如何与人聊天不冷场？冷场尬聊的5个急救技巧

zaiyouhuizhong，zuipaqitihuranqingjing，neichangjingqueshifeichanggangale。youqishiyoudenanhaizibingyebushanyuyunvhaixiangchu，zheigeshihou，renyeshilengzhule，neixinyueji，jiuyuefameishenmejiejuefangan。liaotianlengchangjijiuhuatiyounaxie？fanyueyixiashoujishang，kanyixiasizhou，laiyangaizishendefahuangyunankan，queyiqiedouzainvhaiyanli。ruheyurenliaotianbulengchang？

xianeryijian，cicideyouhuishibuchenggongde，zhihouzaixiangyuemeizichuqu，neimejiunanyile。yinci，zaiyouhuizhong，niyidingbukeyigaliao。danshiniyouhuiganjuejianghuaqueshijiushizheshuozhejiubuqingchushuoxieshenmele，neinijiubixuzaiyouhuiyiqianxianghaohuatitaolunle。

一、在幽会前搜集有效的信息内容

liaotianlengchangjijiuhuatiyounaxie？zaiyouhuiqian，nixianzhangwonvhaidegerenaihao，lirutaxiaikanshazhongleideyingpian，xiainagemingxingzheixie。zheizhongnenggougenjutadeweixinpengyouquan，huoshishidajiadeyitongpenyouhuozhi。zheizhongxinxineirong，bianshizaidajiayouhuijindaoshuangfangdoujianmodeqingkuangxiadangranditidao，buhuigaliao。ruheyurenliaotianbulengchang？

二、碰面后先聊一聊如今的情况

jianyieryan，bianshipengmianhouliaoyiliaozuijibenshangde，lirujintiandetianqibucuoa，nishizenmehuilaidezheixie。dannizuihaoshiliaoyiliaonizouzailushangjiandaodeyixieyouyisideshi，jitajiangxia。zheisuanzuoyizhongzhuanzheqi，shinideqingxushifangyalichulai，burongyineimajiaolvbuan。

三、尽可能聊另一方有兴趣的话题讨论

ruheyurenliaotianbulengchang？zheiyijiuhenhaolejiele，zaiyunvhaidegoutongjiaoliuzhong，yidingyaojianghuatitaolunjinliangqianyizainvhaideshenshang，nvshengxihuantarentanlundaota。duiyutayouxingqudehuatitaolun，qianbianyejiangle，bianshigenjuweixinpengyouquan，jiaruweixinpengyouquankanbujian，neimejiuzaidajiapingchangdexianliaozhonghuozhile。liru，“niyangdemaojiaoshenme？haomeng，woyexiangyangyizhi。”

四、“自嘲”破译难堪

zichaoshiyizhongfengqu，shiyizhongconghui，yongyujianqingfenwei，poyinankan。zichaoyeshibixushuizhunde，bingbushiyiweididihuizishen，rangnvhaiganjueniqueshihenlow。nixuyaorangnvhaikandechunishizaiziwodiaokan，bingqiehaideyouyigedaodedixian，bieyiheijiuheidaodile，youshihouyiliangcijiukeyile。

五、提早想好一个要跟另一方共享的小故事

jiaruzhishangdefangshidouzaoyihaojinle，suihouyoushenxianlegaliaozhong，neimenijiuxuyaoquchu“mimiwuqi”le，bianshishixianzhunbeihaodeyigegushi。xiaogushiyidingyaoyouyisi，yaoyoufenxiangxing，zheiyiyouqudexiaogushinenggoujiushinikandeyibudianying，huoshishidudeyibenshu，jilao，yaoyoupinweideyingpianheshu。

zaiyouhuizhongbubijiaolvbuan，yuefajiaolvbuan，neimejiuyuefafeichangrongyigaliao。nixiangqishenmelebianshuo，jiandaonaxiehaikeyitantao，keshibuyaozaidiyiciyuehuijiuwenlingyifangdejiatingjingjiqingkuangzheixie。zaidiyiciyuehuizhong，nvhainengyuniliaodaohenhai，neimejiubiaominghaibucuo，bianhuiyouxiayicile。

liaotianlengchangjijiuhuatiyounaxie？haidetishiyiju，jiarudajiayouhuilesanci，huoshimeishenmejindu，jiuyouyixienantile。yaoxiangyixiangshizishenbuzhudong，huoshilingyifangyousixu。