为什么你总会遇上渣男

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一、为什么你总会遇上渣男

 dangran，duiyunanhailaishuo，dangniduzheipianwenzhangshi，nikeyilijieweishenmewozongshixiyinmouxieleixingdenvren。shouxian，congguanximoxingdejiaodulaikan，meigerendoukeyizixitiyanheganshou。renmenzongshirongyixihuanmouxieleixingderenhuopengyou。ruhejiejuehunyinnanti？hunyinchuxianweijizenmeban？

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yexunihuihaoqi，weishenmeyouxierenxihuanyansu、lengmoheshuyuanderen?

 1.liru，zhujiaodeqitazhongyaochengyuan(tongchangshijiazhang)congxiaojiuduitalengmoshuyuan。yinci，suiranhezheiyangderenxiangchurangtabushufu，danzheishitashuxiderenjiguanximoshi。yinci，yigehuaimoguishengguoyigehaodedanbushuxidetianshi。

 2.takenengshoudaoreqingderendeshanghai(liru，tadefumutaixiangjiejinta，congerqinfanletadebianjie)。yinci，zhujiaolejiedaoyulengmoheshuyuanderenxiangchushianquande。

 3.kenengyouyixiezhongyaoderengaosutabuyaoduibierentaireqing，huozhetakenengkandaobierenbeireqingderenshanghai...huidaowentishang，tongyangyixihuanyuyansu、lengmoheshuyuanderenjiaowangderenweili，suoyitajiangfeichangshanzhang(youyishihuowuyishidi)congrenqunzhongshibiechuzheizhongleixingderenlaijiaowang，bingqieyehuibikaireqingderen。

 lingyifangmian，niyehuiyouyishihuowuyishidibeiyunijiaowangdemouxieleixingderenrenchulai。yinci，renjiguanxishiyigexianghuxiyindeguocheng，shiyouyishihewuyishidibeishaixuanchulaide。

 qici，congziwopingjiadejiaodulaikan，yigeziwopingjiadiderengengnanzhaodaoyigehaodebanlv，yinweitarenweitabuzhideyongyouyiduanhaodeguanxi。

 jishitazhouweiderengaosuninengzhaodaoyigegenghaoderen，yetingbudaobierendeyijian，yekanbudaozhujiaodequedianheduizhujiaodehushi。zhidaoyouyitiantanenggoukeguandipingjiaziji，tacainengxiangduikeguandikandaoduifangshishei，yijitadexuqiushifoudedaomanzu。

yishidejiaodulaikan，dangran，xuduowentikeyicongzheigejiaodulaikan，qianlianggejiaoduyekeyibeishiweiyuqianyishiyouguan。

 suoyi，yexuhezhanan(huoqitaleixingdenanren)yiqi，manzuniqianyishidexintaixuqiuheyuwang。liru，youxierenduiyouyigehaobanlvgandaoneijiu。liru，yigenvhaidemuqinzaihunyinzhongbukuaile。duitalaishuo，xiangshouxingfudeqinmiguanxijiushiweitademuqingandaonanguo。tabunengyongyoutamuqinmeiyoudedongxi。liru，yixierenzhongyutamendeyixinglianfumu。

 liru，yigenvhaidefuqinjingchangbaoliduidaitademuqin。jinguantazaiyishicengmianshangtaoyanbaolidenanren，dantafaxiannanpengyouzongshiqingxiangyubaoli，fouzemeiyoujishibaolidenanpengyouyehuibeita“youdao”chengbaoli。

 liru，youxierenduizijiyouhenqiangdeyaoqiu:tamenxiangchengweiyigejiandanershanliangderen，suoyizheizhongziwoyaoqiuhexinniandaozhitahulveyixiekenengbeiqipiandexiansuo，yibianchengweiyigeshanliangerjiandanderen。daduoshurendouhuiyoujingjuegan。tameiyouhuozhetabuzijuedihulveleta。

 rengranyouhenduokenengxingbushiyicizhitidaoyigeanli，ershiweimeigerentigongyigeshijiaolaikandaiwenti。meigerendewentidouyiyang，danshimeigerendegushidoubuyiyang，meigerenneixindexintaishijieyebuyiyang。

那我该怎么办?

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