跟女生晚上微信打招呼，这3种打招呼方式很令人厌恶，尤其第三种

henvhaixianliaodeqingkuangxia，dabufennanhaizidounanyihuoshishihenguoyibuqujijimaichudiyibu，gaoqingshangdazhaohukaitouyu,danshenshijianjiule，jiandaoyizhitianxingdexiaodongwudouganjuehenqinjin，gennvshengwanshangweixindazhaohu,tashidabufendanshennandeqieshentihui。

youyixienanxingpianzhongyulingjulihenvshenggoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliu，gennvshengwanshangweixindazhaohu,danyeshiyouyixienanhaiziquezhongaiweixinshanghenvshengdahuaxianliao，lingjulideqingkuangxiahuijuededaohaixiu，buxiangshuotaiduo，quebuqingchuyingdangzenmejiang。

keshi，henvxingpengyoumenxianliaodeqingkuangxia，haiyaozhuzhongfangfa，youqishizaiweixinliaotianzhong，gengbixuliuyixuduo。

 erxiabianzhei３zhongzhinantudexianliao，zhinantudewenhaofangfa，huirangnvhaijinbuzhujiangni“jiaruheimingdan”，yidingyaolijifangzhi。

一、“查询户口”方式的闲聊

xuduogangtiezhinanmen，gangzaijiashangnvhaideshoujiweixinshi，yizhixiaiwenzheiwennei，henbunengjiangnvhaidequanbucailiaotongtongwenqingxi，baohannvhaidesanwei、jiazhongrenkoushuliang、jiatingjingjiqingkuang．．．．．．

“niduoda？jiaoshenmemingzi？duoda？duozhong？jiazhongliangkouren？zainaergongzuo？．．．．．．”

yingduizheiyilianchuandenanti，dabufennvhaineixinlidoushihuijuededaogongzuoyali，naizhishidiyiniantoutongchangshi：nishisheiya？woweiheyaoduinishuoa？

nandaoshuoniyongyuanbuzhidaogentarenwenhao，yaoxianlaiyigejiandanziwojieshaoma？

queshi，zheileidiaoyanhujifangshidedahuafangfa，feichangrongyizaochengnvhaidedichu。

zaiyunixiaidenvhaidahuashi，xianliaoyiqianyaoxianghaojiandanziwojieshao，suihouyouqianrushen，zhongjiuhaoganduzheileishier，shijianjiandisuzaode。

二、“你在哪，我晚上开车去接你用餐”

zaihebulejiedenvhai，huoshijiushinidiyicihezheiyinvhaidahuaxianliaodeqingkuangxia，henbihuineiyangshuo；youyuzheigeshihou，nvhaideneixinduiniyeyoujiaoqiangdepaichi，dabufennvhaizaiyingduizishenbulejiedenanhaizishi，tongchangdoushihuihuijuenanhaizideduliyaoqingyaoqiu。

youqishiyelideyouhui，huirangnvhaimenjuedenixumoutumoubugui，bieyouyidingdetu。

yinci，dahuaxianliaodeqingkuangxia，xianbiezhejiyuelingyifangchulai，yaomanmandelai；jiarudajiadaonengyiqiyouhuiyongcandeqingkuangxia，yebubiyuezaitaichi，yaoburanyehuirangnvhaimenganjue，nibushiyigezhengjingren。

三、“约吗？”

zheileidahuafangfa，nigen１０genvshengshuo，huoxuhuichuxian９gelijitiaoxuanjiangnijiaruheimingdan，suihouzaijianjunisaorao；erdishige，henyoukenenghuijiangnichoumayidun，suihouzaijiangnijiaruheimingdan。

bubichangshiyizhong“saorao、xinong”fangshidedahua，quhenvxingpengyoumenxianliao，neiyanghuirangtamenganjue，nizheigerenhenqingtiao，xinhuaibugui。

dahuadefangfayouhenduozhongduoyang，danjuebunengyongneimecusuqiexinhuaibuguidefangfadahua。

今日禅悟：

dahuadefangfayouhenduozhongduoyang，zuihaoshideyizhongfangshishixianaijinlingyifang，rangnvxingpengyoumenzhujianjienayunixianliaodequanguocheng；suihouzaizhaoxunhetatongyangdegerenaihao，suzaotaduinideyouhaodu。

shangbianzhei３zhongdahuafangfa，gaoqingshangdazhaohukaitouyu，nidouyudaoguoma？nijuede，weixinliaotianzhong，yeyounayizhongshuohuafangshi，henlingrentaoyan？