花镇：分手后应该怎么挽回

　　yiguolianbiputonglianaigengnan，ruguofenkai，neijiugengtongkule。raner，ruguonirengranxiangjiunidenvpengyou，nuligongzuobingbushimeiyouyongde。yixiashicongduogejiaodulaibangzhunizhaodaoyixiekenengyouxiaodefangfa。fenshouhouyinggaizenmewanhui？

　　1，找出分手的原因

　　ruguonixiangjiunidenvpengyou，nibixushouxianzhaochufenshoudeyuanyin。yexushiyinweinimenzhijiandejulitaiyuanle，huozheshiyinweinimenzhijiandegoutongyouwenti。yekenengshiyinweinidejiazhiguanhegerenaihaobutong。fenshouhouyinggaizenmewanhui？zaixunzhaoyuanyindeguochengzhong，yaolengjingkeguan，buyaobasuoyoudezerendouguijiuyuduifang，fansizijidewenti。

　　2、重建联络

　　yiguoqingdiaobukebimiandihuidedaogezhongyuehuiruanjiandezhichi。danxuduogoutonggongjubingbuyiweizhenikeyigengjiejinnidenvpengyou。ruguowomenzaizhengchangdegoutongzhongyouwenti，womenyinggaikaolvruhediaozhenghegaijinta。nikeyichangshigaibianyizhongxindegoutongfangshi，birucongfasongxinxidaodadianhua，yunvpengyoufenxianggengduodeshenghuo，bingjiangtarongruqizhong。

　　3、用真心和关心打动她

　　weilezhengjiunidenvpengyou，nixuyaogengzixididuidainideguanxi。lejiegengduoguanyutadeshenghuoxiguanhegerenaihao，bingjitawenhouhezhufu。dangtajuedeniduitadeguanzhuheaibingmeiyoujianshaoshi，bujianmiandejulijiuhuizhujianxiaoshi。

　　4、应用付诸行动

　　shuoqilairongyizuoqilainan。ruguonixiangrangnidenvpengyouhuidaonishenbian，nibixufuzhushijian。nikeyixuanzejitasongliwu，huozhejitaxiefengxin，huozhezhijiequkanta。dangran，ruguotayouyidingdepaichigan，buyaocaiqutaiqiangzhidexingdong，yaotitiezijidexiangfaheganshou。

　　5、拓宽自己的兴趣和技能偏好

　　yongyouguangfandegerenaihaohejineng，bujinnengrangnigengshiyingyidiliandeshenghuoxiguan，hainengrangnigengyouqu、gengyouxiyinli。dangnibiandegengyouxiyinlishi，nidenvpengyouhuizaiciduiniganxingqu。