不结婚的话老了之后该怎么办

 bujiehundehualaolezhihougaizenmeban?youxiedanshennvxingjichulezuijingrendehuida。ruhejingyinghunyinshenghuo？hunyinqingganwentiyoushenmejiejuebanfa？

一、不结婚的话老了之后该怎么办

 tamenzheibeizibuhuijiehun。womenzuoshenmeniniyoumeiyouxiangguobujiehunjiubianlaodeshihougaizenmeban?yiweipengyoushuo，zicongtaheqiannanyoufenshouhou，tayizhizaichuangbiankongtayuelaiyuejuedezijihenkenenghuiguduzhonglao。

 ruhejingyinghunyinshenghuo？hunyinqingganwentiyoushenmejiejuebanfa？wobingbushibukewanghunyin，woyetanguojigenanpengyou，danshizuihouwoyinweigezhongyuanyinfenshoule，wodexinhenlei。 tashuo:“jinnianlai，woyizhizaichaozheyaoyigeren，danwoconglaimeiyouzhudongdashan，wolandejieshoubierendetanbai。”

 taduidanshenganjuehenhao，dantajingchangxianmubierenchengshuangchengdui。 tacengjingxiang，“ruguoniyibeizibujiehun，dangnilaole，nijiuhuishengbing，meirenhuizhaoguni，dangnisile，meirenhuizhidaogaizenmeban?”shishishang，tabushiweiyiyouzheizhongmafanderen。

wocengjingshoudaoyigeduzhedexinxi:“wobuxiangjiehunhuoshenghaizi。

 wodanxinfumuqushihou，wohuigandaoguduwuzhu。wogaizenmeban?”tahaipataandandeyejing。 jiuxiangribenjilupian《meiyoushehui》zhongyiyang，79suideluokeshandunvshi tayishengdoumeiyoujiehun。 tanianqingshishiyiminghushi，feichangduli。

 pingjiezijidenengli，tazhuanleqian，maileyitaogongyu。 yinweineishiwomangyugongzuo，budebuzhaogunianmaidemuqin，zheituichilewodehunyin，suoyiwoyizhidanshendaoxianzai。

 tamuqinqushihou，tameiyouqinqipengyou，zhiyoutaziji。 dangwoganmaoshi，meiyourenzhaoguwo。wozhinengzaijiaheyizhoudeshui。 wodeleaizheng，meiyourenkeyiyikao，shoushuhouwobunengchuqu，wozhinengdunjiqiangpozhengzhileidedongxi。

 yinwei，tabuzhidaotashenmeshihouhuizaicishengbing。 yinci，bingxiangzaisangeyueneizongshizhuangmanshiwu。 zhengdangwoqinpeitadeyongqishi，tashuo，jishiwoshiyigejianqiangdenvren，dangwoxiangdaowojiangguduzhonglaoshi，worenghuiliulei。

 ruhejingyinghunyinshenghuo？hunyinqingganwentiyoushenmejiejuebanfa？jinguantayijingweizijibaoliuleyigelianhemudi，danrengyou400duorenxiangtayiyanggududisiqu。 danworengranhuidanxin，“dangwosizaizheigefangjianlishi，wohuibianchengyiduimeirenzhidaodegutou。”

 xiangxiangdoujuedekepa neixiefenxiangtadeganshoudenianqingrenyebushimeiyoutuoxie。 youxierenfeichangnulidixiangqin，fumuzuomei，yuehuiwangzhangouda，pengyoujieshao...

 zhiyaoxiangtong，quanlidegegefangmian，doukeyibeijieshou tamenzhixiangzai30suizhiqianjiehunshengzi，weiweilaitigongbaozhang。 rengyougengduoderenzai30suishirengranweihun，yinweitamenhaipabeiyiqiheguduzhonglao，congerchengwei“danshenjiaolvhuanzhe” sihumeigerendouzaitixingni，meiyoujiehunderenlaolezhendehentongku。

 jishinijiehunle，niyebixumianduigudu。dangxuduorenbeipojiehunshi，tamentingdaozheiyangyijuhua:“nifuqinhewoxianzairengrankeyizhaoguni。dangnilaole，womenbuzaizheili，nihuizenmezuo?womendanxinnihuiguduzhonglao!”

 yinci，hunyinyijingchengweidaduoshurenbimiangududezuijiabinansuo。 danzhendeshizheiyangma?zaixiaoshuo《yijuhuadaoyiwanjuhua》zhong，chengshidexiejiangniuaiguofaxiantadeqizihegebidelaowangqipianleta。

 dangtazhuazhutashi，tazaimenwaitoutingtaqiziheairenzuoaideshengyin。 tamenmeiwanzuosanci。 nizhidao，zaijiali，taheqizidexingshenghuo，queconglaimeiyouzheime“jilie” ciwai，tamenjieshuhoumeiyoushuijue，tamenyizhizaishuohua，haoxiangtamenyouhuayaoshuo。

 guanjianshi，jintianwanshang，woheniuaiguoshuoleyinianduodehua。 taqijibaihuai，xiangsharen tabumingbaiweishenmeneige“wenroutitie，huizhimaoyi，dengtahuijiachifan”denvrenhuizuozheiyangdeshi。