怎么样跟人沟通技巧？学会这7个技巧，你的语言会更具说服力

zairichangshenghuozhong，dajiachangchanghuipengdaohetarenchanshengfenqidezhuangkuang，yaoxiangshuodonglingyifang，danqueyouyubumingbaiyuyanjiqiao，zaochenggoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuezhengfengxiangdui。yurengoutongdejiqiaoyounaxie？jinri，jiulaijidahuoergongxianghaoduogenengxunsushuodonglingyifang，ranglingyifangwufajujuedeyuyanjiqiao。zenmeyanggenrengoutongjiqiao？

xianjidahuoerjulishuoming，tangruoniyaohexiaidenvhaiyouhui，niruguolijiwennvhai：“zheizhouwuyeliyoushijianma？wojuedeyuenichiyidunfan。”jiarunihenvshenghaibingbushishushidezhuangkuangxia，neinvhaitongyidegailvjiuburongyihenda，zhongjiuzaiyingduibuzuishuxiderendeyaoqingshi，renquanshihuizaochengtifangxinlizhuangtaide。danjiaruninengchuaiceyixialingyifangdexinlizhuangtai，lirunizhangwodaonvshengxihuanchimalatang，jiukeyineiyangduinvshengshuo：“womenjiazhoubianxinkaigehuoguojiamengdian，weierhenchunzheng，nizheizhouwuyeliyoushijianma，womenquchangyichang？”neiyangjianghua，nvhaitongyiyaoqingdejilvbianhuidafutigao。

zaishuodongtarendeqingkuangxia，bubilijijiangchuzishendeniantou，zhishiyaoxianchuaicelingyifangdexinlixuqiu，suihouzaigenjulingyifangquanyiqujianghua，tashishuodongdeliucheng。henyoukenengyoudepenyouhuijiangle，chuaicelingyifangdexinlixuqiushifouhuibixuhenjishuzhuanyedezhuanyezhishi，zhongjiurenxinnance，yousheizhidaolingyifangneixinzaixiangganshenme。buzheji，xiamianjiujiangjidahuoergongxiangqigeyuyanjiqiao，jiaonizenyanggaoxiaolvchuaicelingyifangxinlizhuangtai，wadaolingyifangyaoqiu。

01. 非你不爱

yurenxiangchushi，youyixiehuatingqilaijiushishushikeqihua，liru：“juhuiyounijiugoulea，yidingyaolai！”“meinifenweidougaobuqilai，niyidinghuode！”“aiyo，nizuihuijianghuale，yidingyaodengtaishuojijua！”zheixiechuixuxingdehua。

dahuoeryebiejuedezheizhonghuahaowujiazhi，shijishangshizaigaozhilingyifang，meirennenggouqudaini，nishizuiyuzhongbutongdeneiyige，rangtingderenjuededaozishenbeizaiyi、beixuyaodezihaogan，dangranbianhuihenyuanyidayingxialai。zheilei“feinibuai”debiaodaxingshi，yeshishejiaomeitidakachangjiandefangfa，bieganjuezheizhonghuaxuqingjiayi、ketaohua，guanjianshiyouxiao，zheizhonghuayishuochulai，tingderenshunlichengzhangdejiuxiangtongyinideqingqiu。

02. 顺水推舟

shenmeshi“shunshuituizhou”ni？julishuoming，moufeijichangmouyitiangonghuodeniuyangroujiaoshao，yuleitaiduo，jieguozhenghaodiandanderenxuduodoutiaoxuanleniuyangrou，zaochengniuyangrouxunsujiumeishiduoshaole。neimazheigeshihou，kongzhongxiaojieyingdangruhejiejue，caikeyiranglvkejinkenengtiaoxuanyulei，erbushiniuyangrouni？zheijiubixuyingyongdaoshunshuituizhouzheiyifangshile。

lirukongzhongxiaojieduilvkeshuo：“dajiajinriyouqigonghuolegaopinzhibailixiang、youxuanfuqingjianzhuerchengdeshenhaiyuleimeishi，chucizhiwaiyeyouniuroufankexuanze，woxiangwenyixianinbixunayizhong？”neiyangquxushu，yuleimeishitingqilaishifoujiugengxiyinrenyixie？zheijiushiyunyongle“shunshuituizhou”，jiangnidejihuafanganjinkenengxushujizhi，ranglingyifangqingbuzijindebeinizhengqueyindao，neiyangjinenggouranglingyifanglingrenmanyi，haikeyidadaozishendemudi。

