闲聊气氛很重要到底该聊什么 聊天话术大全

 dajiadoushuochuduixiang、chuduixiang，tanlianaibianshitanchuqude。genjuxianliao，liangrenchixuhuhuanxinxineirong，zhujianjiazhongxianghuzhijiandelianluo，yulaiyuzhangwobici，zuihoupanduanlingyifangshifouhezishenyigepindaolanmudeneiren，zaitiaoxuanshibushishengjiguanlian。yinci，xianliaodebiyaoxingxianeryijian。biqiliaotianhuati100juyoumo，xuehuiliaotianhuashudaquangengzhongyao。

 danxuduoxiaohaizizaixianglianaideqingkuangxiaquejingchangzaizailexianliaoshang，jiyixiexueshengzuoqingganzixundeqingkuangxia，jiandaotamendeweixinliaotianjilu，woyoushizhentitamenjuedexinji，huiganjuetamencuoguoxuduofeichanghaodejiyu。

benlainenggoufeichanghaodituidonghuatitaolun，quebeitayijuhuajieshule；

benlailingyifangjijipaoleyigegeng，taquehuoshengshengganghuiqule；

 bingqiexuduoqingkuangxiaquanbuxianliaoqifenhenjiaolvbuan，ruguowoshilingyifangyinweiwohuiganjuefeichangganga，huibuyuanzaiciliaoxialaile……

 biqiliaotianhuati100juyoumo，daodigairuheliaotian，caikeyinenggougenghaodizhanxianzishen，zhangwolingyifang，rangliangrenyulaiyuqinmiwujianni？

huabuduoshuo，jinriaijiebianshilaijidahuoerjiangganhuozhishide，ninizhunbeihaolema？

1到底该聊什么？

 henqunliaobuqingchuzenmeliaomeizi，ganjuemeiriguodehenpingpingdandan，meishenmeyouqudekeyishuo，youhuoshibuqingchurujinzheiyihuanjie，liaoyixiehuatitaolunshifoushihe，shifouhuilingyifangganjuebeidezuile。

neiduiyuzheilianggefangmian，wojuedegendahuoerliaoyiliao。

 zuixian，xianliaobingbushishinidangyigejiangjiejia，ranglingyifangganjueniderichangshenghuohenjingcaifencheng，nizheigerenhenniu，jinerxiaixihuanni。

dajiajuedaduoshurenderichangshenghuoyemeiyouneimeduoxiongyongpengpai，youdezhishipingfanrichangshenghuodexiaoqingxingbale。

 dajiameirihuiyushangbuyiyangderen，lijingbuyiyangdeshi，congshenpangdelingdaoganbupengyou，yudaodelurendaomeirideyirisancan，zheizhongshijishangdounenggoushixianliaodesucaitupian。

jishinirujinderichangshenghuolizhishengyudaizaifangjianneichifanshuijue，dajiayeyeyouyiwangdelijing，jianglaidelixianghuanenggouliaoa！

cizhixianliaoyidingshifenshijianhuanjiede。

julishuoming，xiaoduanzinenggouliaoma？huidashidangrankeyi！

 danganglejiederennishangqujiugenrenjiangxiaoduanzi，neimenihenkenengbeilaheishanchunaizhibeima，danjiaruaimeiqijiangyixiexiaoduanzi，fandaohuiliaodelingyifanglianhongerchi，rangliangrendeqingganqiaoqiaodetiwen。

yinci，shijianhuanjiedezhangwohenzhongyao。

liangrenganglejiedeqingkuangxia，guanjiandemudishigenjuxinxijiaohuan，xianghuxinren。

 neizheiyishiqi，tiaoxuanhuatitaolunjiubixutiaoxuanyixiepubianyiyijiaoweiqiangde，bianshiyibanrendounengliaoyiliangjude，liruqiwen、ziranhuanjing、guxiang、yuanxiao、jishuzhuanye、lvyou、tesemeishi、xiaochongwu、gequ、yingpian、xinwenredianshiqing……zheizhonghuatitaolundounenggouliao。

 gennvhaidehua，hainenggouliaonvhaiyibanhuiyouxingqudeshierxingzuo、jiance、baguaxinwen，gennanhaiziliaoyixiezuqiubisailanqiumingxing、shoujiyouxi、yundongjianshenzheixie。

zheiyihuanjiewuxuliaotaishencengci，zhixiangyaonicongzheidangzhongzhaodaoyixielingyifangyouxingqudedianjiuxing，zhuyaoshirangliangrenshuxiqilai。

 jiaruliangrenliaoleyizhoushangxia，zaoyijiaoweilejiele，dayuezaoyilejielingyifangdegerenaihao，zhaodaoyixiegongtongdian，jiukeyiyijuzheizhongdian，chixufajue，chixutuokuangengxindehuatitaolun。

 lirunvshengxihuanwangshanggouwu，nijiuyaotabangniqianglietuijianyixiegongnengqiangdadewupin，nanshengxihuanwanneigeyouxi，ninengshitapeinishangfen，nenggougongxiangdajiayiqiandeyixieyouqudeshi，hainenggouhuhuandajiaduimouyigeshiqingdeguandian，kanyixialiangrendejianjieguandianshifouyizhi，jiarubuyizhihuizenmejiejue。

genjuzheizhong，rangzaixianliaogengshencengcideyucitongshi，jiazhongliangrendeguanlian。

 zaizhonghouqiliangrenguanlianjiaoweiqinmiwujiandeqingkuangxia，nenggouzhaoyixiejiaoweiyuzhongbutongde，youyixiesimidehuatitaolun，youshihounenggouliaomeitaoluliaoyiliao，jiliangrendeguanlianjiashangyixieaimeiguanxidechengfen，zaixuanzhunjihui，shengjiguanlian。

