怎么和女生聊天不冷场，聊天宝典你值得拥有

 henduorendoushiyouzheileifannao:pingchanggennvhaiziliaotianshi，tamendouhuixiangzenyangshuoyixierangnvshenghenganxingqudehua，keshiyidangennvhaiziliaotian，tamenyizhihenlengmo。zenyangyoumoliaotian？shijishang，zheileiyanhandezhuangkuanghuichansheng。yuangushinvshengbuzuhuoyuexing。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？yincijinrixianghenizaiyiqigongxiangyizhongnengrangnvshengjijidezhuanyejineng:huanweisikao，neiyangnidexianliaojiuburongyilengle。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

这类方法是:换位思考。

tashiyizhongrenherenzhijianlianluo、chanshenggoutongjiaoliuhechuangjianguanliandegongzuonengli。

 biru，yigenvhaigennishuo，“wohenxihuanwenroudenanhaier，taoyannanshengtaijianzhuangdeyuangushiyouyuwobabataiyanketaixiongle。”

现在有2个回答:

1.“nibabaneimezuoshiyibianninhao。”

2，“shishishang，shide，yigegengwenroudenanyougenglejiezenyangsunhaini。”

neimanvshenggengxihuantingnayigecini？meiyigerenneixindouyingdangzhaodaan，neijiushidierjuhua。

 congshizhishangshuo，diyijuhuashi“shehuike”，danjibenshangmeiyigerendoubukeyitingtarenneiyangzishuozihua:wozhishizaigaozhibicidejianyi，dannineimeshuojiufangfowohaizaimaiyuan，wohaoxiangshiyigejilianbuyaolianderen。

shubuzhi，dierjuhuakaolvdehenzhouquan。nijilingyifangdejuedejiushinishifenzhangwota，erqienengrenketa。

为何这话听起来那么舒适？

 renherenzhijianzuiyoushiyongjiazhideyibufenshisha？bianshihuxianglijie，huxiangrentong。jiaruyigerenbubeitarenlejie，tahuihaipagudu。

 zenyangyoumoliaotian？huanweisikaojiushizhidangtarenxiangdajiachuanditamendeganqinghetihuishi，dajiaxianglingyifangchuandiwomenkeyihuanweisikao、lejieherenketadejingyuheqinshenjinglideshujuxinhao。yiner，zheileigongzuonengliduidajiahenvshengzhongjiandeguanlianyoujiaoqiangdenianhegongxiao。

 zaiyiban dexianliaozhong，dajiadehuanweisikaonenggou fenchengliangdalei，yileishiqiande，lingyileishishende。liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？

 qianbucixiangduieryangengfeichangrongyilejie，guanchalingyifangdeyuyanherentizhuyaobiaoxianyehenhao，suihoudajiahuizuochufanying。taguanjianduiyuwomenzaijijizhudongmianzhanxiandeyibufenhewomenzaixianliaoshiyaojiandaohetingjiandeyibufen。

究竟是什么原因？

1.简易的感情或赞成是移情最基础的表述

dajiarentongtadejianjie，bingbubianbota。tashizuijichudeyiqing。yuangufeichangjiandan，xiangxinmeiyigerendougaoqingchu。

比如:

biru，yigenvhaigennishuo，“wotaileile。woyijingchixugongzuozhongle12gezhongtou。”

nvshengjiangwanzheihuahou，nizhibixushuo:“quxiuxiyixia。”

tashifeichangjiandandeyiqing。nvhaimenxiangnimaiyuantatinglei。jiarunirangtaxiexi，zheidaibiaozhenilejiedaotatingleidekeguanshishi。

 (ziran，zheiyishilijinjinyibianbiaoshushenmejiaojichuyiqing。zaijutidejiaotanzhong，nibunenghuiyingzheigewenti，youyunvshenghenkenenghuilijihuiying:xingba，neijiuyaoxiexiba，ninengyouyuxianliaoerside。)

shijishang，wenzhangkaitoudeshiliguishuyuzheiyilei。

2、发布相近的情况，并应用关键字来拓展心态

yibianzaijiaotanzhongyinjingongmingdian，yigerenbixuyixiezhuanyejineng。

 henduorenjingchangbuqingchuzainvshengjiangguonaxieyihouruhequjienvsheng，youqishizainvshengbiaoshulegengbenrendejianjiehuojiangguoyijianwuqudeshieryihou，xianliaogongzuonengliruodenanhaierpobudeyilijiyingdui。

shijishang，ruguonilejiezenyangyongyiqinglaisisuo，niyejiuhuilejiezenyanghuiyingzheigewenti。

 yingyongzheileifangfadeguanjianshi，zaiyigenvhaibiaoshutadeqingkuanghetihuiyihou，dajiayehuizaitadeqingkuangfanchouneixiangxingtabiaoshudajiadeqingkuanghetihui。

 dajiadeqingkuangnenggou hetayiyang，haikeyifanguolai。jiandandianlaishuo，dajiawubizaizheigefanchounei，neiyang2geyouxiurencainengyoutongyangdejuede，youxianghudeyuyan，bingyinqinvhaimendeganqingfanying。

 lingwaibawozhulingyifangyujuzhongdeguanjianzi，lingwaiweilingyifangzaojiuxindenantihuoxintai，rangnvshengchixuzaochengqiuzhiyuhexintaixianxiang，neiyangnvshengjiukeyijiji，niyutazhongjiandexianliaojiukeyizaicifazhanqushi。

为何你不可以和女生换位思考？

1.不自信

 yiqingyouyigeshifenguanjiandediqu，neibianshiyongyubanvshengdeguannianlianluoqilai，erbuzixinduizheileiqingkuanghenyouyingxiang。zaizheileixintaixia，ninengyouyizhongtaobidexintai，haipacaixiangnvrendexinsi，haipabazijideniantoudangzuotadeniantou，yincibuguanzenyangnidoumeiyoubanfayunvshenghuanweisikao。

2.想象

 liaotianbaodian：dashandejiqiaonaxiehao？yubuzixinfanguolai，ziaoderentaixiaizishendeniantou。tamenjuedenvshengbukeyineimezuo。tashicuowude。nimeilejieta，dangranniyeburongyilianminta。