聊天找话题，恋爱中如何提升聊天技巧？这些你一定要知道

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恋爱中提高聊天的技巧

liangxingxianliaodemudibuqujueyuxinxijiaohuan。

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qianqilejiexianghuyouhaojuedehunyinguanxiyiqian，haodehuatitaolundabufenjiukeyijuyoubujumoupiandegongxiao。yinci “huatitaolun”shishoushangdeyingpai，yaofenwaiaixi!

nanshidehua，bixuyidingdezizhili，yinci wubifenwailiuyi。yibanbaifenzhibainenggouhenvshengjinxingxialaide“huatitaolun”，dagaizongshujiuzhiliuzai12dao20geshangxia。(yinmeiyigenvxingdeqinshenjinglibuyiyang，zongshuyouyidingdezhuanbian，danjuebuchaoguo20ge。)

yaoliuyicaozongzongshu、cishudengnanti。“huatitaolun”yongyizhangyingpaishaoyizhang。

多阐述自身。

shaotichuwentile，neiruhezaiciliaoxialaini?duochanshuzishen!

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nanshidehua，jiuxuyaotishengshuozishendegushilei，yaojifanvxinghaoqixin、shangxindenggeshigeyangdexintai。hebukanyixiashuoshuxianshengzenyangjianggushide，yaoxuehaoshidudeqingkuangxiamaidiaoweikou，rangnvshi“fuyoudepenggeqianchang，qiangyoulidechugeli”。xiangjiaopengyouyinggaizenmezuo？

 liangrendehuihuaneirong80%quanshigenjushuogushilaijinxingde。zaizheierjianyijiangyixiazenyangjianghaoyigegushi。liaotianzhaohuati，liaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

①关键点。

yigegushiyaorangtatingqilaihaoxiangqueshi，wubideyouguanjiandian。

②展现使用价值。

xiaogushishishidelingrenzhangwonidefangfa。

③波动。

pingpingdandandexiaogushimeirenxiangting。zheijiuxiangyaoniyouyidingdaoyandegongzuonengli。yaoshimeiyou，neihebujiangchuquyiqianxianbianjixingba。

④打造世界界面，情况。

zheijiuhaoxiangzaidajing，nidegushishibixuyoudairugan。yaoburandajiahuifawei。xuduoxiaoshuojinenggoufeichanghaodebaozhengzheiyidian。

⑤添加情感。

yigehaodegushimeiyouyigehaodejiangsufangfayeshinanyishixiande。shexiang，jiarujiqirenwalimeiyouganqing，tadayueburongyiyouneimeduodefensi。

与女生聊天方法

闲聊要对外开放。

jiaruyigerenduimoujianwupinhenganxingqu，suihounijiangzheiyijianwupinquzou，ruguonizaidujitamenzheigedongxideqingkuangxiahuiyinqitagengdadexingquaihao。changkaishixianjingyoucierlai。jianyidebiaoshubianshi：zaihuihuazhongbaohanmeiyoubiaomingdeniantou，xiaogushi，xintaihuoshijuede。

guanjianshiruguonizaochenglezheizhonghuatitaolun，meizhidafuyihou，niyidingyaoyouzishendejianjiehuoshigongxiang。

多表情图。

zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，dajiazuidanyoudeshi，lingyifangyijianshiliaodeganmeishenmexingqu。neidajiajiujijijiyulingyifangnicikexianliaoshideqingxuhexintai。

kaixinfakaixindebiaoqing，shangxinjiuku，buquedingxingjiukoubizi。jinyou，dajiajijigaozhi，zheishidexintaihuodongmiaoxie，lingyifang“fengxianxing”jianshaole，caihuizaicizijintouruerqiejiyuchongzudedafu。

jiaruyixienvhaishituzudangdehua，jijitishilingyifang。“nizheiquanshizhaopian，shishenmeyisia，lingrenruheyunigaoxingdewanlexianliaoa!”(koubizidexiaobiaoqingzaijia，xiaobiaoqingwusuobuzai!)

nandehua，yingyongxiaobiaoqingdehua，hainenggoufukuayidian，zheixiangdangyuyuziwoanshi，youyiyujifanvshidexintai。

zheieryaogaizhengdahuoersangecuowuguannian：

(1)bubimeiridouliao，kanqilaimeiyouzishenderichangshenghuo，dishiyongjiazhi，butaihao。

(2)bubiyouyishuncong，diaosiqiguozhong。liru，yuanyiweinikendingbuhuiliwo，nihuiyingwo，wohaokaixin。liru，lingyifangmeishuoyijuhuanibixujiexialaishuo，jiusuanshiqueshishiwuxuhuide，lingyifanghuigeganxie，nidoushuoqinvwangdeganxiehuidezhenkeai，nvwangzhenyoulimaozheileide。

(3)yiyangyijuhuabuyiyangderen，buyiyangdejingkuang，buyiyangdeyudiaoyuqishuochulaijuedequanshibuyiyangde。guanjianbuqujueyushuoxieshenme，zhishizenmejiang。zheibushifangshihuoshizhaoshu，zhishiwuxue。

提高本身。

zuixianshilingyifangduinidediyiyinxiang：lirunidewaiguansheji，pingchangyaoliuyitouxinghemianbudejifuhuli，guanxinyixieshishangchaoliuleidexinwenzixun。lirunideshentiyuyanheyantanjuzhi，weichinirentidepingwen，jianghuadeqingkuangxiabubiqianshen，muguangchupengyaoshushi，shengyinsuduyaojianman、youjianduan，kouchiqingxi。jiaruduinidediyiyinxianghao，dangranhuichuxianqudongligennihudongjiaoliu。

xuduotongxuemenzhenduizishendewaiguanshejibutaixinxin，shijishangmeiyoubiyao，ruguoniliuyizhishangdezheizhong，dabufenquanshiokde。

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