2如何提出问题？

 shangbiandayuejiangleyixiaxianliaonenggouliaoshenmehuatitaolun，zuipadeshiyixiexiaohaizilijijiuyonglaiyong，baxianliaobianchenglediaochawenjuan/chaxunhukou/zhaopinmianshidangchang……

 lijiwen“nizainalishangdexuea？xuedexueshenmezhuanyea？nixiailvyouma？nixihuanshenmexiaochongwu？jinqide**shiqingnimenzenmekan？”

 tiwentidehua，ganwanbieshuotaihongweidenanti，juedeyaohuiyingbixuxieyipian1000zidexiezuodeneilei，jinkenengtiyixiefeichangrongyihuiyingde，nengjidanxuantijiububitichuwentijieti。

 liru，niyaolejielingyifangaibuaixiaochongwu，ninengshuo，gangzailoudixiakandaoyizhifeifeidexiaogougou，henkeai，nixiaixiaomaomihuoshixiaogougouya？

 huatitaolunzhujiandeyaodangran，bingqiezailingyifangdechuhuiyingyihou，ruguoyouranhouliaodehenyoukeneng，jiubuyaosuiyihuanhuatitaolun，ganjuezheiyihuatitaolunzaoyigaoyiduanluo，bianhuanhuatitaolunyejinkenengdangranyixie。

 lirulingyifangjiarushuo，gengxihuanxiaomaomi，dajianenggouliaoyiliaoshifouyouyangxiaomaodelijing，huoshiyangbiedexiaochongwudeyouqudeshi。

haixianggaozhidahuoeryigexiaoqiaomen，nengconglingyifangweixinpengyouquankanchuqudewupin，jiububilijiwen。

 yaoxuehaoconglingyifangweixinpengyouquanhuodexinxi，suihouyoumudexingditichuwenti，huiranglingyifangganjuenihenzixi，yehuihenyiwaijingxi。

3闲聊气氛很重要

shijishangxianliaoyouyigehenzhongyaoyeshihenzhongyaodedian，bianshixianliaoqifendegoujian。

xianliaodeqingkuangxiayidingyaoqingsongyidian，qianwanbieyouxianzhudegongjinengli。

 jiarunixianggejianpanxiayiyang，tarenshuoxieshenmenidouxiangbianbojiju，daotoulaihaiganjuezishenhenniubi，juedelingyifangfade“nishuodedui”debiaoqingtu，shiqueshizaibiaominghaowuyiwen；

 ganjuelingyifangyidingshijingyayuwoluojisiwei，yibuxiaoxindesixiangjingjiexiyinle，neimenigaobiedanshendelumianhuoshihenjianxinhenyouzhangde。

dajiayingdanggaoqingchu，weihedajiagengxihuanhepenyouxianliaoerbushigenpengyou、lingdaoganbuxianliao？

 chukaipenyougennilejie、yougongtonghuati，zhongyaodeshigenpenyouxianliaodeqingkuangxiaquanburenshishifangyalide，wuxuxiangdetaiduo，dangenpengyoulingdaoganbuxianliaobianhuibuzijuediyouyixiejiaolvbuan，dangxin。

 dajiaheyixingpengyouxianliaoyeshiyiyangdedadaoli，doushuotongxingxiangchi，zaijiashangmeiyouyouqilejieyiqian，zongshihuiduilingyifangbaocunyisixinxiangan，qiuzhiyushiwomenxiangyaohetaliaodaliang，zheishijishangshiyizhongyoudian。

 zhixuwomenzaixianliaodeqingkuangxialiuyiyidian，bafenweigaodeqingsongyidian，zhenxinchengyizhanxianzishen，gesanchawujianggexiaohua，youshihouziwodiaokan，youshihoujilingyifangmaiyigeaokeng，doudouta，bianhuiranglingyifangjinbuzhuxiaishangyunixianliaodejuede。

 xiangdaoqianjitianshuachuyigeshipin，yigenvhaizaihenanpengyouxianliao，tadehaoguimizaibangtajutizhidaoxiaoshouhuashu，zuizhongnvshengbashoujipaojilehaoguimi，shuo：“nimenliangliaoba，dengheshinenggoujielehungenwoshuoyisheng。”

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 danshixuduoqingkuangxia，qingganbianshizailaiquzirudejiechuanzhong，nituiwoladejiaozhanli，nixiaowonaodexiangchulijianjiandizizhang，jianjiandijiazhong，zheishijishangbianshitanlianaidekuailea！

jiarubuyuanyilijingzheizhong“bubian”，shijishangjinjinniyaomeiyougaohaotanlianaidetiqianzhunbeibale。

jiaruzaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，nifajuenipaochuqudegenglingyifangyizhijizhiraokai，dajiadexianliaoyizhimeifashencengci，

shijishanghenyoukenengbushinideweixinliaotianjiqiaobudui，nideliaotiandejiqiaobuzu，jinjinyouyuneirenbuyuanyiyuniliao。

pengdaozheileizhuangkuang，biezhejiyingliao，yebienanguofeijinxinsisheqi。

 xuehuiliaotianhuashudaquangengzhongyao，hebuyuqinguzong，linshilizhiyixia，gaohaobenshenpinpaixingxiangjibenjianshe，tigaoyixiazishen，zhongxinqihang，huoxuninengyoubuyiyangdehuodee！