人到中年，离婚和丧偶哪个更痛苦

 rendaozhongnian，rutongyigefenjiedian。zhonglaonianyiqian，hunhaohaoderen，jiuhuifanguoyuegaoxing；hundebutaihaoderen，shirizongshifanguoyuecan。rendaozhongniandeganshoujiuhenduo，shenghuoburuyi，yizhiyuyixieyeyaoqinshenjinglisangou，sangshileyaoshouhouzishenyishengdeairen。

 neimarendaozhongnian，sangouheliyi，jiujingnajiagengtongkuyixieni？xiabianshi3geyouqinshenjinglineixinqiangdaderendejutiqingkuang，taolunyixiatamenshiruhekandaizhei2genantide。

一、夏女性：42岁，离异7年

 wo35suineiyinianliyi，xiaohaicaishangzhongxue。shenghuoburuyi，nageneishihou，gangliyideneishihouhentongku，xiaohaiyaoyigerendai，yeyaoyangjiahukou，shishishangguodeteku。neishihoufumuhewoshenbianderenjiuquanwojiang，35suiyebingbushitailao，zaizhaoyigenenggou。keshiweilebaobaoweitarenzhexiang，zijiyebuyuancouhe，woyeyizhihuijuebuzhao，fumujizhaodenanpengyou，yinweiwohuijuele。danshitingguolegangwanhundenei2nian，shirijiufanguoyuechangshunle。

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二、马先生：40岁，丧偶2年

 woqizilikaile2nian，wonanguoshangxinle2nian，daorujin，wohailingrennanwangtadelikai。2nianqian，renmen2geyuanbendayingnenggouyiqiquxizangchaosheng，jinxingrenmenliangrendexiwangde。danshiyichangshiliaoweijidechehuoshigu，jiushizheiyang，duozouletadexingming。

 wohenhenlaotianye，gaobudongweihelaotianyeyaoneimedicankuwomen，gaobudongtaxubuxuyaodaiquwowenroudeqizi，daiquwoxiaohaidema。talikailezhihou，wofumudouquanwozhaoyige，wohuijuele，yibeizi，woyeneimeyigeqizi，zaiwubiede。queshi，jiaruruguokeyidehua，woningkejianshou，doubuxiangyaotaliqurenmen。zheiyiduanshijianwozaoyisangshileshiqi，buqingchujianglaiyaozenyangzouxialai。

三、向老先生：52岁，二婚4年丧偶

 wogenwodeqizijielehun8nian，liangrenguodehentongku，yizhizhengchao。keshiliangrenweilebaobaoyizhizaiqiangren，yizhidianjizhezaijianchibuxieyixia，keshidaozuizhonghuanshichengshoubulefenlile。zhihoulihunzhihou，woyeyushanglerujindexifu，tarenfeichanghao，womenheqizidehaizihenyouxixin，yecongbuhuizaiyiwodeguoqu。erqieduixiaohaizidoushihenwenroude。

 woxihuanta。zaiwomenjiehunledediernian，tajiuyoubangwotianleyigexiaohai，shigeguinv，zhangdehenxiangta，hentaorenxihuan。danshixiaohaihaibushangyisuideneishihou，tabeichayanchulaiai，moqi，bushangyinianshijian，tajiubeibingtongdaiqule。talikailezhihou，woquanburendoubenkuile，wohenbunenggensuitayiqilaidao。danshikanjianneimaxiaodeguinv，tahaimeihaohaokanzheishijie，woyounanweiziji。zhihou，zaiqinrenhepenyoubuduanshudaohexiezhuxia，cikedexinqinglveweihaolayixie。rujin，yibian2gexiaohai，wozhiyouwanqiangdihuozhu！

 tinglezheizhongrendehuiying，wodexinlihenyoudadong，zheizhongquanshirendaozhongniandeganshou，shijishangwulunshiliyihuanshisangou，quanshirenshengdaoluzhizhongdeyidamolian，quanshiyixietongkudeqinshenjingli。keshirenzheiyibeizi，feichangshaoyouyifanfengshundeqinshenjinglide，yinciyaoshirenmenyongbaoyongbufangqidezhenxinshiyi，tongkudesuiyuedouhuixiangchu，guangmangdemingridouhuilailin。