约女孩子出来说话技巧哪些好？如何找话题聊天？

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？xiaishangyigenvsheng，xianghenvshengfazhanqushixiayibu，kendingshibixubanvshengyuechulaiwancainengde，neimazenyangcainengyuenvshengchuquni?ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？xiabiandajiajiutaolunyixiayuenvshengchuquyuyanjiqiao。yuenvshengchuquyuyanjiqiaodiyiciyuenvshengdefangfa？

一、约女生出去语言技巧

最先在闲聊气氛很好的情况下传出邀约

 zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？ruguonihenvshengzaixianliaoshi，wulunnigenjuqq，huanshishoujiweixindengshejiaoruanjianshang，dangdajialiaodedouhenyoujingtoudeqingkuangxia，feichangshiliaodegongtongyuyandeqingkuangxia，nijuedezheishihoudexianliaoqifenzaoyihenhaola，zheishichuanchuyaoyue，yibanzhuangkuangxianvhaiquanshihuixinrantongyide。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

第二点运用女孩的好奇心心态状态

 meiyigerenduixinshiwudoushiyouqiuzhiyu，nvhaizeduixinxiandewupindeqiuzhiyugengshen。ruguonihenvshengdeliaotianneirongduinvhaishangpinhaoqixindeqingkuangxia，zheijiubiaoming，nideyaoyuezaoyiyouyibandezhangwole，jiexiaqubianshizenyangbawozhunvhaideqiuzhiyu，zheilibiankeyiyongshangdajiaxueshengshidaixueguodefangshi ，kuadaqiciyidian，yizuodaogengnengpinpaixingxiangdebiaoshutadedudaozhichu，ziran，biekuadaqicidetailihaile，yaoyouyigedu。

第三点为自己一个机遇，勤奋邀约一次

 yaoyuenvhaiyongcan，youhuibeijujueneijiushihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，jiarudajiahaibingbushihenshu，dannimeiyiciyaoyueta，tadoutongyi，neicaijiaoyichangni。youyulianaizhongdenvhaidaduoshujiaoweichuantongshi。jiarucicibeijujuele，nanhaizibuyinggailikeyebuganshenmele，zhishiyingdangzaijianchiyixia，huoxuniyaoyuedenvhaibianshiyouyuxiuseerhuijuenilei。ziranhuijueyefendeduozhongduoyang，liru，nvhaizaishoudaonideyaoyueshi，tadequeshiyoushierbukeyifuyan，neiyangdehua，bingbushiyouyunibenrendeyuangubeijujue，zhishinitiaoxuandeshijianshangmianyoumaodun。jiarunvhaishifuyanleshideneileihuijuedehua，neiyangnijiuxuyaozhaozhaozishendeyuangule。

第四点要给女孩一种归属感

 juedaduoshunvhaidoushijuededaoquefaanquangan，huoxupingchangdajialiaodetingbucuode，yehenhedelai，keshinizishizhizhongmeiyounengqudechenggongdeyaoyuedaonvhai。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？zheijiuyoukenengnimeiyourangnvhaijuededaoguishugan，wulundajialiaodeduomehao，jiarubukeyirangtajuededaoguishugan，nvhaishibutaikenenggenniduliyouhuide。yincixianggennvhaiyouhui，zhuyaodeshirangtajuededaonijitadeguishuganyuenvshengchuquyuyanjiqiaodiyiciyuenvshengdefangfa。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

二、幽会常见问题

1、不必显摆

 nizijiyougongzuonengli，fuyou，zheizhongnvhaidouxiai，keshinizijizhuyaobiaoxianchuquhetacongcebianguanchachulaishibuyiyangde。feichangjiandandejiangba，jiarunigenjuwaizaidepinpaixingxiang，lijiduinvshengshuonihenfuyou，niliuguoxue，nigenyougongzuonengli，neiyangnvhaizongshijuedetashiniyizhizaiyangainidequefazixin，yincinicaixiangjiezhuwaizaidewupinquxunzhaonvxingderentong。

2、不必有意取悦

 xuduonanhaizirenweiduozanmeinvshengjiukeyihuodenvhaidehaogandu，keshizheizhenshishiyixiangqingyuan，nvxingshenpangshuotahaokanquyuetaderenduole，taweihejiuduiniyouhaogan，zaishuole，taduizishenbiniduitahaizhangwo，tazuoderuhetazishenyeqingxi，benlaizuodebuzadi，niyaoshuotazuodefeichanghao，tahuiganjuenihenxuqingjiayi，nvxinghenqite，taqidaitarenkuata，dantaquebuqidaitarenpianta，bingqietamenjuedewuyuanyintingcongtamendenanrenshihenmeizhujiande，nvhaidaduoshuxiaiyongyudandangyouzhujiandenansheng。

3、不谈沒有兴趣爱好的话题讨论

 jiaruniyizhizaiyouhuiquanguochengzhongliaoyixiecouhezhenizijidoumeishenmexingqudehuatitaolun，nvshengzenmekaixindeqilaini，zaixianliaodeyuanshihuanjie，yaojinkenengquzuoyigeshifenquweidenanhaizi，jinkenengzuoyigezainvhaiyanzhongshifenkeaideren，jiarunichangchangliaozheizhongsuoranwuweidehuatitaolun，neimanvhaihaowuyiwenhuiganjuenitaiwuliao，niyejiuburongyibianchengnagenenggou hetachanshengjinyibudeguanlianle。

4、不必问她隐私保护

 youhuiyibanzaijiaoweiyazhiqingjingdediqu，nvhaihentaoyanyizhinantisirenxinxidenanti，ruguoshiqianbucidexianliaohainenggou，keshiyixieqianshedaoyinsibaohudeshier，tamenjiuburongyixiaitaolun，liruzishendegongzia，guoqudeqingshiadenghuatitaolun，huirangtarenganjuenizheigerentaibagua，youhuishinenggou tantaozishendegerenaihao，yulehuodongnaxiede，keshiyaohaijidebubigoutongjiaoliutaiguoshencengcidehuatitaolun。yuenvshengchuquyuyanjiqiaodiyiciyuenvshengdefangfa

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？zhishangbianshiyouguanyuenvshengchuquyuyanjiqiao，nixuehaolemeiyou?yuenvshengyebukeyixinjie，zuixianxianpingwenhaodajiadeqinggancaixinge。