分手了说什么挽回比较有效

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　　1.积极沟通

　　buguanniweishenmefenshou，jijidegoutongdoushichenggongzhengjiuninvpengyoudediyibu。zhaogeheshideshijianzuoxialaihaohaoliaoliao，tingtingninvpengyouxiangshuoshenme。buyaohushininvpengyoudexiangfaheqingxu，lejietadeqingxu，baochiduitakaifanghechengshidetaidu。

　　2.提高自己的诱惑力

　　tigaonideyouhuolishizhengjiuninvpengyoudelingyigezhongyaoguocheng。wulunshigaibianzhezhuangfengge，gaishantiyuduanlian，xuexixinjineng，haishigaibianaidexintai，douhuirangnigengyouxiyinli。tongshi，womenyeyinggaizhuyitamendexingwei，yangchenglianghaodexiguan，biruzaoshangxinglaishuayahexilian，gengguanzhunvpengyouganxingqudehuati。

　　3.重建信任

　　weichiguanxidezhongyaoyidianshixinren。dangnifanleyixiecuowudaozhinidenvpengyouhenifenshoushi，niyinggaishizhezhongjiantaduinidexinren。nikeyichengrennifanlecuowu，binggaosunihuizuoshenmelaifangzhitongyangdecuowuzaicifasheng。

　　4.捡起一起一起的记忆

　　jiyihenyouganranli，nengrangrenhuiyiguoqudemeihao，yenengrangrenhuidaoguoqu。huiyiqinimenzaiyiqideshiguang、youdianhekuaile，fenxiangkuailedeshike，nihuigengshounvpengyoudexiai。fenshouleshuoshenmewanhui？zheiyangzuokeyibanidenvpengyoudaidaoguoqu，rangtazaiciaini。

　　5.给她时间和空间

　　zhengjiunidenvpengyoubingbuyiweizhetakeyizhuizhu，ruguotayizhijiuchanzheta，takenenghuigengkuaidilikaini。kankanhuifu，danyefourenduifangdexuanzejingyan，jitasuiyihekongjian，rangtayoushijiansikao。zheiyang，niyekeyiyoushijiansikao，genghaodiyishidaoziji。