分手几天后适合挽回呢

　　fuqiguanxizhongyouhenduoquzhe，danruguonvpengyouturanshuobuxihuanni，henkenenghuichengweidajiajiechudezhimingdaji。raner，ruguonizhendexiangjiunidenvpengyou，yexuhuiyoujiuyuan。benwenjiangcongduogejiaodujinxingfenxi:“nvpengyoushuobuxihuanwozenmehuifu？”。fenshoujitianhoushihewanhui？

　　1.先平静下来

　　dangnidenvpengyoushuotabuxihuannishi，nidefanyinghenkenengshijiduandeqingxu，danzheimeiyoubangzhu。xiangfan，nixuyaolengjingxialai，zixikaolvnideqingkuang。kaolvyixianimenzhijiandewenti，taweishenmezheimexiang。kenenghennanguo，danshouxianyaozuodeshizhaodaolengjingheqingxidesikao。

　　2.思考和反思他们的行为

　　youxienvhaishuotamenbuxihuantamendenanpengyou，yinweinanhaizuoleyixierangtabukaixindeshiqing。ranhouwomenyinggaifansitamendexingwei，sikaowomenshifoufanleyixiecuowu。ruguoshizheiyang，neimewomenyinggaisikaobingchengrenwomendecuowu。dangniyishidaonidecuowubingchengrentamenshi，tajiangshiyigejijidexinhao，bingbangzhunichuangzaoyigegengqiangdadeshenfenhelianxi。fenshoujitianhoushihewanhui？

　　3.了解她的想法和感受

　　ruguowomenxiangjiuwomendenvpengyou，womenxuyaolijietadexiangfaheganshou。shizhecongtadejiaodulaikandaizheigewenti，zheikeyibangzhuwomenlijietadeqingkuangheqingxuzhuangtai。taweishenmezheimerenwei？tadeganshouhexiangfashishenme？yidanwomenlejieletadeqingxuheqingkuang，womenjiunenggenghaodilijieta，gengyouxiaodiyutagoutong。

　　4.找到解决方案

　　dangnirentongzijifanlecuowu，lijieletadexiangfaheganshoushi，nixuyaozhaodaoyigejiejuebanfa。tongchang，womenyinggaijianlixinrenhelijiezhijiandelianxi，yinweiwomendenvpengyoubuxihuanni。nibixuzhaodaoyigepinghengdian，rangtayishidaoniyuanyihuashijianhejingliqulijietadebiyaoxingheguandian，nihuiweitagaibianziji。ruguoninengrangtayishidaozheiyidian，neimenimendeguanxiyouwangzaicilianxi。