花镇：闹分手很严重怎么挽回

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangbeishangdeshiqing，ruguoniyinweizijideyuanyinshiqulenisuoaidenvhai，neimezheizhongcuozhejiuhuigengjiamingxian。xuduonanhaifenshouhoudouxiangjiutamendenvpengyou，dantamenbuzhidaocongnalikaishi。naofenshouhenyanzhongzenmewanhui？yixiashicongnanhaidejiaodufenxi，jiniyixiexingdongjihua。

　　1，尊重女友的决定

　　fenkaizhengmingnidenvpengyouzuoleyigejueding，zheixuyaozunzhong。ruguoniyizhizaijiuchan，neimenibingbuzhenzhenglijietadeganshou，zhishixiangcongnizijidejiaodulaijiejuezheixiewenti。renheguanxidoushijiyulianggerenzhijiande，bicidouyouzijideaiheguandian，ruguonizhendeainidenvpengyou，niyinggaizunzhongtadejueding，jishinibutongyi。

　　2，进行自我反省和优化

　　ruguonibunengzunzhongninvpengyoudejueding，danzongshirenxing，neijiubuhaole。nibixufansiziji，zhaochunidewentizainali，nibixucongnaxiefangmianlaigaishan。tongshi，nihaixuyaozhangwoninvpengyouduinidebuman，weishenmerangtalikaini。genjugaibianzijidehuaixiguan，birupiqibaozao，rangzijibiandegenghao，bujinnengjizijidailaigaishan，hainenggenghaodizhengjiunvpengyoudexin。

　　3，提高个人能力

　　nvhaixihuanyouzerenxin、youzerenxin、younenglidenanren。xianzaishehuijingzhengfeichangjilie，meigerendouxuyaozijidezhuanyezhishiheyoushi，nanhaiyeshiruci。ruguoninengtongguoxuexi、gongzuo、shejiaohudongheqitaxingshilaitigaonidegerennengli，neimenidenvpengyoukenenghuigengxinshangni。zaigaishanzijideguochengzhong，niyekeyizhaodaoyixiexiangsizhichu，naofenshouhenyanzhongzenmewanhui？zengjianiyunvpengyoudejiaoliuhehudong。

　　4，积极沟通，给她空间

　　ruguonidenvpengyouyinweinimenzhijiandegoutongbudaoweierlikaini，neimeniyekeyizaifenshouhoujijigoutong。ruguonixiangjiutadexin，shizhehetahaohaoliaoliao，xiangbanfajiejuenimenzhijiandemaodunhewenti。tongshi，yeyaojitayidingdekongjian，rangtaxiangxiangzijixiangyaodeshenghuoheweilai。buyaoyizhijiuchan，yebuyaozhanyongtaiduodekongjian，fouzezhihuirangtagengbuyuanyihenifuhe。