03. 挑选随意

zheiyifangfazairichangshenghuozhongyunyonghenguang，lirunilaifandiandiandanhuoshiquyinpindianmainaichadian，ruguonidianhaohou，youdefuwushenghuixunwenni：“ninhao，xubuxuyaolaifentianpin？”erneiyangdelejie，yibanhuodehuiyingzongshishi：“ganxie，buxuyaole。”huijuelvshifengao。

dajiahuanlaiyizhongwenfa，nenggouneiyangwenxiaofeizhe：“tianpinyoumangguoqiancenghemochabuding，ninbixunayizhong？”dechutiaoxuan，xiaofeizheburongyixianghuiyingshangyizhongwenfayiyanglijihuijuediao，zhishihuibuyouzizhuquxiangzishenxihuannayige，suihouzuochutiaoxuan。yinweishizishenzuochudetiaoxuan，yebuhuizaochengbeiqiangpodejuede，tijiaodingdanlvbianhuijinyibutigao。

“tiaoxuansuiyi”zheiyiyuyanjiqiao，zairichangshenghuozhongdeyunyongfanchoushifenpubian，liruxiaohaizidiaopibuyuanchuanxiezi，nenggougaosuta：“fenhongsedexieheshenlansedexie，jinrixiangchuannayigeni？”zheijiuheduixiaohaishuo：“gankuaibaxiechuanshang，nitingjianmeiyou，nidaodichuanbuchuanxiezi，buchuanwoxiangshoushinile。”guanyongduole。

04. 儆其所恶

weishengwudetianxingbianshiyangzhangbiduan，yincizhixushiyigepingchangren，douxiangyaojienazishenxiaideshiqing，erduizishenfangandeshiqingbieryuanzhi，yincizaiyurenxiangchugoutongjiaoliushi，jiukeyiyingyong“jingqisuoe”zheiyifangfa，gaozhilingyifangtamenjuedehaibucuodewupin，shijishanglibianyouhenduotamenfangandeneirongcunyou，neiyangjianghuadeyanwaizhiyibianshi：youyuzheigedongxihuoshizheijianshiqing，youlenifangandewupin，yincibubiquzuo。

julishuoming，zhanlantingliyouhenduochangkaishizhanlanpin，gongzuoyuanyaoxiangrangshoukanderenmeiquchupengzhanlanpin，jinjinligepinpaixieshang“qingwuchumo”shinanyishixiande。neiyinggaizenmebanni？shijishangnenggouxieshang：“zhanlanpintuyoufangfushishiyanshiji，qingwuchumo！”zenmeyanggenrengoutongjiqiao？

zailiru，zaifandianyongcan，youxiaopengyouzoulaizouquweihaidaoqitaguke，fuwushenggaizenmeshuodongfumuguanhaobaobaoni？jiarufuwushengduifumushuo：“qingchengnianrenzhaoguhaozishendexiaohaizi。”fumumenhenyoukenenghuidangerpangfeng，wudongyuzhong。danjiaruduifumushuo：“ganggaohaodeshicaihentang，zaishangcandequanguochengzhongjiarubeizhuangfei，huijihaizidaozhihenyanzhongdeshaoshang。”neiyangqushuo，fumumenyidinghuigankuaibaxiaohaizizhaohuijia，jinjinguanzaizishenshenpang。

