第一次约会内向聊什么？怎样提高情商？

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第一次约会内向型聊什么

1.相同点

jiaru2gebenlaibuxiangyuderen，huranfajuedajiayouxiangtongdian，zheihuilingrenganjueshihenyouyuan，henjingyade。danshi，yiqieyu“dajia”youguandewupinshibixuguanchade，dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？liru“dajiadouxiaihejiu。”dannifajuezheiyixiangtongdianyihou，jiukeyihenvshengyanzhezheiyidianhenvshengjinxinghuatiliaotianle。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

2.了解建议

diyiciyuehui，dajiahaowuyiwenhuichidianshenmehedianshenme，dannihaowuyiwenbuqingchunvhaideaihao，zheigeshihoujiukeyilejienvhaidejianyile，lingwaiyekeyizhangwonvhaideyixieaihaole。

3.关于她的假定

yineixiangnvshenghenanshengdiyiciyuehuideqingkuangxia，womendoushibuqianglietuijianyilaijiuwendongwenxi，xiangchaxunhukousidehenvshenglaietiande。neiyinggaizenmebanni?

ninengyijunvhaideyizhedaban，huoshishishuodehua，laidedaoyixieguanyutadejiading，jiarunizhidaodejinzhihainenggaoxiaoziwojieshao。caidezhunnvshengbianhuiganjuenihenzhangwota。

4.风趣

neixiangxingnanhaiziyedexuehaoshidufengqu，rangnvhaiganjueniyizhizaitashenpanghenshufu，erbushixinshenbuan。

5.适度的玩笑

jiaruneixiangxingnanshengxihuannaxieduanzi，ninengzainidepengyouyanqianshuodehua，haikeyizaizheierjiangba。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？nishinaxiejiuzhuyaobiaoxianjinvhaikanzhenidezhenzhengxingqing，bixuzhishiyouyutahaokanjiuguolvnidezhenzhengxingqing。nvhaiyehuiganjuenigengzhenzheng。

6.赞扬

diyiciyuehuineixiangxingnanhaizihaikeyishiduduozanmeinvsheng，xuduohaixiuderendanxinzhuyaobiaoxianchutamendeyongyi，rangnvshiduizishenshibushizaiyouhuijuedeyihuo。buyaohaipaduitadezanyang，bulunshibiaomianhuanshishengming。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

7.聆听

jiarunixinlibushanyujianghua，neidiyicihenvshengyouhuizuipubianliaotiandejiqiaoshixuehuiqingting，congtadejiaotanzhongfajuexianliaodian，neiyangzuoyekeyirangtaganshoudaonidechengxin，zhongjiuzhaoyigezhongshitingzhongtingnande。zheikanshangquhenxianzhu，danjiaruniguodujinzhang，gaobudonghualai，nijianghuitingbuqingchu。

8.将当今的会话移到以往或将来

diyiciyuehuineixiangxingdehua，jiarudajiaxianliaojiaotanzhiliuzaishixiadeshike，jiulinankandejianmojinyoujimiaodeshijianle，genjujianghuatitaolundaidaoyiwanghuojianglai，tanenggoushidajiadejiaotanzaicihuoyuexingqilai。

biru，jiarutashuo：“zheijiuhenhaochi。”

你能进到过去式

“wogandadunizhiqiancongbuyinjiu，danzhihounipengdaolenidedepengyou，gangkaishiyinjiu。”

或将来

liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？“woyijingnengxiangxiangchu，jiarunizaiheyibei，ninengbianweishenmeyangzi。”2gexuanzexiangdouhuixianzaishi“duia，wodeyefeichanghao。”