女生说和我没有共同话题怎么办？如何找话题聊天？

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女生说和也没有共同语言该怎么办

寻找和女孩聊天的共同语言的方式：

1、微信朋友圈找寻话题讨论

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？rujin，weixinpengyouquanhaoxiangbianchengbenrenzhanxianzishendediqu，feichangshinvhaimen，tamenxiaizaishangmiangongbuzishenmeirideqingxu、aihao、xingquaihaozheixiejibenshangquanbuneirong，erdajiarenzhenguanchahuifajue，womenkeyizainvhaideweixinpengyouquanxunzhaoxuduoguanyutadeyouxiaoxinxineirong，jiurutongshuo：nvshengzijideqianzi，meiridejilu，tamendebenrenzhaopian，jiqitamendezhiyexingquzheixie，ergengshizheizhongbeihushidexinxineirong，dajiadounenggouyongyuzuoweihenvhailiaotiandehuatitaolunsucaitupian。neiyangjiunengqingqingsongsongdeyouzhehenvshengdegongtongyuyan。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

 zheierwojidahuoerjugeshili：liruwozhiqianyouyigepengyoutadegerenqianmingjiuxiezheyijujiandandehua：nikanqilaihenhaochi，(neimashijishangzheihuashiyuanyuyibujiaoweixiaozhongdedongmanmanhuamingzi)erdajiahuifajue，jiuyouyuzheihua，shiwomenyongyouyigejinhuwanmeidehuatitaolunshanguangdian，wulunnishigangjiatayeba，huanshizaoyiliaolehaozhangshijiandeyeba，zheihuadouheshilaishengchanzhizaoyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolun，zirannidexianhushizheihuadezhenzhenghanyi，zhishiyouyiwaiquzheihuadedezhenzhenghanyi，shengchanzhizaoquweierkouweidehuatitaolun。

 haijideyidian，womenzaixianliaodeqingkuangxianenggoupeidaxiaobiaoqing，youyujinyouxiaobiaoqingcainenggouchongfenfahuidaozuijingyadeshijixiaoguo，ruguonimeipeidaxiaobiaoqing，jirendejuedejiufangfozaiyibenzhengjingdezhiyi，ernvhaicikeyibanyehuiyibenzhengjingdehuiyingni，zheileixianliaozhuangkuangxia，neimayeyouliaoxialaideqidaima?

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2、第三方话题讨论

 rutongshuo，womenkeyiliaochide，huoshiyouxiyule，jiqixiaochongwudujialvyouzheixiezheizhongdouguishuyudisanfanghuatitaolun，zheiershuoyigedian，lirunihenvshengdouxiaiwanyikuanshoujiyouxi，zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？neimadajiahaihuijixudanyouhenvshengmeiyougongtongyuyannenggouliaoma?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

 wubiyaochuangjianpubiandexihao，jiarunidexihaotaidanyidehua，shinanyixunzhaogongtongyuyande，jishinipengdaonvshenghenijijiliaozheizhongyouguandisanfanghuatitaolun，niyehuiliaobuqilaide，feichangjiandanyigeshili，jiarunitaoyanwanchiji，nvhaiquehenxihuanwan，suihoutazainiyanqianjianglezishendezaoshou，yuanbenshihendouledeshier，queyinweiniyongyuanbuzhidaoneigeyouxieryagentingbujinqunvhaizaijiangshenme，naizhiyilianmeng。

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3、暖味调味料

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4、互换信息内容

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 erfanguolai，nizijidexinxineirongjiarunvhaiquanshiyiwusuozhi，zheihaowuyiwenhuirangtayouyizhongguishugandeweixie。neimazainiyongyuanbuzhidaonvhaiyoumuyounanpengyoudezhuangkuangxia，niyinggairuhequliaoni?liru：nifandoubuyaochi?woganjueninanyouyebabuzhaiwua，woruguota，kandounineiyangbuguanzhuzishen，woyidinghuidanipipide。

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