05. 精英团队效用

zhiqianjidahuoerjiangshiguo“wo”he“dajia”dechabie，“wo”zheigezihuilingrenganjueyoujianju，er“dajia”zheigecizehuilingrenjuededaolajinlejianju，zheishijishangbianshigoujianjingyingtuanduidejuede。xiangliruneiyangdeyuhuiyeyou“yiqi”，zaiwomenguidingtarenjiarutuanduishi，yong“yiqi”，jiunengranglingyifanggengyuanyilaibangni。

zenmeyanggenrengoutongjiqiao？julishuoming，qiyeyaojuhui，zhangsanbixujigoucicizhutihuodong，keshiyigerenyoudianershoubule，yincizhangsanxunzhaolisishuo：“womenyiqijigoucicihuodong！”neiyangquyaoqiulingyifangbangzhu，jiunengranglingyifangzaochengxiaohuobanguannian，duibiyu：nikeyibangbangmangma？neiyangdeyaoqiufangfaeryan，jiugengfeichangrongyibeilingyifangjiena。renzishenbianshiqunjudongwu，yinerhetarenxiangchushijishangshirendebenneng，yunyonghaozheiyidian，jiusuanshijiaoweibubiandeyaoqiu，yegengfeichangrongyishuodonglingyifangtongyini。

06. 达到认同

yurengoutongdejiqiaoyounaxie？dajiadoulejie，womenkuayigerendeqingkuangxia，neirenhuihenkaixin，zheiyigaoxingdeyaosubianshiyouyuzishenhuodelerentong，erzaizhaorenbanshizuoshideqingkuangxia，qurentonglingyifang，lingyifangbianhuigengweiyuanyixiezhuni。liru，nvhaiduinanshengshuo：“nijingtouda，nenggoubangwoningkaipinggaima？baituonini。”neiyangmingquetichuyaoqiu，jiufeichangrongyibeilingyifangtongyi。

zailiru，zhangsangongzuofangmianpengdaoleyixienanti，zhenghaozheizhongnantishilisishanyude，yincizhangsanjiuduilisishuo：“lisi，nizheixiefangmianhenlihai，nenggoubangwokanyixiashinalichucuolema？”suihouzaizaijiashangyiju“baituo”，lingyifangderongyuganzengzhang，dangranbianhuigaogaoxingxingdibangzhu。

07. 立即谢谢

richangrichangshenghuo，xiangxiezhudajiaderenshuosheng“ganxie”，shiyizhongwenminglimao。erzaishuodongtarenzheijianshiqingshang，bubidengshuodonglelingyifangzaixiexie，zhishiyaozaimingquetichuyaoqiudeyishunjian，chenlingyifanghaibudengtazuochufanyingdeqingkuangxiajiubiaoshiganji。

zheizaishehuixinlixueshangkeyiyong“huhuihuli”laibiaoshu，yejiushidangyigerenzaijieshoudaolaiyuanyulingyigerendehaoxindeqingkuangxia，tahuizaochengxianglingyifangshouyiyihaoxindexinlizhuangtai。biaoshiganjidehuayaochangchangshuo，meimeidajiatingjianbierenshuoganxiedeqingkuangxia，xinlizhuangtaishangyehuiganjuehelingyifanggengweiqinmijiechule。yinci，zaishuodongtarendeqingkuangxia，mingquetichuyaoqiushi，ganxiedehuayuyidingyaolvexunyichou。

08. 写在最终得话

yurengoutongdejiqiaoyounaxie？zheiyishijieshangzuinande2jianshi，yijianshibatarendeqianfangruzishendedaizili，lingyijianshibazijideniantoufangrutarendenaoqiaoli。zaishuodongtarendeqingkuangxia，liuchengyousan，yinzangzijideyaoqiu、chuaicelingyifangdexinlizhuangtai、kaolvdaohehulingyifangquanyideyongyu，zaiqizhongchuaicelingyifangxinlizhuangtaidefangfayouqi，feinibuai、shunshuituizhou、tiaoxuansuiyi、jingqisuoe、jingyingtuanduixiaoyong、dadaorentong、lijixiexie，bawolezheitaofangshi，zaishuodongtarendeqingkuangxia，jiunenggengweiqingqingsongsong。