聊天宝典：跟刚认识的女生聊天应该怎么聊？

liangrenganglejiedeqingkuangxia，zaisuonanmianganjueshengshubuqingchuzenmehelingyifangxianliao，genganglejiedenvshengliaotiannixuyaoliuyishenme?zenyangyoumoliaotian？keqianwanbieyongzishendeluojisiweiqukaolvdaolingyifanga!liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？xiabianjiuhewangbianyiqikanyixiaheganglejiedenvhaiyingdangyaozenmeliaoliaoba!

跟刚了解的女生聊天

要有耐心

ruheheganglejiedenvshengweixinliaotian?zenyangyoumoliaotian？xuduonanshengheganglejiedenvshengliaotianlianzhishaodexixinyemeiyou，haimeiyouhenvshengliaojijujiuxinjiwen：“weihetabumiaohuiwo?tashifoubuzaiyiwo?”yaolejie，bierennvhaimeiyouzerenyidingyaohuinide，bingqielingyifangyeshiyouzishendeshier，jiaruniyidianxixinyemeiyou，lingyifanglveweihuidemanyidianjiulianhuaikongxi，neimenizailingyifangdexinzhongzhonghaowuyiwenquelilebutaihaodeyinxiang。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

防止自娱自乐自以为是方式

xuduonanhaizizaijianvhaijiudakaiziyuzileziyiweishifangshi，balingyifangdangguanmucong，ganjuenizaishuoshenmetadounengtingjinlai，liangrenxianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliu，yidingyaoxuehaoqingting，bahuatitaolundaliangdeqianyidaolingyifang，ranglingyifangduojiang，zishenduotingting。erqieyaohaijide，dajiabingbushizaidabianlunhui，jiarujianjiebuyizhi，jiusuannikeyimingquelingyifangjianjieshicuode，yewuxuxinjizheqiangdiaolai，xuduoqingkuangxiayijunicuole，jiulijibatianjiliaosi。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

不必提升界限

ruheheganglejiedenvshengweixinliaotian?shikejilaodajiagangganglejie，nibingbingbushitadeshei。zenyangyoumoliaotian？youderenyizhizigaozida，changshidanglingyifangdeliangshiyiyou，zheileizuofatongchangbianhuitishengliangrendejiexian，rangrenshifendichu。feichangshiliangrenyikaishixianliaodeqingkuangxia，zhenduilingyifangshuodehuazuodeshi，wenminglimaodibiaomingshiyongjiukeyile，buyongnilaipingding。

别用自身的逻辑思维去考虑到另一方

meiyigerensuozaidebuweibuyiyang，tamenkaolvdaoshierdeluojisiweiyehuigeyoubutong，zheiyeshidajiachangchangzhuzhongyaohuanweisikaoyixiadeyuangu。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？heganglejiedenvshengweixinliaotianyaomingbaichayanguanse，zhangwolingyifangdeniantou，zhangwolingyifangsuotingjiande，bunengyongziyiweishiduidefangfaquhuiyinglingyifangdenanti，eryaolejielingyifangdeyanwaizhiyi，huiyinglingyifangxiangtingjiandehuida，neiyangcaisuanshiqingshanggaodeliaotianhuati。