钢铁直男的聊天方式能改吗？搭讪的技巧哪些好

 dabufennanhaieryongzhijieledangdefangfahetamenzuiaidenvshengxianliao，zenyangyoumoliaotian？meiyicidoubazishennongdeyituanzao，keshinvhaimenyagenbuganxiangxinta。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？yiner，huijuetouanzishouhuodele“haorenka”，zheiyiranshiyigehaozhuangkuang。dabufennanhaieryouyuyixieyuangubeijujue，liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？biru:

nvshengbulijihuiyingxinxi，naizhijiaruheimingdan；

nvshengyizhihuiying“haa”，jianjujiaozhang。

nvhaimenbuxihuannibuhuiliaotian、gangtiezhinanhebuhuiliaotian。

 shijishang，zheishinidegangtiezhinanjianghuarangnvshengbukaixindefangfa，yincinideguanzhubeijuedeshiganyutadeshier。zheiyifangshishibuzhengquede，quanbudeqinfendoujiangshitulaowugongde。jinri，bianxiaojiangguanjianxiezhudahuoerchulixianliaonanti。

使我们讨论一下典型性的直男聊天:

zaicicixianliaozhong，henduonanhaierjianghuimeiyoufajueyiqienanti，danzainvshengyanzhong，neiyangdenanhaiershidianxingxingdezhinansiwei！

xianliaoshi，woyizhizaitiwenti。rangnvhaimenzuozheiyineige；zhizou，meiyouyoumofengqu，zheixie。

zheizhongquanshikeguandeliaotianhuati，nenggou gongzuozhongyingyong，keshidanggennvhaiziliaotianshi，tamentaikeguanle，queshilingrenshangnao。

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？huoxumeiyigerendoujinjinxianggenjutichuwentilaizhangwotadeqingkuang，huoshichuziyuguanzhushuozheizhonghua，keshizaiquanbuquanguochengzhong，meiyigerendouchedihushilenvshengdetihuihexintai。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

 yiner，jiaruniyaozhuishangyigenvhai，niwubixuehaozaixianliaozhongchushinvshengyaoxiangde“ganqing+juede”，erqieqiadangdichuandinideniantouhejianyi，neiyangtajiuburongyizaiduijiniyiqiewuhui。

jiexiaqu，bianxiaojiangjiaonierzhongyunvshengliaotiandejiqiao，bingxiezhunijiejuegangtiezhinandeliaotianhuati。

最先，具体指导闲聊方式

 zuixian，dajiawubigaoqingchunvshengxiaibei“zhengqueyindao”。jinguantakanshangquhenjianzhuang，danshehuixintaixuekexueyanjiuxianshixinxinvshengduilingyibanyoujiaoqiangdeyilaigan。

yiner，niwubicaozongxianliaodefangwei，rangnvshengzhuisuinidejiaobu。

 biru，jiaruniaikanyigenvhaidezhaopian，bubizhijieshuo“fayizuxiangpiankanlai”，ninengchangshigenju“zhengqueyindaoxianliao”laihuodeniyaoxiangdehuida。

 nvshengyibanxiailvyou，huoshiquzaoxingyishudianpuhekafeiting。wuluntamenzainaer，haowuyiwenyouyigeguanjiandexingdong——zhaoxiang。

ninengheyigenvhaitaolundujialvyou，gaozhitanilaiguonaer，suihouzhengqueyindaotarangnifaxiangpian。biru:

ni:wojiriqianwanglechengdoushi。nanfangdiqudejingsequeshihenpiaoliang。

ta:wolaizinanfangdiqu，keshiwodoumeiyoulaiguoshamenshi。

ni:(tuisongzuizhongduozhangxiangpian)

她:相片里是你吗

ni:e，yinweiwoyibuxiaoxinjilezheiyi

ni:youmeiyoushenmediqufeichangzhidequ，qianglietuijianyixia

ta:wolaiguoxxx，yigeshifenqingjingdediqu。

ni:nipailenaxiehaokandezhaopianma？gongpinggongzhengdishuo，yinweiwoxiangkannidelvxingzhaopian。

zhengqueyindaoxianliaofangshideguanjiandianshi:gaohaozhengqueyindaohezhangwozhudaoquan，yeyaoba“huatong”jiaojinvsheng。

 zuixian，xianglingyifangzhanxiannihenganxingqudewupin，suihouzhaoyigexianghudehuatitaolun，neiyangxianliaodenvshengjiuburongyiganjuewuqule。

第二，情感共鸣法

nvshengshilixingdexiaodongwu，yincinibunengyizhiyongkeguandeluojisiweihetajianghua。

womenkeyifangwenweixinliaotianjilu，ninengfajuewojiejiegennishuodexuduohuadouhenganrenzhishen，liru:

"wojintianbugaoxing，xiangbaoshibaoyin。"bugaoxing

“jinriyoubeilingdaoganbuzhizele”——bugaoxing

钢铁直男思索着，会那样回应:

1、bubibaoshibaoyin，duishentibuhao。(qinjiejiebaoshibaoyinjinjinsuibianshuoshuo，bietaidangzhen)

2、guanlizhequanshineiyang，xiguanxingshihaode。(keguanshishishineiyangde，danwobiaomeigengshangxin。)

情感共鸣法，那样回应:

 1、hahahahaha，sheirexiaoxiannvshengqile，wojintianbugaoxing，chulaiba，woniyaobaoshibaoyin！huoshilijikuaidigongsiyidailingshi。(qinggangongming，shundaiyaoyue)

 2.wozhiqianjianguozheiyi。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？jiarumomingqimiaotiaoshi，woyeburongyisihoutamen！(qinggangongming，hunyinguanxi)