想要结婚这几件事你都想清楚了吗

 ☞ hunyin aiqingnengbaoxianma？ruhejingyinghunyinqingganhejiating？xiangyaojiehunzheijijianshinidouxiangqingchulema?jiehunqian，niyaozhidaodejijianshi：

一、想要结婚这几件事你都想清楚了吗

zheibudianyingmiaoshulerenleiheteshushengwuzhijiandeai，ruhekuayuezhongzuhejieji。

 zaixianshishenghuozhong，aixiangdapozhangaiyiyangjingchangshoudaorenmendechengzan。 raner，daduoshushihouwomentingdaodeshihunyindegainian，qiangdiaodeshibiciheshihepingdengdegainian。 gengduodeshixunqiugongtongdian，erbushixianghubuchong。

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 benwencongxintaixuedejiaodu，jiehedangqiandeshehuixingshi，tichulehunqianbixuchengqingdejidiansikao，yibimianduihunyinzuochucuowudexuanze。hunyinaiqingnengbaoxianma？ruhejingyinghunyinqingganhejiating？shouxian，aizhongyaoma?yanjiubiaoming，aibushiweiyikeyiweichidebaozheng luolan·mile(rowland miller)jiaoshouzai《qinmiguanxi》zhongzhichu，ziyoulianaixiadehunyinbizuichuwuniandebaobanhunyingenglingrenmanyi。

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 duonianlaiyizhiyanjiuhunyinzheigehuatideyuehan·geteman(johngottman)jiaoshouyezhichu，“qinianzhiyang”bingbuzhunque。yibanlaishuo，hunyinhuizailiangdaosannianneijingshouchongtuhecushilihundechongtudekaoyan。

 raner，zheibingbuyiweizheaibuzhongyao，meigerendoubuyinggaizhuiruaihe。 danshizaiwomenjiehunzhiqian，womenhuiwen，“niaiwoma?”huozhewomenshifouxiangai，womenxuyaozhidaowomenzaiwenshenme“ai” yinci，zaiwomenjiehunzhiqian，womenkeyihewomendebanlvjiuaiqingzheigehuatijinxingjiaoliu，huxianglejie，yimianwujietamenzhijiandeaiqing。

nishuoniaiwo(woaini)hexingfenhecijiyoushenmequbie?

nishuoniaiwo(woaini)shiyinweixinqima?

nishuoniaiwo(woaini)，chulejiqing，nihaibaokuoguanxin、xinshanghebaohuma?

nishuoniaiwo(woaini)。ruguoyouyitiannigandaoxuruo，nixiangguoruheshenghuoma?

nijieyishuoniaiwo(woaini)ma?womenmeiyouzhenzhenggoutonghuojieshoudequedianshishenme?

 zheixiewentidoushiweilebangzhuwomenlijieaidehanyi，bimianbaaiwurenweimilian、xinqihuoxingciji。tongshi，tayechanminglechuleaideganjuezhiwaitongyangzhongyaodezerenheyiwu。

 hunyinaiqingnengbaoxianma？ruhejingyinghunyinqingganhejiating？bimianyinjiqingermangmuhushibicihuoguanxizhongweijiejuedewenti，bingweihunyinmaixiaweibaozhadezhadan。