花镇：和女生分手后怎么挽回

　　aiqingjingchanghuiyougezhongmaodunhewenti，youshishenzhihuidaozhifenshou。ruguonihenidenvpengyoufenshoule，neimeruhehuifutani？rangwomencongduogejiaodulaifenxizheizhongqingkuang。henvshengfenshouhouzenmewanhui？

　　1.思考自己的问题

　　zaiaiqingzhong，youshiwomenkeyibeizijideqingxusuokongzhi，zuoyixierangzijihouhuideshiqing。yinci，dangwomenhenvpengyoufenshoushi，womenyinggaishouxianfansizijidewenti：womenzuocuoleshenme？xintaibugouhaoma？haishinibunenglijieduifangdeganshou？zhiyouzhaodaozijidewenti，fansiwenti，cainengwanhuizheiduanganqing。

　　2.坦诚沟通

　　zailianaiguanxizhong，goutongshiyigefeichangzhongyaodefangmian。ruguonixiangzhengjiutadexin，niyinggaihetatanchengdijiaoliu。buyaoyangaizijidewenti，yebuyaotaobiduifangdeganshou。zaitanhuazhong，jinliangkeguanlixingdifenxiwenti，biaodazijideguandianheqingxu，renzhentingquduifangdejianyi。chengshidegoutongbujinnengrangmeigerendougenghaodilejieduifang，hainengzengqiangnimenzhijiandexinrenhehudong。

　　3.用行动证明你的爱

　　ruguonizhendexiangwanjiuzheiduanguanxi，niyinggaicaiquxingdonglaizhengmingnideai。liru，daitaqunimenyiqiquguodedifang，jitayifentebiedeliwu，huozhexieyifengzhenchengdexinlaibiaodaniduitadeai。henvshengfenshouhouzenmewanhui？xingdongshengguoyanyu，zhiyounizhenchengdetouzi，cainenggandongtadexin，rangtazaicixinrenni。

　　4.坚持改善自己

　　zhengjiuzheiduanguanxibushiyigeduanqideguocheng。zicongnimanmanhuifuletaderenke，niyeyinggaijianchigaishanziji，bingnulichuangzaoyiduangenghaodeguanxi。xuehuigenghaodigoutong，biaoxianchugengduodeguanxinhelijie，zheiyangtajiubuzaiyouyalihebuanle。dangnizhendechengweiyigegenghaoderenshi，nideguanxijiuhuigengqianglie。