婚姻给女人的忠告：女人结婚前要想清楚哪些事情

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一、婚姻给女人的忠告：女人结婚前要想清楚哪些事情

hunyinjinvrendezhonggao：nvrenjiehunqianyaoxiangqingchunaxieshiqing?xiabianrenmenjiutaolunyixiazheijigefangmiangaojieba，duinihenyouxiezhue，zheizhongnantiganghaoshijiangyaomairuhunyinshenghuoderenmensuojingchangerweihulvede。

1.多用心听爸爸妈妈的建议，不必一意孤行

zhongsuozhouzhirujindeshiqifashengbianhua，meigerenyouzishenzuozhudezhipeiquan，dangranzishendeganqinggengyaozishenzuozhu，keshizaiganqingzhongdenvrenchedirutongge，tamenzaiganqinglibianmeiyoutounao。

lingyifangzenmeshuohuaxinnaxie，tanaizhilianlingyifangdejiazhongyebuzhangwo，haiyaogennanxingsiben，zhilejielingyifangjiaoshenme，biededeyigaibuzhi，neiyangdenvrenlaidaonanxingjiazhongbaifenzhijiushishiguodebuxingfukuailede，zenmehuineiyang，jiushishuoyouyutameiyoutingbabamamadetiyi，yiyiguxing，budongnaojin。

2.完婚以前，一定要足够清晰另一方的情史

hunyinjinvrendezhonggao：nvrenjiehunqianyaoxiangqingchunaxieshiqing?xuduorenyaoshuoyiwangdedouzaoyishijiushile，buyongzaiquzhangwo。keshirendaoqingganshihuifantongyangdebuzhengque，zhangwoshiyibianfangfanyuweiran。

jiarushuohewotaqianrennvyouyouyubabamamayuangufenlide，biaomingtadejiarenshishifenjiansuankebo，tazishenzaijiazhonglibianmeiyouchongzudezhudaoquan，zheishihoujiudekaolvdaozishenshibushiheshineiyangdejiazhong。xiangjindezhuangkuangxuduo，dahuoeryidingbubiranglingyifangfanziqiqirendebuzhengque。

3.在婚前，不必随意与完婚物品发生性关系

jinguanrujinxingguannianjiaoweiduiwaikaifang，xuduorenyebingbushihenliuyizheiyinanti，keshizheibingbushitarenzaiyibuzaiyidenanti，zhishinishibushijieshenziaidenanti。

hunyinjinvrendezhonggao：nvrenjiehunqianyaoxiangqingchunaxieshiqing?yigemingbaiduizijifuzedenvhai，biyigehaokandanguanliancuoluandenvhaihaohenduo，youyuyuelingrenyouguishugandenvren，zaihunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangzhongshiyongjiazhiyueda，yeyueduohuobao。

lingwai，nvrenyidingyaogaoqingchuyigedadaoli，nidediyicisuiranhenguanjian，dannidediercidisanciyiyangbukeyisuiyi，zheizhongshiqing，gengshishenzhongyuegao，youxierenjuedediyicimeiyoule，zhihoudouyiyang，tashihenkongbudeguannian，youziganduoluodexianyiren。

4.在掌握另一方为人以前，不必随意定亲

zheijiushinifandediergebuzhengque。xiangqinyuehuilejiederen，nenggoushuoyigeyueyineihaibukeyizhangwotayibandebenlaimianmu，ruhenenggousuiyirenkelingyifangerqiefashengxingguanxibingdingqinni?

zheizhongyuwangzhishidoushidaozhinipobudeyijiejuesuoshu2genantideyuangu。quanshichengrenle，buxiangxinnibukeyigenjuyantanjuzhihejiaowangkandechuyigerendepinxing，zhangwoqingxilingyifangdeweirenyihouzaizuozhunbei，caisuanshidingqinyiqianyingdangzuodeshi。

5.经济发展上单独

buguanwomendoushidanshennannvhuanshizaoyijielehun，shijiushishuozishendejingjiduli，youyurujindeshiqizaojiubingbushinangengnvzhile，shehuijingjifazhandeneimakuai，nvrenwubiyaoyouzishendegongzuo，neiyangjibiannidenanshengnayitianzouleni，niyeshizhonghuozishendegongzuonengli，yaolejiezaizheiyiquanshijieweiyinengjiezhudezhinengzishen，naxieshuobailedeganqing，meiyouwuzhitiaojiandeganqingzaiduodoumeiyouyong。

zheihaoduogegaojie，suanzuojiquanbunvxingmenyigetishi，wulunzenyangbixutigaojingti，yousheizhidaozhihouhuichanshengnaxiejinizhuakuangdeshiqingni?