挽回咨询：婚姻变质怎么挽回老公

　　hunyinbianzhizenmewanhuilaogong，zaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushidai，ganqinghaoxiangyerutongzhongshikuaicanyiyang，laidekuaiqulaidekuai。yiqianshengsiqikuodefufu，kenenghuiyinweiyidianxiaoshijiugebendongxi，zouxianglelihunlumian。danlihunhou，zhenjiuyiqiedoujieshulema?neixiewomenzuimeihaodehuiyi，zheixiegongtongduguodeririririyeye，weishenmejiuqueshizhinengchengweiguoqushi?

　　bu!shijishang，lihunbingbudengyuyiqiedouwufamibu。youshi，jinjinyishichongdong，huoshiqianqueyouxiaogoutong，caishidelianggexiangaiderenzoudaolezheiyibu。neiyang，lihunhaikeyifuhema?jinri，woyigezimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiuyaolaijiaodajia3zhao，rangzijiyoujiyuwanliuneiyiduanposuidehunyin!

　　第一招：理智思考，找到问题的根源

　　lihun，shouxianyaozuodebingbushijizhequwanliu，fanershipingjingxialai，haohaofanshengyixiazheiduanganqingzenmehuizoudaozheiyibu。haoduorenlihunzhihou，douchenjinzaitongkuyuaohuizhong，quehushilezheiyibudebiyaoxing。shijishang，jinyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei，caihuiyouwanliudehenyoukeneng。

　　neiyang，ruhezhaodaowentidebenzhini?nikeyishizhehuiyingyixiajigewenti：

　　dajiaweishenmehuichaojia?huiguyixiameicichaojiadechangjing，shiyouyushenghuofangshibuyiyang，yeshiyinweijiazhiguannianchuxianfenqi?shiyouyujingjifazhanyalida，yeshiyinweihaizijiaoyufangfa?

　　shiwoshenmezuodebugouhaodequyu?zaihunyinshenghuozhong，meirenjueduiwanmei。kenengshinihushileduifangdeganshou，kenengshinibingmeiyoujitachongzudezhichihelijie。tanrandijienazijidenanti，shiwanliudediyibu。

　　ta(ta)youshenmeyaoqiuwobingmeiyoudadao?meiyigerenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdouyougezideyaoqiu，youxierenxuyaogengduoshouhou，youxierenxuyaogengduozhongshi。huiguotoulai，nishifoumeiyoumanzuta(ta)demougeyaoqiu，caihuidaozhita(ta)xinrusihui?

　　genjuhuidazheixiewenti，niyinggaikeyidagaizhaodaoganqingchuxianwentidegenbenyuanyin。jilao，buyaoyiweidizhizelingyifang，yebunengtaobizijizeren。hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing，chuxianlewenti，bicidouyouzeren。jinyouzhimianwenti，cainengjiejuewenti。

　　第二招：复建联络，逐渐拉近彼此间距

　　zhaodaolewentidebenzhi，xiayibujiushiyaofujianlianxishangle。lihun，bingbudengyudajiajiubuhuizailianxishangle。fanguolai，jinyoubaochilianluo，caiyoukenengzhujianzengjinbicidejuli。

　　neiyang，ruhefujianlianluoni?zheierjigexiaoqiaomen：

　　yunyonggongtongdepengyouhuoqinpenghaoyoujiaruwomenyougongtongdepengyouhuoqinpenghaoyou，keyiliyongtamendelilianglaifujianlianluo。liru，ninengqingrenjiajigouyigejuhuihuodong，rangtamenhaiyoujihuipengmian;huozhenikeyigenjuqinpenghaoyoulaichuandaniqianjiuhewanliudeyixiang。

　　tuisongwenxindeduanxinhuodianziyoujianruguogandaolijipengmianyouxieganga，keyizhijietongguodianhuahuodianziyoujianlaibiaoxiannideqinggan。ninenggentashuo(ta)，niyizhizaixiangta(ta)，nihouhuizijidexiangfaqueding，nixiwangyoujihuinenggouzhongxinzhujian。

　　shengchanzhizao“qiaoyu”dehaojihuiruguonixiangzhidaota(ta)zongqunaer，nenggouguyizhizaoyixie“qiaoyu”dehaojihui。liru，neiniquta(ta)zuixihuandedifangkafeiting、jianshenhuisuohuoshishengtaigongyuan，jiazhuangyouyiwuyidipengdaota(ta)。suihou，ninengziranerrandazhaohu，liaoliangjuxiankuang。

　　fujianlianluodeguochengdangzhong，yidingyaobaochireqinghebuzhangyang。buyaojigongjinli，yebiejita(ta)taidayali。nixuyaorangqi(ta)kanjiannidechengxinziwogaibian，bingbushinideqiangpohejiuchanbuqing。

　　第三招：展现更改，再次赢得信任

　　hunyinbianzhizenmewanhuilaogong，zhongjianlelianluo，xiayibujiushiyaozhanshinideyingxiangle。jilao，liyishiyouyulianggerenzhijiancunzaidewenti，ernantidaduoshiyinweinideyixiexingweihuoxiguanxingrangqi(ta)nanyirenshou。yinci，ruguonixiangwanjiuhunyin，jiubixuyaozuochudiaozheng。

　　neiyang，ruhezhanxiangaibianni?zheierjigetiyi：

　　tigaozijideneizaixiuyangwomenkeyitongguoyuedushu、canyupeixunneironghuozhecanyuxiuxianhuodonglaitigaozijideneizaixiuyang。nixuyaorangqi(ta)kanjiannibiandegengjiachengshu、chenwen、youzerenxin。

　　diaozhengzijidewaizaixingxiangzishenxingxiangyeshifeichangzhongyaode。ninenghuanyigexindetouxing、maiduotaoyigexindeyifukuzi、jianchiduanlianshenti。nixuyaorangqi(ta)kanjiannibiandegengjiazixin、taiyang、youqizhi。

　　manzuta(ta)dexuyaoqianbianwomenshuoguo，meiyigerenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdouyougezideyaoqiu。rujin，nixuyaoyijuta(ta)dexuyaolaizuochudiaozheng。liru，tayaoshi(ta)xuyaogengduoshouhou，nikeyiduojishijianpeizheta(ta);tayaoshi(ta)xuyaogengduozhongshi，ninengqingtinghedongta(ta)deniantou。

　　zhanxiangenggaideguochengdangzhong，yidingyaozhenzhihezhangjiu。bubijinjinshiweilewanjiuhunyinerzanshizuochudiaozheng，neiyangzhihuirangqi(ta)juedenishigezaifuyanleshiheqipian。nixuyaorangqi(ta)kanjiannidegenggaishizhenxinde，shizhangjiude，shikeyiweilezheiduanganqingerfuchude。