，youshihoudewenhaonenggou，jingchangdelianluosuoyouduankai。

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情感里最避讳的，是托着没放。

 huohuadedejinyongxiaoshuoyouneimeyijuhua：“wulunzuowanjinglileruhedehaotaodaku，zaoshangxinglai，zheiyidachengshirengranxixirangrang”。

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yincibubixiaoqiaoyiqieyigeren，qingganlilijihuijue，huoxuqueshihencanku，danyuanbiyouyubujuelaidegengqiang。

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“男人和女人，合则聚，不符合则散，大家沒有欠另一方哪些”。

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zhiyanbolatushuodeyiyang：“ruai，qingshenaizhe；ruoqi，qingwanquan；bubiaimeiguanxi，zhishangshangji”。

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 zuizhongshiyongyiweishishangbozhudeyijuhua：“jiaruniqueshinengbaozhengguoduan，quanshijiejiumeiyouhuijuebushangdegaobai。”wangbiciduiqingganchengdan。gaoqingshanghuifubierendebiaobaicaishiduishuangfangdouhao。