聊天没话题怎么办？和刚加的女生怎么聊天？

liaotianbaodian：liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？henvshenglejiedequanguochengyaoruheliaotianbijiaohaoni?hegangjiadenvhairuheliaotian?zuixianyidingyaoxianzhangwotae!liaotiangonglvenaxiehao？gezhonggeyangfangfalejielenvhaiyihou，niyejiuhuilejieyaozenmehegangjiadenvshengliaotianle，hewangbianyiqikanyixiashijixianliaodefangshi ba!

和刚加的女孩如何聊天

第一步：找寻适合的话题讨论选择

liaotiangonglvenaxiehao？genjutouxiangtupian、nicheng、qianzi、shineikongjiandongtaixing、weixinpengyouquan、liuyanbanliuyandenggongbuxinxineirongxunzhaotadegerenaihao、feichangfangandeshiqing、yixiebenrendexiaoxiguan。liaotianbaodian：liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

例一：假如你发觉

①：她喜爱听周董。

②：她喜爱听万青。

③：taxiaidapingpangqiu。

④：taxiaimeiguodianshiju。

⑤：她反感王源。

⑥：tafanganbumingbubaidenannvaimeiguanlian。

⑦：tafeichangtaoyanchiboluo。

⑧：tayoumeirixinglaihouheyibeikaishuidexiguanxing。

⑨：tayoumeiriwanshangpaobudexiguanxing。

ninengtiaoxuannayigehuatitaolunxuanzeni?biaozhundaanshi②、④、⑥、⑧。

liaotiangonglvenaxiehao？zaoqihuatitaolunxuanzeshouxianxuanzelengmenhuoshencenglei、bingchansheng“taxiangyuguzhi”he“gongshang”dejushi。ziranqitaxuanzexiangyebubiwangjile、zaizhonghouqiyiranyoufeichangdadeyongtu。liaotianbaodian：liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

第二步：核心话题讨论，推动女孩

①：zhishicengmianyaoguang、wuxuquandoudong、dannaxienidounengshuoshangjiju。

②：quweijimin、naohuiluqingqierqiuchuleibacui、zheiermoliandeshigaoxiaoduanzichuzanglianghelinchangfahuifanying。landajiedegengjiubunengyongle、zongshijinikanqilaigengweifawei。zaoqifengqudefangshiyizichaozhudao、houbanqiyiheitazhudao、ziranbushishangsixiandeneileihei。

③：zaoqizuoyigedabiaodepenggen，bubifankeweizhu。dangyigehuatitaolunwanbishi，mashangcongtadejinjigexinxizhongxunzhaogangkaishixiayigehuatitaolundeguanjianzi，xianjieyaodangran。houbanqizuoyigedabiaodedougen、bubigaliao。nenggou  gangkaishigongxiangzishenyouqudexiaogushile、danyaoliuyiguanchaduimendefanyingsuishisuididiaojie。

④：huijueganliao。zaifajuehuatitaolunkaizhanbuxialaideqingkuangxia、qingxungetuocigankuailiule、zaiduojiangyijudoujianghuihuisi。

⑤：huanweisikaoyixia。nigaochuyixingzihouhuotiqianzhunbeijiangchuyijuhuashi、xianbazijidaidaodaotadebuwei、jiarunifajuezheixingzijirenyizhong“buqingchuhuiyingnaxiecaihao”dejuede、neimashandiaozheixingzi、zaidayixingzibingfanfuliucheng。xiangxinziji、bizoulongshedexianliaoganshoushimeiyigerendouxiaide。

⑥：xianrenyibu。zheiyinanyidujiaogao、zuixianyaoyouxiaoyucefenxitaduimoushiqingdeguandian、zaitameizhangkouqian、nixianbazheigeguandianjiangguo。zheiyizuofahuichansheng“sanguanhe、xinyoulingxi、qiaoyuzhiyi”decuojue。

⑦：nenggou jitayigezhuanxiangbiecheng、bianshiweiyounicaihuineimajiaotadeneilei。

⑧：congzhiqiandeweixinliaotianjiluhuotanhuazhongxunzhaohaoduogequweidegeng、zheizhonggengneimeyouquganwanbukeyixiaohao、anxinfanfuba、burongyilande。

⑨：buguanzenyang、yidingyaozhongshita、wanxiaoyaomingbaifencungan、tashidaodedixian。

第三步：操控闲聊节奏感

①：gaobaibingbushichongfengdehaojiaosheng、zhishihuoshengshidemingjinshoubing。zhongjiuziguyilaigaobaiduobaibiao、jihuhunyuanshaoyuangu。shangqubianshuo“wolongaotiancongjintianqizhuinini”、nipabushigeerlengzi。

②：zaoqininengmeirijijixianliao、dandaohoubanqiyidingyaoyizhizhuzishenyuwang、dengtalaiyueni、jiarutabuzhudong、neibianshiniqianbianzuodebuzuhao。ganwanbukeyirangtaganjueniyitiandaowanshashimeiyou、jiulejiehetahuche。

③：shengchanzhizaochedikekongxingdexiaochongtuxiaofenqixiaolengbaoli、zhangwozhangwofencun、zheiyiwanhaolanenggou xunsudetishengganqingjichu。

④：shengchanzhizaomingxianchajubizhao、bingbushishilengshire、zhishichangtaihuareyoushihouleng。

zhongzhang：xintai，gongxinweishang

nvhaiyixintaiweidaoxiangxingzuochujuece。yixiesuoshitongchangshizuinengweihaixintaide、bieyitiandaowanzhituzhetianyanmiyu、duozuoyidian、tabuxia、dounengjiandaode。zhizhiyouyitian、takouzhonghengzhe“benlainiyehenshuoaiwo、meiyouliyouaibushangjieguo”、tashijishanghuanshigaobudongweiheaibushangjieguo。

danzheibingbufangaitazaijiexiaqudemouyiyishunjianjiubianchenglenidenvyou。liaotiangonglvenaxiehao？tanaxieyemeixiang、zongzhi、gensuiqingxuzou、zheijiushinvhai。