老公说知道我心里没你你还坚持什么 老公心里没有你的表现

 henduorendouyouzheiyangdekunao，zhangfujingshenchugui，yaobuyaoyuanliangta？dagai，duiyushenmeshijingshenchugui，dajiadoubumosheng。jingshenchuguishizhiyihunnannvzaijingshenheganguanfangmian，aishanglehunyinyiwaideren。laogongshuozhidaowoxinlimeininihaijianchishenme？suiranmeiyoushizhixingdeqipian，danxinyijingbeipanlelingyiban。”neime，jingshenchuguisuanbusuanchugui？

yourenshuo：“dangran，jiranjiaojingshenchugui，neijiushichuguidelingyizhongxingshi。”

yourenshuo：“bu，yinweizhishizainaohailisikao，meiyoufuzhuxingdong。”

shishishang，jingshenchuguiheshentichugui，suiranxingshibutong，danxingzhishiyiyangde。

benzhishang，jingshenchuguiyeshiduihunyindebeipan，danzheizhongbeipanshiteshude。

zhiyushifouyuanliangjingshenchugui，womenkeyicongyixiajidianlaijieshi。

第一，他为什么精神出轨？

qishibuguanshishenmeyuanyin，jingshenchuguizuinengshuomingdeyidianjiushifuqizhijiandehunyinliangqilehongdeng。

wulunshinanrenhaishinvren，rendouhuiyoujingshenxuqiu。

zheizhongxuqiu，kenengshibeilijie、titie、chongbai、renke、zhuizhu……

ruguoyigerenzaihunyinzhongdebudaoneixinhejingshenshijiedemanzu，neimetajiuhuibamuguangtouxiangwaimian。

这就是人性。

raner，youxienanrenkenenghuiyouhenduogulv，bachuguixingweitingliuzaijingshenjieduan。

youxierenkenengheqiziguanxiyiban，dangengzhuzhongjiating，meiyouwanquanshiquzerenhedaode；

youxieren，kenengzhendexiangguofashengshizhixingdechuguixingwei，danhaipahuochengdanbuqichuguidehouguo，bulezhi；

youxieren，kenengzhishiyishixingqi，wanwan，buxiangfangqijiating，yebuxiangyaojieguo。

……

raner，wulunnayizhong，douyiweizheduiqizidebuzhong，hunyinzhongyoudayouxiaodemaodunhewenti。

二、精神出轨，要不要原谅？

xiandaihunyin，chanzalehenduodongxi，chengrenshijie，yebujinjinshiheibai。

guigenjiedi，fuqixiangchushishuangfangboyideguocheng。

jingshenchuguihou，shifouyuanliangqujueyunidexuyao。

 ruguonishiyigeyanjinglibunengroushazideren，nixiangyaodeshiyizhongchuncuideganjue，nibuxiangzaihunyinzhongshouweiqu，beishangdishenghuo。

jishinilikailezheigeren，niyenengzhaodaogenghaode。jishiniyigeren，niyenengguoshanghaorizi。

lihunhuofenshoubuhuiyingxiangniweilaideshenghuo。

suoyi，nikeyixuanzebuyuanliang。shijiezheimeda，huozhedoukaonisuiyi。

 ruguonimeiyoujineng，meiyoudulishengcundenengli，yebunengfangxiajiatinghehaizi，guanjianshinirengranaizheigenanren，neime，nibixukaolvshifou“youtiaojian”deyuanliang。

nei，shenmeshi“youtiaojian”deyuanliang？

 jiashetakanzhongjiating，niyouhenhaodeqingganjichu，taduijiatingyouhenhaodeganqingjichu，“disanzhe”aiqingzhishidanxiangsi，beinifaxianhou，zijiyouhuiyi；

huozheqipianshiyouyixiejiatingchongtuyinqide。

 neime，zheizhongbuzhongdehuifushibijiaoyoubawode。zhiyaonimingbaitaneixindeyuwangshishenme，duizhengxiayao，rangtagaibianzhuyi，yebushibukeneng。

 jiashetashiyigelianailangzi，xiguanxixinyanjiu，haihetazaiyiqi，“disanzhe”dadehuore，duihaizihenizijizaochengdeshanghaibuzhiyici，xingzhielie。

suoyi，nizuihaojiecijihuizaijializhangwocaizhengquanli，yiquebaonihehaizideweilaishenghuo。

 laogongshuozhidaowoxinlimeininihaijianchishenme？dangran，womenjudelizibingbushiquanbu，nixuyaozaishenghuozhongzixiguancha。bijing，jingshenchuguiheshizhixingchuguizhijiandejulifeichangweimiao。