第一次和女生见面该怎么聊天？如何找话题聊天？看这里

 wodiyiciyushangyigenvhai，jiarunengjitaliuyouhaoyinxiangjiutaibangle。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？yinci，chukaizhongshipinpaixingxiang，wodiyiciyingdangruhegennvhaiziliaotian？shenmejiaohaohuatitaolun？jiexiaqu，woxianghedahuoergongxiangyixieyouguanzheigewentideguanjiandian，ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？zheiduidiyicibuqingchuzenyanggennvhaiziliaotiandenanhaiershifenyouxiezhu。

我该怎样第一次和一个女孩闲聊？

1.开场词

 renzhenguanchashuoming，dajiahaojiumeiyoukandaolaoyoule。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？lianggerenpengmianhoudediyijianshishixianghuzhijianwenhao，“nijinqizaiganshenme？”，“woyijinghaojiumeiyoutizhongzengjiale。”“nihuoderuhe？”...jinguankanshangquhaowujiazhi，danlianluoqingganhehemuguanlianshiyouxiezhude。yiner，yibianfangzhidiyiciyushangnvshengshidenankan，tanenggou beizuoweilaoyou。xianghuzhijianwenhaoshidakaihuihuadehaofangfa。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

wenhao:wojintianzailaizheierdedaoshangbeizhedangle。xingyundeshi，jiashiyuanlaoshifudezhuanyejinenghenhao。

zhuonongwenhao:nishiyizhangdaibandan。wokanshangqubixiangpianxuduole。(xianyizhihoutisheng)

2.简易的信息交换

 xinxineironggoutongjiaoliuyibiantishenglejieganheguishugan，nvhaidiyicichupengnanhaiershishifenshenzhong。jibianniyizhizaizaiwangshanghetaliaodaohenkaixin，ruguonizaixianxiapengmianshi，niyiranbixuzaidulejieta。xinxineironggoutongjiaoliuyifangmiannenggou jinkuaizhanxianniziji，lingyifangmiannenggou xunzhaodajiazhongjiandexiangtongdian。

 huhuannaxiexinxineirong？gongzuozhong、zhuzhi、weixinpengyouquandeng。shiquanbunenggou huhuandexinxineirong，suihounenggou congzheizhongwangluojiaohuanjifajuexianghudexingquaihao。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？ruguonichuangjiangongtongyuyanshi，niyenenggou yinchulaiwujinhuatitaolunlaitaolun，liru:nixihuanchishenme，nixiaizainaerwan，ershidekunao，jiaxiangdefengsuzheixie。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

3、创建感情联络

 jiaruzaidajiajianmianhoudeshifenzhongneiyiqiedoushunlikaizhan，zheishuomingdajiazhongjianzaoyichanshengleyidingshuipingdehemu，neimaninengchangshituidongzheileiguanlian，bahuatitaolunsongdaogengjiashenrudecengji，huanjuhuashuo，bahuatitaolunjizhonghuazaidajia2gedeshenshang。

 biru，hetataolunshicai、lvyou、baguazheixie。changshijiangmeiyigehuatitaolunyuni、tahuonilianluoqilai。mudishijiazhongniyizhizaitaxinlideyinxiang，rangtayuniyouchengqianshangwandelianluo。

比如:

nan:“woxiangniyidingshigeguke，nixihuanchishenme？”

nv:“huoguodian、niuba、tesexiaochi、sichuancai，wulunruhe，wobuhuireyebugaoxing。”

nansheng:“shibushi？yinweiwofeichangxihuanxinlashiwudeshicai。zuoriwohepengyoumenyiqichiwanzhongqinglaohuoguo。”

nv:“woduinishuodehuahentanyu。”

nan:“heihei，tashiniwozhijiandediyicixinyoulingxi。”

nv:“neidajiazhihounenggou quchilajiaolongxiale，womingbaiyigehenhaochide。”

nanshi:“xingba，bangwowuge”(zheirangwoyunvhaimenyongyoushentijiechu)

 wodouxiangtishiwodexiongdimen，henvshengdediyiciyuehuiwubizaoshoucaozong。wulunnishibushixiaixianliao，niwubizuixianjijiwanbixianliao。yifangmian，zheihuirangnvshengduinibumanyi，tishengnvshengduixiayiciyouhuideqidai。lingyifangmian，taxianshixinxilenidegaoshiyongjiazhi。

第二，第一次和女生探讨的话题讨论是啥

1.美味可口食品类

 suhuashuodehao，aihetesemeishishiweiyifeichangzhideaixidewupin。shicaishiyigerenheshikedoubukeyigenggaidehuatitaolun，henduonvshengxiaibazijishuliweishicai。tamennenggou genjutaolunshicailaizhangwoxianghudepinweihexihao，bingxunzhaoxiangtongdianweixiayiciyouhuipupingdaolu。

2.旅游业发展

 nvshengyiban xiailvyou(chufeishitashigejiatingfunv)。ninengwenta，“nixiailvyouma？”"nijinqizhunbeichuqulvyouma？""nizuinanyiwanghuaidedachengshishisha？"zheixie。ziran，niyenenggou hetagongxiangdujialvyouzhongyouyisideshi，xiangtazhanxiannidezhuanyezhishihejianshi，bingkeyijiecijihuiyaoyueta，jiarujiaotanshunlikaizhandehua，kankannishibushinenggou hetayiqichuqulvyou，hetatantaoxiayigelvyouluxianguihua。

3.儿时

 meiyigerendoushiyouershi。zaiwomendiyicijianmianshi，womenkeyitaolunxianghutongniandelequhenankandeshier，bingwenlingyifangtongniandemengxiang。zhongjiu，tongnianshirenshengdaoluzhongzuimeideshihou。dangnvshengtaoluntongnianshi，tamenwubiyongxinnaixindilingting，bulunshidiandiantouhuanshixiaoronglaidafulingyifang，neiyangnvshengcaikeyizhenshijuededaoniduitahenganxingqu。

4、电视机、影片、娱乐节目等。

 shifenzhijiudenvshengxiaizhuiqiuxijubiaoyanhedapaimingxing。tamenxianzaikeyigenjushixingdezongyijiemuxianliao。dajianenggou yiqitantaohegoutongjiaoliu。zainilejieyiqian，ninenghenvhaimenchuangjianxinyoulingxi。suihouninengzaixianliaozhongqianrumohubuqingdeyaoyue，liruyaoyuetaqukandianying、xijubiaoyanhezhanlanhui。

5.未来的

 taolunjianglaishizhanxianninanrenmeilideqingkuangxiale。ninengrangnvshengjiandaonidefazhanqianlihezhuangzhi。ninenghetatanyitannijinqizaixueshenme，nidegongzuoguihuashisha，niweilaixiangguonaxiederichangshenghuo，zheixie。jilaoshizhongbubihenvshengtaolungongzuozhonghexuexipeixun，rangnidediyiciyuehuichanshengfumiannengliang。

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？shijishang，wogaizenyangdiyiciheyigenvhaixianliao？shenmejiaohaohuatitaolun？zheibingbuxiangmeiyigerenxiangxiangdeneimanan。yilianghaodexintaikandaitashihaoshier。jiarunizhuyaobiaoxianchunideyaoqiu，ninengrangzishenchuzaibuhaoyingxiangli。