如何快速恋爱的聊天技巧有哪些？怎样提高情商？

 yaoyouruhedeliaotiandejiqiaocaikeyixunsuchuduixiangnidashandejiqiaoyounaxie？，yaoxiangxunsudehenvshengchuduixiang，nixuyaobawoyixieyunvshengliaotiandehefangfa，liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？xiabianjiuhewangbianyiqikanyixiazenmecainengyunvshengliaotianfangfaba!fengfulianaigonglvejinie!

怎么才能与女生聊天方法

一、了解一下男女交往中的闲聊忌讳

 jiaruniyaozailianaizhongqudechenggongxianliao，neimayuehuiliaotianzhongjiuxuyaofangzhizheizhongjinqu：zainannvjiaowangquanguochengzhongbubiguoduoliaoguoquzishendeqingganshi，dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？lejiemeiduojiujiutuluzishendexinliheyiwanglianaishibingbukeyiranglingyifangxunsurenshiziji，fandaohuiweibiciqingganfazhanqushideqianzaixinganquanyinhuan;zaiyouhuidequanguochengzhong，fangzhicongtouzhiweimankoudefumianqingxu、xinlingdujitangshuogebuduan，pengdaonantiyizhibashierwangbiduanxiang，xiaochendeduidairichangshenghuo，mankoudemaiyuan;yibianfangzhixianliaogaliao，zishenbuduandezishuozihua，naizhixiangbeizishencailiaohuochalingyifanghujiyiyang;youderenzaiyouhuiquanguochengzhong，xiaigaozitaixuanyao，zheileigerenxingweihuiranglingyifangganjuenishiyigemeiyouneihandebuzixinzhe;……liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

二、没忘记闲聊目地，终能自始至终

 chuduixiangxianliaodemudibujinshizaixinxichuandi，zhuyaoshiyibianhuodelingyifanghaogandu，suihoubicinengjinyibufazhanqushi，zuihouhelingyifangzaiyiqi。yiner，lianaizhongdenixuyaoliuyixianliaoshiyibianzhangwolingyifang、ranglingyifangrenshiziji、jiyulingyifangguishuganhexinlai、lajinniyulingyifangdeguanlian。yiner，lianaizhongnannvliaotiangoutongjiaoliubingbingbushimangmugenfengdanchunxingxianliao，zhishiyaodaizhumudi，buranhuibijiaoyanzhongweihailianggerenzhongjiandeguanlian。

三、用心的聆听另一方交谈

 shehuixintaixueyanjiufaxian，tiejinsanfenzhiyidebuchenggongxiangqinyuehuidaduoshuchuxianzheileinankanjushi：yifanghuaduoderen，lingyifangchabulehua。lianaizhong，xiangranglingyifangxiaiyunixianliao，shifenguanjiandeyidianbianshiyaoxuehuiqingting。lianaizhong，xuduoqingkuangxiabuqujueyulingyifangjiangguoshiduoshaohua，erqujueyulingyifangshibushiqingtingzishendehua。lingtingbudannenggoujililingyifangshuodedaliang，hainenggoubiaomingzishenduilingyifangxianliaodeyujuhenyouxingquaihao。lianaizhongdelianren，nengbaochiweixiaolingtinglingyifangjiaotan，bingduofangmianshidudefuhe，huijudadetuidongganqingdejinyibufazhanqushi。

四、不断赞扬另一方，非常是赞美女性

 lianaizhongdenanrennvrenyizhiqidaihuodelaiyuanyulingyifangzhongxindezanyang，nandenenggougenjunvxingwomendedao yidingmanzugan，nvdenenggougenjunanxingdezanyangdedao guishugan。dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？bicizaiyiqishi，chukaiyaobiaoshugeyoudeganqing，gengyingzaipingshipingpingdandandangzhongjianzhenqing，changchangdezanyangkuayikualingyifang。feichangshilianaizhongdenanshiyaoduozanyangzishendenvban，huijinihuodefeichanghaodeshijixiaoguo。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

五、挑选适合的聊天的话题

 chuduixiangliaoshenmehuatitaolunshishifenguanjiande，tiyigangkaishishibubidafanchoutaolun，buranhenrongyiyinbiciluojisiwei、gexinghua、jianyihexihaodengqubie，bianchengbicijinyibufazhanqushidezuai。yinci ，nenggouliaoyiliaoshenpangdefanzashier、yulebagua、qiwen、jinqiredianhuatijiqilingyifangdetihui，quanshifeichanghaodeliaotiandehuatilaiyuanyu。

六、少提封闭式问题

 “zaiganshenme、chilema?、nenggougenniliaoyiliaoma、zaima?”dengxiangjinnanti，yizhitiwen，biaocengkanshangqushizaizaochenghuatitaolun，shishishangranglingyifang，feichangshirangnvxingdichu，lingrenyagenjiubuyuanhuiyingni。lianaizhongyingyongzheileifengbishiwenti，lingrenjuedefeichangwuqu，feichangrongyibatianliaosi，tiyiduoyixiechangkaishixianliao。

七、闲聊中有笑容和风趣

 bulunshinanshihuanshinvshi，douxiaihejingchangxiaorong、fengquyoumoderenjiaowang，yingduitaiyangderen，zishenhuiqingbuzijindixiangshuodaliang。xiaorong，zuirutongminzuixiaogaojinsancheng，bubidanyouzishendeyashibushiqizheng。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？zaiwozhangwodeyunvshengliaotianfangfazhong，fengquhaowuyiwenshifeichangjiandandanshideliaotianhuati。chenmoguayandeni，jianjiandixuehaoxiaorong，gangchupengdenanrennvrenyaoxiangrangganqingxunsufachunzaocheng，zishenyuelaiyuefengqushibunengquefadejieduan。