老公撒谎怎么惩罚有效 如何让他吸取教训

 suhuashuo，meiyourenshiwanmeide，meigerendouhuifancuowu，zheiyeshibukebimiande。suoyizaichulibierendecuowushi，womenyinggaigengkuanrong，genglijie，youqishihunhou，lianggerenzhijiandeguanxiyexuyaotebiezhuyi。hunhou，womenbixuyudaozhangfudecuowu，suoyimeigerendouxuanzeruhechulizheijianshi？laogongsahuangzenmechengfayouxiao？

1.心平气和，不怒冲冠

 pipinghefapaibingbushiyihuishi。fapiqiyoushibujinwuzhuyupipingdexiaoguo，erqiejingchangshishiqingjianghua。zhangfuzuocuoleshi，huozheshuocuolehua，nibukebimiandihuishengqi，danruguonixiangpipingnengqudegenghaodexiaoguo，nibixuzhangwonideqingxu，pipingbuyaosiya，yinweinidefennukenenghuiyinqitaxinzhongdehuo，“yingpengying”duirenherendoubuhao。

2.多体谅，学会换位思考

 meigerendoukeyihenrongyidikandaobierendequedian，kanbudaozijidecuowuhecuowu，jieguohuidaozhixianghubaoyuan。yinci，zaipipingbierenzhiqian，niyinggaicongduifangdejiaodulaisikao，ruguoshini，nihuizenmezuo。buyaosuibianshuo“ruguoshiwozuodedingbinihaobaibei”zheizhongjiashegenbenmeiyoushuofuli，zhihuirangtagengjiabufu。

3.允许他申辩

 “hengkanchenglingcechengfeng”zheishihenduorendouzhidaodeshishi。laogongsahuangzenmechengfayouxiao？meigerencongbutongdejiaodukandaiwenti。henduoshihou，shiqingmeiyouwomenxiangxiangdeneimeshenqi，kenengyouhenduoweizhideyuanyin。youshihou，duifangkenengyoushuobuchudekunnan，dantamenbuxiangxiangbierentouluzijideyinqing。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，shouxianyaolejieqingkuang，jitabianhudejihui，fouzehenrongyiyinweiduishijianbawobuquanerzeguaita，shanghaitadexin，yingxiangnizaitaxinzhongdexingxiang。