聊天宝典：刚介绍的对象怎么聊天？聊天常用话题有哪些

 dashanjiqiaonaxiehao？xianjieduan，dabufennianqingrenyiranjiezhuqinqipengyouxiangxijieshaotamendeguke。yifangmian，tamenmangliuzishendegongzuozhong，jibenshangmeiyoushijianhehuoliquzhuinvsheng。lingyifangmian，tadelianxiangduixingjiaobo，jibenshangbugandahua。liaotianbaodian：liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？shijishang，qinqipengyoumeiyoushenmehaoxiangxijieshaode，yaoshibicixianghuzhijiankanjian，kaixindixianliao，neihao。wozenmecainengyuwobujiuxiangxijieshaoderenxianliao？gangkaishiqianbubiwanbi。

一、掌握闲聊頻率

gangxiangxijieshaodemubiaoruheliaotian？caikeyihenvshengliaodegaoxingdiyizhangzuixian，bawoxianliaopinlv

 zuixian，xianliaodepinlvbuyinggaitaigao，doubuyingdangguozhang。zuizhongyaodeshi，dangyunixianliaoshi，nvhaimenjuedeshifengaoxingheshifangyali。dashanjiqiaonaxiehao？ziran，xianliaodeneironghuozhutifenggeshinvhaimenhenganxingqude，liruchi、he、wan、xihao、dujialvyou、shierxingzuo、bagua、yingpianzheixie。ziran，jiarunilejienvshengxihuanshenme，niyenenggou xianliao。xianliaodeshijiandoubugudingbudong，keshijinkenengtiaoxuannvshengxiabanlebutaimangdeqingkuangxia，burannvshengjianghuiburongyixunsuhuiyingni。liaotianbaodian：liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？

二、掌握另一方

gangxiangxijieshaodemubiaoruheliaotian？caikeyihenvshengliaodegaoxingdierzhang

 yiduanguanlianzhongzuizhongyaodeshinaxie？youderenyaoshuotashihuxianglijie，dajiadoulejiehuxianglijieshichuangjianzaigoutongjiaoliudejibenshangde。jinyougenjugoutongjiaoliu，dajiacaikeyihuxianglijie，caikeyilejielingyifangduizishendezhenqing，caikeyirangzishenjianxinzheileiguanlianhuishizhongbuduanxialai。neiyang，goutongjiaoliuyeshiyijianzhiguanzhongyaodeshier，goutongjiaoliunenggou shuochenglianrenmenjiaowangdezuijichudeshier。yiner，nixuyaoxiangenjuxianliaolaigoutongjiaoliuhelejieta，neiyangniyenenggou lejielingyifangshibushiqueshiheshini。liaotianbaodian：liaotianchangyonghuatiyounaxie？

三、发散性思维闲聊

 gennvshengliaotianhuanshifasanxingsiwei，sichusuiyiliao，liaonaerjiunaer，meiyigehuatitaolundangranxuanze，meiyouyinhen，bubizhidaozheiyihuatitaolunqueshimeijiangguobuqingchuyaohuannaxiehuatitaolun...suiyixuanze，lijiwenyuda...erbujiuxiangxijieshaodemubiaojianghuishangtandaozheizhong:

 1.gongzuozhong，gongzuojingyan，wujintuozhan，naxiedegongzuozhong，shijidegongzuozhong，gongzuoshangyouyisideshi，suozaiweizhi，zhoubiandedianpuhegongchengjianzhu，dashanjiqiaonaxiehao？zhiqianzaineilidegongzuozhong，zhiqiandeduteqinshenjingliheyouyisideshi。jiarubiyelexuexiaoshenghuobuzhang，neiyinggaishiyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolun，zenyangrichangshenghuo，yixiedutedeyouxiyulehexihao...

 2.xingquaihaohexihao。xiexishinixiaiganshenme？tiyuwenhua、kandianshiju、dongman、yingpian、maidongxi、yueduwenzhang。yixieteshudeaihaoyehenhao。qidanche，taiyangdixiatingge，canguankaochazhihu，huihua，zuoyixieshougonggongyipin，lianshufashishidetixiannizijidepinweiheyoudian，zheixie。(huoxuyouxianghudequanyi，tashijinyibufazhanqushideguanjianyaosuheqiantitiaojian。)

 3.yixiejianghuizhonghedezhutifengge。jiarunilaiyuanyutongyigediyu，nianjitongyang，ninengtaolunnizainanianshu，jiqinizhiqianzuolenaxieyouyisideshi。yuanxiaoshiyigedahuatitaolun...dajiajianghuilejiederen，dajiadoulejiedeshier...

4.babamamashengmingduanzan。tamensuojiandaoheqinshenjinglide，shicaizainaermeiwei，jiaotongchuxingzainaer...

 yunibujiuxiangxijieshaoderenxianliaoyoudianerjiannan。wozhiyoushuonvhaimenhenganxingquerqiexiangyaoyuniyouhui。dashanjiqiaonaxiehao？meiyoudahui，meiyouchupeng，meiyoushencengcidejuede。yiner，niwubibawojihuiyuetachulai，neiyangdaliangdechupenghuichuxianzhidefeiyue。